being a BOTTOM and Shit

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    Jun 06, 2008 3:47 AM GMT
    like to bottom, but I dont do it too often. When I get fucked, I get embarassed because shit may start coming out on the guys condom/dick when he pulls out. Its gross.

    For bottoms, what do I do so A guy can fuck me and I dont have shit coming out?!
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    Jun 06, 2008 3:59 AM GMT
    Go to the drug store or and buy an enema kit and use it prior to your date.

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    Jun 06, 2008 4:16 AM GMT
    never understood masculine gay guys freaked out bout shit? thought it was only women who liked to welcome guys thru the backdoor who were freaked out bout this.

    Think men who do guys have been dealing with this for thousands of years somebody would have figured something out or just developed a tolerance to it. Like what did the greeks do?
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    Jun 06, 2008 6:28 AM GMT
    You need more fibre in your diet. There's another thread on here about this that also includes an informative article from the Manhunt doctor. It's called:

    Doesn't anal sex gross you out?
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    Jun 06, 2008 12:32 PM GMT
    fibre is good, yes.

    But for a planned session of fucking, douche. A clean bottom is a good bottom. If you don't bottom often, then just pick up COLT's Douche system. 15 bucks, reusable, don't feel to bad neither. Make sure you use warm water.

    For more frequent use, look into a shower shot.
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    Jun 06, 2008 2:18 PM GMT
    Hey... I got a private e-mail from someone NOT in the US continent asking almost the same thing...I gave my advise but I thought he could use plenty of advice from more than one sphincter that is Carrie's. LOL!

    Here he writes (in verbatim):


    I've always wanted to say hello but always felt intimidated. I thought it would be corny to just write and say- I think you have a wonderful personality. Although I still think so, I am also writing to you now because I seek advice from Miss Bradshaw of Dubai.

    Your tips for bottoming were an eye opener. So much preparation, who knew ;-). I'd never been at the receiving end and it was something I was dying to do. The ROUTINE that you posted was an eye opener. I did everything I could. The toothpaste stung like hell by the way :-(

    When the time finally came however, I was ecstatic- I actually managed to get him in. After that, panic set in. The sensation I got was as pleasant as taking a dump. Dunno if its weird but I actually liked it! However I kept making my fuckbuddy pull out because I felt like I was gonna rain on his parade. Eventually we had to settle for a jackoff.

    Also, maybe my prostate is missing, coz I didn't feel a thing! Or was that a size issue? I deliberately picked a buddy with a small and thin member. (maybe 4 inches).

    So tell me Carrie, what am I doing wrong? I've a fuckbuddy flying down from France in a few weeks and I was planning to give him a grand (ahem) welcome. However he is hung like a mule. Should I give this endeavour a rest? Am I not one of the chosen bottoms? Should I stick to top-ing?Help!!!

    Anal in distress.
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    Jun 06, 2008 2:22 PM GMT
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  • Up_Grade

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    Jun 01, 2020 6:48 PM GMT
    This is obviously an old post but for anyone wondering the same thing. As a bottom myself, eating a lot of healthy fibres such as bananas and nuts always leaves me clean down there. Drink a lot of water throughout the day helps too. I don't mean to brag but I've honestly never had this problem. Get "Pure For Men" they're tablets that you eat that help keep you clean. I always douche too but I remember one time I didn't, but I was totally clean! Thank God.
  • MuscledHorse

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    Jun 10, 2020 2:37 PM GMT
    Fibers help but it also sounds like you are not preparing sufficiently for getting fucked. I have a shower shot and i use it to prepare for play. The more I am going to be getting (both size and length of play are factors here) the longer and deeeper I will clean. Getting fucked by an average guy for a one-on-one session last maybe an hour does not require the deep cleaning a porn shoot, or fisting play or sex club/party orgy is going to.
  • seductive

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    Jul 10, 2020 9:30 AM GMT
    I take 2 enemas. Each one containing 2 bottle of water and other stuff. I boil my water, pour it into my enema bag, lay back in the tub, legs spread and let it slowly flow. I hold it in for 30 minutes to 1 hour. Never had any leakage or hershey kisses to end up on the guys dick.