Jul 21, 2007 4:50 PM GMT
So here's the background. 1 1/2 year relationship. Very serious from the beggning, both of us in loves, etc. We are great companions, but sex has never been the strong point in our relationship (have some comptability issues, etc.) but we're usually having sex at least 1/x week. We move in together a couple of months ago. Then about 4 weeks go by and we're not having sex. Doesn't seem like either of us are feeling it...but he's clearly not iniating. Then he tells me that he juyst hooked-up with someone at the gym the previous week. He's very remoreseful and says he regretted it as soon as it happened but in the moment couldn't really help him self... Any thoughts or ideas?