In all honesty, I know what you mean. I see guys regularly at my gym that are on RJ and have been to my profile repeatedly and I see them at the clubs, etc. and they have NEVER said "HI!" or even acknowledged me...One guy is a personal trainer@lifetime, with some awesome friends and buds...but I don't get so much as a "head nod" at the gym or in the clubs, nothing! Others in the gym...I would never want to disrupt their workout and you just leave them alone.....others I WOULD love to meet, but I have to wonder if they are real people, because they have a "last active" date of months ago or last visited me, of months ago or never......and the only time anyone tried to have a Columbus meet up , was in mid April, and NO one showed up....guess I will drop back to plans "B" and "C" to meet the man of my dreams... I guess RJ members are great talkers on line but just too busy to be "personal and real"....that's fine.
Really makes you wonder when you read all of the profiles and so many mention just how "chill", "low-key", "relaxed", "casual", "real", "easy-going", "down to earth", etc, guys could really be this way and still be so single and unavailable at the same time....Things that make you say "H-MMMMMMM"?