SkinnyBitch saidOh bullshit about this confidence crap.
Confident Comic Book Guy could strut in front of you all and get no takers.
An unconfident Chris Evans wins over confidant Chris Walken.
People say they want "confidence" (knowing that it comes with beauty) so that they don't sound shallow. "Confidence is a personality trait, so if I say that, it sounds like I value inner beauty!"
Looks are important. Not the most important thing for everyone, but let's not go telling the guy that it all hinges on confidence.
For you and me, yes; I'll take Chris Evans at any level of confidence. There are plenty of guys who would rather have Christopher Walken or Comic Book Guy, though; and there are plenty of guys that would rather have a confident man somewhere between Evans and Walken.
I can distill my thoughts on this topic, and all the other "Do X go for Y?" topics, into the following:
Some X go for Y; some X don't like Y and instead prefer Z, or Q, or other X. There's no apparent logic behind that, and if you look for the logic then you'll just be wasting your time. If you focus on being the best Y you can be, then you'll find your X.