Do big muscular guys ever go for the slim/small guy?

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    Feb 06, 2012 6:32 PM GMT
    Bro, you are 19 years old. You have a LONG life in front of you. Guys your age are probably very shallow and are more concerned with looks than older guys. The older you get, the more personality weighs in stronger than looks. If the guys you are after are too shallow to recognize a gem, then they're not worth your time anyhow.

    You have a good frame to start with, just keep working out, eat lots of good stuff and you'll pack it on in due time.

    In the meantime, CONFIDENCE can take you almost anywhere. You'll be fine.
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    Feb 06, 2012 6:38 PM GMT
    Trollileo saidJesus Christ. People are attracted to what they are attracted to. Nothing can change that.



    This
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    Feb 06, 2012 6:57 PM GMT
    jim_stl said
    ythings saidi like muscle guys too but im afraid they are mostly into guys with same build icon_sad.gif


    Some are, some are not. There's no way to predict. Keep trying. Etc.

    I am so tempted to compile a list of cliché RJ forum topics; this is #2 behind "does Pride help or hurt gay rights".


    This is so not #2. Seriously, this is the only topic today about this. There are about eleventy topics about republican candidates. Heck even animal cruelty comes up more than "do muscular guys like smaller guys"?
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    Feb 06, 2012 7:02 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch said
    jim_stl said
    ythings saidi like muscle guys too but im afraid they are mostly into guys with same build icon_sad.gif


    Some are, some are not. There's no way to predict. Keep trying. Etc.

    I am so tempted to compile a list of cliché RJ forum topics; this is #2 behind "does Pride help or hurt gay rights".


    This is so not #2. Seriously, this is the only topic today about this. There are about eleventy topics about republican candidates. Heck even animal cruelty comes up more than "do muscular guys like smaller guys"?


    Take the long view, young Padawan. Republican candidate topics will fade in time, but "are X into Y" topics are eternal like the phoenix.
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    Feb 06, 2012 7:07 PM GMT
    Ok but "person above yous" last forever and have like 7 of them running concurrently.

    If I ruled the Internet, they would be destroyed. Utterly and with no dignity.
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    Feb 06, 2012 7:09 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch saidOk but "person above yous" last forever and have like 7 of them running concurrently.


    Touché.
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    Feb 07, 2012 3:11 AM GMT
    imasrxd saidIf you like bigger muscular guys, you should ask them out when you see them. I'm not the most muscular guy in the world but guys have told me they don't talk to me because they think I'd only like muscular guys or guys with very low body fat. While I do like both those things, that isn't the only stuff that attracts me to a guy.

    While I understand why guy's fear/hate rejection, I don't think that should stop you. The guy might only like one armed, hunchbacks for all you know. It's just not that big a deal to get turned down and I'd hope he'd be nice about it. If he doesn't take your advance as a compliment even though he doesn't feel the same way, he's a jerk and you're better off without him. I never understood a guy who when asked out, says yes, gives you his number and then avoids setting a time/place to go out.

    Also, I agree with SkinnyBitch. People say they like confident guys but then they call them arrogant if their advance isn't reciprocated.
    Hmmm. I really like this post.
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    Feb 07, 2012 3:24 AM GMT
    Yay, Soul is back!

    * makes happeh face *
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    Feb 07, 2012 3:27 AM GMT
    I sure hope they do but remember each person is an individual and I'm sure a lot of guys think your attractive. Me being one of them, but then again I'm not a big muscly guy haha.
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    Feb 07, 2012 3:28 AM GMT
    iguanaSF saidYay, Soul is back!

    * makes happeh face *
    Oh my computer is crapped out, and I have been lazy in getting my friend to fix it. Hmhmhm... such a self-defeatist I am.
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    Feb 08, 2012 6:39 AM GMT
    they like me! abs r key ;)
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    Feb 08, 2012 5:32 PM GMT
    I'm not "big/muscular" at least when compared to some of the studs here on RJ, but I am tall, and I love a shorter guy, esp when they're a good/confident top. The confidence a shorter guy has in that role is a huge turn-on.

    In response to the OP's comment that bigger/muscular guys are only attracted to similar builds/size is, as a couple others have noted here - false. For sure some of them are, but its definitely not a guarantee.
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    Feb 08, 2012 5:38 PM GMT
    Honestly, just be attracted to whatever you're attracted to... even if you think it's out of your league.

    My experience is that tenacity is the name of the game. I've had friend who were pretty "meh" looking bed some smoking, smoking hot guys. My fat friend has a regular fuck buddy with a banging body and a fun personality.

    Just go for what you like. You'll get rejected of course - we all get rejected. I get rejected all the time haha. But you'll land what you want if you focus on what you want.
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    Feb 08, 2012 5:43 PM GMT
    Larkin saidHonestly, just be attracted to whatever you're attracted to... even if you think it's out of your league.

    My experience is that tenacity is the name of the game. I've had friend who were pretty "meh" looking bed some smoking, smoking hot guys. My fat friend has a regular fuck buddy with a banging body and a fun personality.

    Just go for what you like. You'll get rejected of course - we all get rejected. I get rejected all the time haha. But you'll land what you want if you focus on what you want.


    Very well said Larkin....although I can't for the life of me figure out why someone would reject you... ;)
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    Feb 08, 2012 5:49 PM GMT
    Where the fuck are they then? Lol.
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    Feb 08, 2012 5:50 PM GMT
    Larkin saidHonestly, just be attracted to whatever you're attracted to... even if you think it's out of your league.

    My experience is that tenacity is the name of the game. I've had friend who were pretty "meh" looking bed some smoking, smoking hot guys. My fat friend has a regular fuck buddy with a banging body and a fun personality.

    Just go for what you like. You'll get rejected of course - we all get rejected. I get rejected all the time haha. But you'll land what you want if you focus on what you want.


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    Feb 08, 2012 5:54 PM GMT
    Like other posters have said, it's all about confidence.

    Sure it can be intimidating to go after guys like that and there is a higher chance of rejection BUT it is completely possible.

    I used to get intimidated by bigger guys but now I just see them in a different way, so it makes things easier for me when approaching them. It's all just window dressing/ an illusion. In reality they are no different than anyone else.

    If you have a good looking face and a decent cock you've won 3/4 of the battle already as most gay men won't turn that down if they are looking to hookup.

    Don't sell yourself short and be bold. If you think your something special chances are they will too !
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    Feb 09, 2012 7:42 AM GMT
    Totally into smaller guys for the majority of the time. I think you look great and muscle tone would only help your outside appearance however it seems your inner appearance matches how good you already look. My advice is to keep being you but set goals for improvement. Fitness is a continual reassessment, setting goal after goal is how you get to where you wanna be and can be. I'll take you as you are though :-)
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    Feb 09, 2012 11:58 AM GMT
    ythings saidi like muscle guys too but im afraid they are mostly into guys with same build icon_sad.gif


    I think many muscular guys like smaller guys due to man/women gender role. No questionicon_biggrin.gif


    The question more like if musucular bttms want smaller top
    If smaller tops interested in a bigger, taller, stronger bottoms.

    Because most top prefer somebody smaller and twinkier.
    I don't think they will find taller and bigger guys attractive.