what do your ex's say about you?

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    Jul 16, 2008 2:56 AM GMT
    I REALLY don't wanna know!!!!
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    Jul 16, 2008 3:04 AM GMT
    dancerjack saidwhat do your ex's say about you?


    The last few definitely demonstrate my pursuit of "fixer up" men; boyfriends that I feel I can "help" or "improve."
    Thankfully, I'm now painfully aware of how dangerous that kind of relationship is, and have moved towards more mature men and am easing into relationships that could be described as "power couples." You know; those couples that were not only meant to be together for their own reasons, but were meant to be together to change the world in some way. Also, they're quite hot ;-)
    Quite a tall order.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 16, 2008 3:13 AM GMT
    Hey there Jack....

    Well all my ex's are females, I've only had one bf, who still is, so there are no male ex's.

    LOL

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    Jul 16, 2008 3:23 AM GMT
    Global_Citizen said
    Pattison said
    One gets on well, with all my ex boyfriends. I can still count them all on one hand too.

    A low number of boyfriends, yes, but somehow this doesn't seem to comport with your statement on another thread about having over 4,000 "encounters" in five years you worked at a bathhouse.


    In fact it works very well.

    Ones first Bf was at 17, till 19. The next for six months, then one for one year.

    I dated a police man while I worked at the bathhouse. We split when one was about 24. Not long after this One left bathhouse went bush, worked as a lumber jack. Did not date again until One was 30, and One is still in that relationship. Over 15 years. So the last time One split with anyone. One was 24/25.

    Lots of homosexuals have a bf and still sleep around, it's all apart of the gay community.

    Oh and yes One had a fucking grand time working at the bathhouse. How Aides ruined everything.

    It's all in One book, wait till it comes out....
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    Jul 16, 2008 3:29 AM GMT
    MikePhil said
    Global_Citizen said
    Pattison said
    One gets on well, with all my ex boyfriends. I can still count them all on one hand too.

    A low number of boyfriends, yes, but somehow this doesn't seem to comport with your statement on another thread about having over 4,000 "encounters" in five years you worked at a bathhouse.



    Oh, Pat blows a lot of bullshit.


    Thank for the laughter wee fella.

    Now One asked of you how many farms in Ireland have condos on em. You say it pissers you off, when people leave the treadmill running in the gym at your condo, and you also say you live on a farm in Island.

    You say your boyfriend dose not believe in the bible, and you give him that right. But you don't give anyone else this right?

    If you need to fob One off in this manner, to justify your own shortcoming, please do so.icon_rolleyes.gif

    But One feels you are trying shove One under the banner you belong under. If it helps you feel good about yourself. use One to prop up your own low self esteem.
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    Jul 16, 2008 3:42 AM GMT
    HMMMM...the first one is dead, so I hope he has better things to think about. The second would say I was an asshole, the third would say I'm too young, the fourth would say I was settling, and the fifth would say I was nuts. I should note that 3,4,5 were all either emotionally unstable or damaged goods. 1 was wonderful and I miss him everyday, while 2 was just not grown up enough to be in a relationship - though he was probably the most considerate and cutest by most standards...I don't think I'll get another Dior model in this lifetime.
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    Jul 17, 2008 4:26 AM GMT
    i think what my ex's say about me most clearly is that i need to be readier to reject people who aren't good for me. i get scared of hurting feelings, and then situations get drawn out way too far. i seem to look for people who are in some way unavailable also. not good. very frustrating when i don't get them (but then i shouldn't be surprised, since they weren't available in the first place)
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    Jul 20, 2008 6:11 AM GMT
    That I like them unkept (and ugly to some extent) 'cos they give me an illusion that I am with a straight man.

    Enough said.
  • dfrourke

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    Jul 20, 2008 6:15 AM GMT
    ...the most honest answer would have to be "ask them"...[I can provide emails if you wish]...

    ...I still care for all of them and hang out/talk with most of them...so, I would not be afraid of what they have to say about me...

    OK, maybe 'cuz I think we all have enough dirt on each other to stay silent! icon_wink.gif

    - David
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    Jul 20, 2008 6:19 AM GMT
    My ex semi pro football is still in town working here but I never see him as he works a lot in a hotel.

    He calls me at times to tell me how he misses me but he knows I have a b/f now for one year who is not with me but the Guy keeps trying!I like him but that's about it?
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    Jul 20, 2008 6:41 AM GMT
    Interesting thread.

    I've only had one ex, so not exactly a statistically significant sample.

    I guess that relationship says that I go for guys who are off-the-charts powerful emotionally, artists in practice and temperament, and are a really good fit for me, but whose lives are so full that they don't necessarily have enough left over for me to feel that they are as fully committed to the relationship as I am.

    That relationship made me really wonder whether my expectations about the level of interconnection I need are too high. I still don't know the answer to that.

    But on the plus side, I don't think I'm at risk of getting into a dysfunctional relationship, at least.

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    Jul 20, 2008 8:11 AM GMT
    Far as I can tell, taking a look at my ex just means I'm a sucker.


    Still hoping I learned something...
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    Jul 20, 2008 8:59 AM GMT
    DAMNicon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gificon_exclaim.gifhe's the BIGGEST ive ever had......icon_wink.gif