Jul 21, 2008 7:26 PM GMT
got some horrible news last night, anyone else had something similar happen? Just nice to know if I'm alone or not.
Guy I've been seeing for a while suddenly pulls back. Tough to reach, single word texts, won't return calls, rarely initiates communication, etc.
I'm fearful of becoming the "creepy stalker guy" so I just sort of let him be, while feeling a bit annoyed just because I wouldn't even treat a friend the way he'd been treating me, let alone someone I'm interested in romantically.
The blanks got filled in last night, he's seeing someone else, in another town. I'm the mistress!
He'd "totally be with me were it not for the other guy." I'm so glad I came in second place. Does wonders for my ego.
I'm a bit relieved, because his behavior makes sense. But it still hurts. Being rejected sucks. Being played sucks worse.
EDIT: Obviously, we're done. No interest whatsoever in keeping this thing going.
And for the record, I'm not all sitting-on-the-couch-with-Kleenexes-watching-Lifetime-movies-eating-a-pint-of-ice-cream ... I'm a big boy, I can handle it without falling to pices. Still sucks.
Anyone else had something like that happen? How did you cope?
Guy I've been seeing for a while suddenly pulls back. Tough to reach, single word texts, won't return calls, rarely initiates communication, etc.
I'm fearful of becoming the "creepy stalker guy" so I just sort of let him be, while feeling a bit annoyed just because I wouldn't even treat a friend the way he'd been treating me, let alone someone I'm interested in romantically.
The blanks got filled in last night, he's seeing someone else, in another town. I'm the mistress!
He'd "totally be with me were it not for the other guy." I'm so glad I came in second place. Does wonders for my ego.
I'm a bit relieved, because his behavior makes sense. But it still hurts. Being rejected sucks. Being played sucks worse.
EDIT: Obviously, we're done. No interest whatsoever in keeping this thing going.
And for the record, I'm not all sitting-on-the-couch-with-Kleenexes-watching-Lifetime-movies-eating-a-pint-of-ice-cream ... I'm a big boy, I can handle it without falling to pices. Still sucks.
Anyone else had something like that happen? How did you cope?