How Do You "Flirt?"

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    Jun 24, 2012 6:16 AM GMT
    Pontifex saidI flirt without even trying. I flirt with everyone. I don't even realise I do it. It has caused problems and confusion in the past. Apparently I've flirted with women. I don't have any interest in them. lol.


    Agreed. I am a flirty person by nature, so I do it without even realizing it. This sometimes leads to awkward situations I did not anticipate.
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    Jun 24, 2012 7:18 AM GMT
    catch said
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    i didnt see anything in that video about playing the cello naked... where did you learn that? ;)


    I guess you could call it improvisation. icon_smile.gif


    im impressed! maybe you can teach me a thing or two? icon_razz.gif
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    Jun 24, 2012 8:01 AM GMT
    I am actually kind of bad at this. I thought I had pretty good game for a while but I'm coming to terms with the fact that I really don't. beyond a head nod and a "how's it going," I usually don't have much of a canned flirt ready to go... icon_neutral.gificon_neutral.gif maybe i can download "game"

    icon_biggrin.gif i'll google that
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    Jun 24, 2012 8:10 AM GMT
    I am terrible. Lol. If I know the guy is gay, I will make eye contact and then run and hide. I am too shy!

    Once I actually hang out with a guy, you know, like a date. I will touch their arm, or 'hit' their arm open handedly. Eh, I don't know. I suck at it, and guys seem to get bored with whatever it is. Lol.

    But all is good, because video games and cookies fix that.
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    Jun 24, 2012 9:08 AM GMT
    Flirting is really easy when you've had a few drinks so I find personally that alcohol helps a lot.

    Usually I get someone on their own and start a conversation to try to find out as much as possible about them. I don't talk about myself unless prompted so to make it clear I am interested in them.

    Whilst doing that I use body language to let them know that I find them sexually attractive. I basically say 'I wanna fuck you' with my eyes. Throw in some compliments about how they look/ laugh at their crappy jokes and you have flirting icon_biggrin.gif

    I'd never do anything as blatant as unbuttoning my shirt or touching myself. I prefer a smoother approach icon_lol.gif
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    Jun 24, 2012 9:21 AM GMT
    catch saidThis chick taught me everything I know.



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    Jun 24, 2012 2:25 PM GMT
    Phoenyx said
    catch said
    Phoenyx said
    i didnt see anything in that video about playing the cello naked... where did you learn that? ;)


    I guess you could call it improvisation. icon_smile.gif


    im impressed! maybe you can teach me a thing or two? icon_razz.gif


    What musician worth his salt doesn't teach private lessons? I never charge for the first; we'll talk about "payment options" for all subsequent sessions.
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    Jun 24, 2012 3:25 PM GMT
    Flirting is fun and a way of communicating interest. For me, it's maintaining eye contact, smiling, and if the chemistry is strong, an innocent touch or caress. Some of the most intense flirting I've had has been only with the light in someone's eyes.
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    Jun 24, 2012 5:29 PM GMT
    I flare my nostrils and raise one eyebrow at the object of my lust, and ask "wanna play doctor?" It's been a total disaster.

  • Jun 24, 2012 5:34 PM GMT
    i dont flirt...when someone looks at me, look away or leave. its soo uncomfortable. they should just talk to you. lol
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    Jun 24, 2012 5:37 PM GMT
    Being rich, hot and slutty helps in flirting, from what I told.
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    Jun 24, 2012 5:46 PM GMT
    I don't really flirt, as far as I know. If somebody has my interest, ill just act like a gentleman and hold open the door or give my jacket if he's cold or something lol

    That's usually clear enough to let them know what my intentions are, I think. Sometimes ill try and hold eye contact, but that usually turns awkward quite quickly...icon_neutral.gif
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    Jun 24, 2012 6:02 PM GMT
    for sex
    - look him straight to the eye down to his boner then look back up to his eye lip lock and bang you got him.

    for relationship
    - look to his eye smize and smile then go ask his name then take him to arcade or invite him to gym and so on and so fort...

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    Jun 24, 2012 6:06 PM GMT
    1. walk up to them with a smile

    2. Start a conversation example "can i use your cell-phone quick"

    3. be calm cool and relaxed....

    4. Gratz you weirdo's now know how to flirt... if hes feeling it, he'll stay if not he'll walk away...
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    Jun 24, 2012 6:26 PM GMT
    I don't flirt. I just end up making out with people through convoluted nonverbal communication.
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    Jun 24, 2012 7:45 PM GMT
    bending over seems to work for me.

    then i tell them to make the check out to cash ($ cash, not RJ Cash icon_razz.gif )

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    Jun 24, 2012 7:59 PM GMT
    His questions are kind of absurd... I don't think any of those things "mean" something specific.

    That said, I feel like people who are strongly of one sexual position can fairly well sense their complimenting preference from someone else at a bar. There've been only a few times where I've hit on someone in public and they've said "Oh damn, but I'm a top"... and even in those situations, they were saying "I'm such a top" while they rubbed their asses against my crotch.

    When I flirt, I make and maintain eye contact. Then I go up, introduce myself, and tell the guy I think he's attractive. Things usually develop organically from there.
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    Jun 24, 2012 8:03 PM GMT
    awkwardly
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    Jun 24, 2012 8:08 PM GMT
    On the net/IM/phone text: with anybody, I can flirt effortlessly- although, it doesn't usually mean anything- it's more mindless banter than indicative of intent.

    IRL: with people I don't at all fancy: like a pro...

    ... With people who I do in fact fancy: total doofus.

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    Jun 24, 2012 8:12 PM GMT
    "thank you for answering my Craigslist ad..."
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    Jun 24, 2012 8:13 PM GMT
    so badly it ruptures a hole in time and space
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    Jun 24, 2012 9:55 PM GMT
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    This goes for the: "What no to do when flirting".
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    Jun 24, 2012 11:18 PM GMT
    catch said
    What musician worth his salt doesn't teach private lessons? I never charge for the first; we'll talk about "payment options" for all subsequent sessions.


    who said i was talking about the cello?
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    Jun 25, 2012 6:13 PM GMT
    I failed flirting/cruising school icon_sad.gif
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    Jun 25, 2012 6:29 PM GMT
    not well