MuchoMasQueMusculo saidMost of the bitchuz in constant need of validation on this site don't even appear as though they work out.
I enjoy the complimentary threads. It fits my nature. I would rather praise than tear somebody down, which is a sick habit for a few on RJ.
Also...criticism about validation and attention seeking?
ON RJ???? The picture of narcissism and superficiality? (The blind don't think RJ is anything special.) Those are as much a part of RJ as anything else. Whoring for MOTD votes, flamewars, posing in the mirror with muscles bulging; packages up against the camera lens...
We are human. We seek connection with other people. Some seek validation for some aspect of themselves. I'm an ectomorph ( I'll never look like MUCHO) and I use my words and ideas to connect. Those with muscular, fit bodies want validation for their hard work and dedication, so they try to connect with others that way.
I'll admit to seeking validation because I am seeing how my self perception is different from others perceptions of me. I throw myself out there to see what comes back at me. Years of hyper-criticism and neglect skewed my self-esteem.
For what it's worth.