Do you ever feel ignored on RJ?

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    Jul 06, 2012 6:21 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 said

    I only have a few on ignore. They are mentally unstable and I dont need their jiberish getting the way of other people.


    Ditto.
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    Jul 06, 2012 9:04 PM GMT
    Dallasfan824 said
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    FilmGuy18_notporn saidI totally sometime feel ignored especially if I message someone.

    FYI: If I message you, it doesn't really mean that I want to get in your pants. Sure sometimes my messages my seem a bit random, but if I message you its because I think I might have something interesting to talk to you about.

    I have to say that I sometimes feel like this. Throwing a sincere compliment or hello that doesn't even get a 'thanks' makes me feel pretty ignored. As for forum postings, I can't tell you how many I've closed down with the last comment. Maybe I'm a tad bit sensitive but, yeah, I feel sometimes like an outsider on here.


    Get some abs. That gets the response rate up icon_smile.gif
    Hmmm…nothing shallow about that! I would hope on here that abs wouldn't be a prerequisite for a response but I know it is.
  • HottJoe

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    Jul 06, 2012 9:33 PM GMT
    I'm fairly new to the site... Does a "hidden profile" on a forum mean someone has blocked me? If so, I guess I am being ignored by at least one. I have know idea why. I can only guess that he must be horribly jealous of me icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 06, 2012 9:37 PM GMT
    HottJoe saidI'm fairly new to the site... Does a "hidden profile" on a forum mean someone has blocked me? If so, I guess I am being ignored by at least one. I have know idea why. I can only guess that he must be horribly jealous of me icon_biggrin.gif


    No, you can temporarily "hide" your profile in preferences. When you do that your posts remain, but with the 'hidden member" designation.
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    Jul 06, 2012 9:45 PM GMT
    Aggieboy said
    I think I'm one of those who no one ever cares what I have to say :-/

    ditto
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    Jul 06, 2012 9:57 PM GMT
    WarmMoist saidThis is like a "yes I'm a loser" thread.

    Yes, I'm a loser.

    I have very little idea of what people think of me. I don't participate in any guy.above.you threads because I don't think of it as a good way to spend time. I might be ignored by many, or boring to many, or they might be afraid to interact with me in case I take it as flirtation (YECK GET 'IM OFF ME!). I can't read anyone's mind and don't want to waste the energy trying.

    I am pretty good at being self-sufficient socially, romantically and sexually (yes I did just say that), although I admit there are times when I worry that lack of response is a symptom of something I'm doing wrong.

    Ignore lists: I disclaim it at the top of my profile who I ignore and why. I don't think I have any ignored for personal reasons. It leaves you wondering WTF is going on in the conversation when you're missing posts. And even people you don't like occasionally post something helpful. Oh, and if someone decides to apologize in the forum, you'll miss it and it will look like a snub, and them moar drama ensues.
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    Jul 06, 2012 9:59 PM GMT
    bhp91126 said
    Aggieboy said
    I think I'm one of those who no one ever cares what I have to say :-/

    ditto


    Nah. I read!
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    Jul 06, 2012 10:00 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch said
    WarmMoist saidThis is like a "yes I'm a loser" thread.

    Yes, I'm a loser.

    I have very little idea of what people think of me. I don't participate in any guy.above.you threads because I don't think of it as a good way to spend time. I might be ignored by many, or boring to many, or they might be afraid to interact with me in case I take it as flirtation (YECK GET 'IM OFF ME!). I can't read anyone's mind and don't want to waste the energy trying.

    I am pretty good at being self-sufficient socially, romantically and sexually (yes I did just say that), although I admit there are times when I worry that lack of response is a symptom of something I'm doing wrong.

    Ignore lists: I disclaim it at the top of my profile who I ignore and why. I don't think I have any ignored for personal reasons. It leaves you wondering WTF is going on in the conversation when you're missing posts. And even people you don't like occasionally post something helpful. Oh, and if someone decides to apologize in the forum, you'll miss it and it will look like a snub, and them moar drama ensues.


    I like you if that means anything icon_biggrin.gif

    And I don't have anyone on my ignore list. If anything, the crazies and unstables bring entertainment to the forums. Nothing anyone can say will really make me lose any sleep.



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    Jul 06, 2012 10:05 PM GMT
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    MuscleBadger saidMy posts are ignored all of the time. I am used to it and don't really care anymore. The Plastics have a great time on here and I have plenty of friends in the real world. The guys with the healthiest self esteem are fun and include everyone.


    You may think your posts get ignored, but you get lots of attention.

    You're kinda like DisneyWorld...stay with me here.

    People look at pictures of the park all year round, dreaming of what fun they would have there. They would even stand in 100+ heat, for an hour, thrilled by the thought of riding MuscleBadger's Wild Ride.

    What??? Nobody else does that? icon_neutral.gificon_confused.gificon_eek.gif

    I need to get out of Orlando...I've been here too long. I've lost the boundary between reality and Fantasyland.

    ...and I need to stop looking at MusclesBadgers profile.



    NOOOOOO....You can't leave here!!!

    As for me, I'm ignored about 50 percent of the time and I'm damn good at ending "Guy Above You" threads.....
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    Jul 06, 2012 10:06 PM GMT
    My ignore list is empty, I have better things to do with my time than clicking twice so that I can ignore someone's posts.
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    Jul 06, 2012 10:07 PM GMT
    I actually hope I am somewhat ignored. For those that do pay attention to me I hope they get a couple laughs.
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    Jul 06, 2012 10:12 PM GMT
    charlitos saidMy ignore list is empty, I have better things to do with my time than clicking twice so that I can ignore someone's posts.


    Oh Carlos you kindness is too much.
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    Jul 06, 2012 10:58 PM GMT
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    SkinnyBitch saidYes, I'm a loser.

    I have very little idea of what people think of me. I don't participate in any guy.above.you threads because I don't think of it as a good way to spend time. I might be ignored by many, or boring to many, or they might be afraid to interact with me in case I take it as flirtation (YECK GET 'IM OFF ME!). I can't read anyone's mind and don't want to waste the energy trying.

    I am pretty good at being self-sufficient socially, romantically and sexually (yes I did just say that), although I admit there are times when I worry that lack of response is a symptom of something I'm doing wrong.
    I like you if that means anything icon_biggrin.gif

    And I don't have anyone on my ignore list. If anything, the crazies and unstables bring entertainment to the forums. Nothing anyone can say will really make me lose any sleep.
    icon_eek.gifI think you said I was ugly a long time ago. I might be wrong, it's hard to keep track of all of them.icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 06, 2012 11:09 PM GMT
    GAMRican saidI've got 44 trolls/asshats/sockpuppets who must feel ignored by me.
    That's how many are on my Forum Block list.
    I feel privileged and awesome* icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 06, 2012 11:11 PM GMT
    I have one asshat on perminent ignore. He's very stupid, hostile and extreme... he also lacks a sense of humor... so, he can kiss my ass. As for the other 2 guys on my ignore list, they seem to pop on and off that list with some irregularity. May be I'm too kind?
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    Jul 06, 2012 11:21 PM GMT
    Wish that bee that stung me yesterday ignored me. Arm was hurting all night long.icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 06, 2012 11:26 PM GMT
    MuscleLuke saidnod.gif


    this is what I look like when the guy at TCBY hands me my fro-yo
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    Jul 06, 2012 11:32 PM GMT
    Oh wait.. do I feel ignored... sometimes, but it doesn't bother me any more... Whatever.gifWhatever.gifWhatever.gif
  • Timbales

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    Jul 06, 2012 11:33 PM GMT
    I expect it.
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    Jul 06, 2012 11:42 PM GMT
    I'm not listening to you! icon_mad.gif
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    Jul 06, 2012 11:45 PM GMT
    JR_RJ saidOh wait.. do I feel ignored... sometimes, but it doesn't bother me any more... Whatever.gifWhatever.gifWhatever.gif
    Good for you! Making progress before our eyes.icon_smile.gif
  • Machina

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    Jul 06, 2012 11:53 PM GMT
    I don't know that I've ever felt ignored, but I have buried a few threads... icon_wink.gif

    I'm sure there are people which may ignore me, but then again I can't be everything to everyone, I can only be myself.

    People may not like me for who I am, what I say, the opinions I have, etc. but we all have that freedom to choose who and what we like.

    I haven't come across anyone here I truly don't like or cannot stand, and I haven't blocked anyone either. I enjoy reading what you gentlemen post, and contributing when I can.
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    Jul 06, 2012 11:58 PM GMT
    ^You don't get attention until your post count is at least several hundred. Gotta work your way up!


    Example of feeling ignored:
    I bumped the Caslon 2000th post thread because he now has 20,000 posts. But realized it was way down below posts from 2008. So I made a new topic for it where people could post pics of LOLcats, and I linked it from the other thread.
    Result: People are posting lolcats in the old 2008 thread. Maybe I'm actually dead and only children and animals can detect me.

    Another example: I use a famous avatar from the SomethingAwful forums and not one person has said they recognize it. How is that possible? It's such a famous forum.
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    Jul 07, 2012 12:02 AM GMT
    Naaah... skinnybitch... I think sometimes people just get caught up in the moment of posting and don't pay enough attention to which thread they are posting to.

    I will say that it was a very nice thing to start a celebration for Caslon's 20,000 post. It's nice to have something to cheer for today.

    Also, looking at the forums at the moment, it's a lot of people that I don't know. I don't remember the "Something Awful" forum, so a lot of others posting today may not. :-(

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    Jul 07, 2012 12:12 AM GMT
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    SkinnyBitch saidYes, I'm a loser.

    I have very little idea of what people think of me. I don't participate in any guy.above.you threads because I don't think of it as a good way to spend time. I might be ignored by many, or boring to many, or they might be afraid to interact with me in case I take it as flirtation (YECK GET 'IM OFF ME!). I can't read anyone's mind and don't want to waste the energy trying.

    I am pretty good at being self-sufficient socially, romantically and sexually (yes I did just say that), although I admit there are times when I worry that lack of response is a symptom of something I'm doing wrong.
    I like you if that means anything icon_biggrin.gif

    And I don't have anyone on my ignore list. If anything, the crazies and unstables bring entertainment to the forums. Nothing anyone can say will really make me lose any sleep.
    icon_eek.gifI think you said I was ugly a long time ago. I might be wrong, it's hard to keep track of all of them.icon_lol.gif


    Did I call you ugly? I think I would've used a more creative outlet than just calling you ugly.


    Did you do something to ruffle my feathers?