What Do Gay Men Want More: Sex or Relationship?

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    Jul 10, 2012 4:26 AM GMT
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    7Famark saidtmi limit reached for the day


    Oh, that was so not explicit. You are such a delicate flower. icon_lol.gif


    It was a joke. icon_rolleyes.gif


    LOL, I know. That's why it was expressed light-heartedly. icon_biggrin.gif

    I mean, c'mon, there was a laughing smiley.... icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:26 AM GMT
    jerarimong saidI would never in my life put sex before a relationship.. I'd rather go a life full of cuddling, kissing and hugging than I would only sex.

    Possibly why I'm still a virgin. Hah


    Unless there are medical reasons that prevent you from having a physical relationship - there is NO reason to give it up.

    It is like saying "I would rather have food than water."

    In the end...you really need both.

    And deserve both.

    Why is it a big deal to accept???

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    Jul 10, 2012 4:29 AM GMT
    intensity69 saidOK, I am trying to wrap my head around why so many questions on RJ forums are formulated as exclusive dichotomies. When did the world go all binary?

    But to address the original question: one dos not preclude the other... Far from it. A great relationship requires great sex. I'm with the sentiment expressed above "I want to have my cake and eat it too". And you can. icon_wink.gif
    Oh, when masculine men became the norm and feminine men became ostracized for not being the majority. Everything else was personal flame wars and camp battles over what ideal personally suited everyone, in the OP's opinion. True Story, total bullshit.
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:32 AM GMT
    I'm sick of this single and dating shit. In just the last 4 months I've been on dates with 11 different guys and slept with 3 of them... (thank you alcohol icon_rolleyes.gif )
    I'd rather have a relationship instead
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:33 AM GMT
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    jerarimong saidI would never in my life put sex before a relationship.. I'd rather go a life full of cuddling, kissing and hugging than I would only sex.

    Possibly why I'm still a virgin. Hah


    Unless there are medical reasons that prevent you from having a physical relationship - there is NO reason to give it up.

    It is like saying "I would rather have food than water."

    In the end...you really need both.

    And deserve both.

    Why is it a big deal to accept???

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    I never said I don't want to have sex. I only meant that I value one more than the other, and that if I had to choose between them it wouldn't be sex. You took it way too seriously.

    And no Its definitely not like saying "I would rather have food than water" because neither sex nor a relationship is a necessity for my survival. Since you want to take things so literally.
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:33 AM GMT
    k3l3k0 saidIn the last 4 months I've been on dates with 11 different guys and slept with 3 of them... (thank you alcohol icon_rolleyes.gif )
    I'd rather have a relationship instead


    I wasn't one of the 11?? icon_sad.gif
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:33 AM GMT
    k3l3k0 saidIn the last 4 months I've been on dates with 11 different guys and slept with 3 of them... (thank you alcohol icon_rolleyes.gif )
    I'd rather have a relationship instead


    STOP CHEATING ON ME!

    Oh...Matt too? Rude.
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
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    Josh1992 saidI prefer relationships over sex. I just like connecting with people and I feel like sex is something extra.

    Plus cum is disgusting



    +1


    Two cute guys who think cum is disgusting? What is this world coming to? Tsk tsk. icon_wink.gif


    I have extreme OCD and do not like sticky things. Thus cum is something I want no part of.


    OCD means you have to check 30 times to be sure you turned the stove off.

    It has NOTHING to do with acceptting being a Man and doing what Men do.

    FAIL.

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    Washing your hands every 10 minutes would say otherwise. I can accept what a man does but not on me.
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:34 AM GMT
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    k3l3k0 saidIn the last 4 months I've been on dates with 11 different guys and slept with 3 of them... (thank you alcohol icon_rolleyes.gif )
    I'd rather have a relationship instead


    I wasn't one of the 11?? icon_sad.gif


    No, Matt, you were not icon_cry.gif
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:35 AM GMT
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    k3l3k0 saidIn the last 4 months I've been on dates with 11 different guys and slept with 3 of them... (thank you alcohol icon_rolleyes.gif )
    I'd rather have a relationship instead


    STOP CHEATING ON ME!

    Oh...Matt too? Rude.


    Ah all those guys are just fillers until you get to Vancouver... oh wait you don't do the cold. Until I get to Phoenix
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:36 AM GMT
    msuNtx said
    Cash said
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    Josh1992 saidI prefer relationships over sex. I just like connecting with people and I feel like sex is something extra.

    Plus cum is disgusting



    +1


    Two cute guys who think cum is disgusting? What is this world coming to? Tsk tsk. icon_wink.gif


    I have extreme OCD and do not like sticky things. Thus cum is something I want no part of.


    OCD means you have to check 30 times to be sure you turned the stove off.

    It has NOTHING to do with acceptting being a Man and doing what Men do.

    FAIL.

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    Washing your hands every 10 minutes would say otherwise. I can accept what a man does but not on me.


    At the risk of crossing a line - probably already crossed - what, um, do you do with your own?
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:36 AM GMT
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    k3l3k0 saidIn the last 4 months I've been on dates with 11 different guys and slept with 3 of them... (thank you alcohol icon_rolleyes.gif )
    I'd rather have a relationship instead


    STOP CHEATING ON ME!

    Oh...Matt too? Rude.


    Ah all those guys are just fillers until you get to Vancouver... oh wait you don't do the cold. Until I get to Phoenix


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    Jul 10, 2012 4:37 AM GMT
    msuNtx said
    Cash said
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    Josh1992 saidI prefer relationships over sex. I just like connecting with people and I feel like sex is something extra.

    Plus cum is disgusting



    +1


    Two cute guys who think cum is disgusting? What is this world coming to? Tsk tsk. icon_wink.gif


    I have extreme OCD and do not like sticky things. Thus cum is something I want no part of.


    OCD means you have to check 30 times to be sure you turned the stove off.

    It has NOTHING to do with acceptting being a Man and doing what Men do.

    FAIL.

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    Washing your hands every 10 minutes would say otherwise. I can accept what a man does but not on me.


    I used to be extreme OCD too... huge germaphobe. It got *so* bad I would literally wash my hands for 45 minutes at a time sometimes. Just standing at the sink washing over and over. Ugh so glad OCD is behind me.
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:37 AM GMT
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    k3l3k0 saidIn the last 4 months I've been on dates with 11 different guys and slept with 3 of them... (thank you alcohol icon_rolleyes.gif )
    I'd rather have a relationship instead


    STOP CHEATING ON ME!

    Oh...Matt too? Rude.


    Ah all those guys are just fillers until you get to Vancouver... oh wait you don't do the cold. Until I get to Phoenix


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    Jul 10, 2012 4:38 AM GMT
    Well this kinda came about because I just got kinda bored of jerking off and actually wanted to have a guy that I could talk to and just know would be there for me... instead of Mr. Right-Hand, I wanted Mr. Right lol.
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:39 AM GMT
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    k3l3k0 saidIn the last 4 months I've been on dates with 11 different guys and slept with 3 of them... (thank you alcohol icon_rolleyes.gif )
    I'd rather have a relationship instead


    STOP CHEATING ON ME!

    Oh...Matt too? Rude.


    Ah all those guys are just fillers until you get to Vancouver... oh wait you don't do the cold. Until I get to Phoenix


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    does this mean the engagement is off? I hope not
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    7Famark said
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    k3l3k0 saidIn the last 4 months I've been on dates with 11 different guys and slept with 3 of them... (thank you alcohol icon_rolleyes.gif )
    I'd rather have a relationship instead


    STOP CHEATING ON ME!

    Oh...Matt too? Rude.


    Ah all those guys are just fillers until you get to Vancouver... oh wait you don't do the cold. Until I get to Phoenix


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    does this mean the engagement is off? I hope not


    I think I'll need a bigger ring.
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:41 AM GMT
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    Josh1992 saidI prefer relationships over sex. I just like connecting with people and I feel like sex is something extra.

    Plus cum is disgusting



    +1


    Two cute guys who think cum is disgusting? What is this world coming to? Tsk tsk. icon_wink.gif


    I have extreme OCD and do not like sticky things. Thus cum is something I want no part of.


    OCD means you have to check 30 times to be sure you turned the stove off.

    It has NOTHING to do with acceptting being a Man and doing what Men do.

    FAIL.

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    Washing your hands every 10 minutes would say otherwise. I can accept what a man does but not on me.


    At the risk of crossing a line - probably already crossed - what, um, do you do with your own?


    Shoot, take a shower within 5 minutes.
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    EVERYONE VOTE JUST_TIM FOR MAN OF THE DAY! Sorry just needed to say that.
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    msuNtx said
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    k3l3k0 saidIn the last 4 months I've been on dates with 11 different guys and slept with 3 of them... (thank you alcohol icon_rolleyes.gif )
    I'd rather have a relationship instead


    STOP CHEATING ON ME!

    Oh...Matt too? Rude.


    Ah all those guys are just fillers until you get to Vancouver... oh wait you don't do the cold. Until I get to Phoenix


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    You're sad too?! What have I done icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:42 AM GMT
    That is what you get for cheating.
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:43 AM GMT
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    jerarimong saidI would never in my life put sex before a relationship.. I'd rather go a life full of cuddling, kissing and hugging than I would only sex.

    Possibly why I'm still a virgin. Hah


    Unless there are medical reasons that prevent you from having a physical relationship - there is NO reason to give it up.

    It is like saying "I would rather have food than water."

    In the end...you really need both.

    And deserve both.

    Why is it a big deal to accept???

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    I never said I don't want to have sex. I only meant that I value one more than the other, and that if I had to choose between them it wouldn't be sex. You took it way too seriously.

    And no Its definitely not like saying "I would rather have food than water" because neither sex nor a relationship is a necessity for my survival. Since you want to take things so literally.


    really??

    try living without food.

    or water.

    or love.

    or sex.

    The length of of time you can exist without any of the above varies.

    But ALL are a MAJOR part of life.

    Why give up any one???

    And what was Yer point btw???

    I took your question as you posed it.

    Problem???

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    Jul 10, 2012 4:44 AM GMT
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    k3l3k0 saidIn the last 4 months I've been on dates with 11 different guys and slept with 3 of them... (thank you alcohol icon_rolleyes.gif )
    I'd rather have a relationship instead


    STOP CHEATING ON ME!

    Oh...Matt too? Rude.


    Ah all those guys are just fillers until you get to Vancouver... oh wait you don't do the cold. Until I get to Phoenix


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    does this mean the engagement is off? I hope not


    I think I'll need a bigger ring.


    I can do better than that. I should probably show you what I do for a living... the benefits my future husband gets are out of this world icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:44 AM GMT
    A meaningful loving Relationship with some sex along with a great guy.

    Just getting Sex is easy to find if you just want to trick or be a hoe.
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    Jul 10, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    k3l3k0 said
    7Famark said
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    7Famark said
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    k3l3k0 saidIn the last 4 months I've been on dates with 11 different guys and slept with 3 of them... (thank you alcohol icon_rolleyes.gif )
    I'd rather have a relationship instead


    STOP CHEATING ON ME!

    Oh...Matt too? Rude.


    Ah all those guys are just fillers until you get to Vancouver... oh wait you don't do the cold. Until I get to Phoenix


    icon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gif



    does this mean the engagement is off? I hope not


    I think I'll need a bigger ring.


    I can do better than that. I should probably show you what I do for a living... the benefits my future husband gets are out of this world icon_wink.gif


    Apparently you should show someone else those benefits. icon_cry.gificon_cry.gificon_cry.gif