Do You Say I Love You First.

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    Jul 13, 2012 11:51 PM GMT
    vomit @ you all circle-jerking over trolliodante

    anyway, back on topic

    even though my experience in relationships is limited, i never just throw around the "L" word. it has a lot of weight to it, and shouldn't be used so lightly. once "love" is a variable added to the equation, things totally change.

    my longest relationship was a year, and we didn't say that we "loved" each other until probably about 6 months into things. and even then, he initiated it first because even though i felt the same, i was too scared to vocalize my feelings because i was afraid it would make him run away.

    however, i think that most people, especially people our age, confuse lust for love. looking back at that particular relationship, i was definitely in lust and not in love.
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    Jul 13, 2012 11:58 PM GMT
    Ariodante saidI've never said it, never had it said to me.


    you may think you're witty and funny, but the fact of the matter quite simply is that you are not. in truth, you're an immature, egotistical asshat.

    and your "friends" enabling your behavior are just as despicable. grow the fuck up, you're too old to be acting like this. you life, your choices etc.
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    Jul 14, 2012 12:14 AM GMT
    getnassty saidvomit @ you all circle-jerking over trolliodante

    anyway, back on topic

    even though my experience in relationships is limited, i never just throw around the "L" word. it has a lot of weight to it, and shouldn't be used so lightly. once "love" is a variable added to the equation, things totally change.

    my longest relationship was a year, and we didn't say that we "loved" each other until probably about 6 months into things. and even then, he initiated it first because even though i felt the same, i was too scared to vocalize my feelings because i was afraid it would make him run away.

    however, i think that most people, especially people our age, confuse lust for love. looking back at that particular relationship, i was definitely in lust and not in love.


    He lied to you.

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    Jul 14, 2012 12:17 AM GMT
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    Ariodante saidI've never said it, never had it said to me.


    you may think you're witty and funny, but the fact of the matter quite simply is that you are not. in truth, you're an immature, egotistical asshat.

    and your "friends" enabling your behavior are just as despicable. grow the fuck up, you're too old to be acting like this. you life, your choices etc.


    YET Ariodante is one of the most popular and respected members on RJ.

    What EXACTLY do you offer???

    Other than your highway strip-mall tattoos on your below average body and yer nasty, third-rate comments.
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    Jul 14, 2012 12:20 AM GMT
    Oh, my......^.......icon_eek.gif

    Nevermind, just look over here, Miggy......LOOK over here........!!!

    See kitten?!? See how it look the way some humans almost look?!?!?



    funny pictures orange cat human impression

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    Jul 14, 2012 12:24 AM GMT
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    funny pictures orange cat human impression



    kitteh!
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    Jul 14, 2012 12:24 AM GMT
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    getnassty said
    Ariodante saidI've never said it, never had it said to me.


    you may think you're witty and funny, but the fact of the matter quite simply is that you are not. in truth, you're an immature, egotistical asshat.

    and your "friends" enabling your behavior are just as despicable. grow the fuck up, you're too old to be acting like this. you life, your choices etc.


    YET Ariodante is one of the most popular and respected members on RJ.

    What EXACTLY do you offer???

    Other than your highway strip-mall tattoos on your below average body and yer nasty, third-rate comments.

    Anduru.


    stay pressed old man! you're just mad i call you out on your shit and don't kiss your ass like the rest of your troll friends.

    talk about being delusional and suffering from a major superiority complex - you ain't shit!

    no wonder you trolls all circle-jerk over each other. you're all as equally pathetic and miserable.
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    Jul 14, 2012 12:38 AM GMT
    Ooops, sorry Miggs, Daddy was looking at some really hot dude on M4SN.....nevermind.....

    Ohhh....look at Billy goat!!! That's where the Queso Fresco come from!!!

    And you thought was Costco.....icon_redface.gif

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    Jul 14, 2012 12:39 AM GMT
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    goatgrass


    aww cute goat <3
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    Jul 14, 2012 12:44 AM GMT
    getnassty said
    Cash said
    getnassty said
    Ariodante saidI've never said it, never had it said to me.


    you may think you're witty and funny, but the fact of the matter quite simply is that you are not. in truth, you're an immature, egotistical asshat.

    and your "friends" enabling your behavior are just as despicable. grow the fuck up, you're too old to be acting like this. you life, your choices etc.


    YET Ariodante is one of the most popular and respected members on RJ.

    What EXACTLY do you offer???

    Other than your highway strip-mall tattoos on your below average body and yer nasty, third-rate comments.

    Anduru.


    stay pressed old man! you're just mad i call you out on your shit and don't kiss your ass like the rest of your troll friends.

    talk about being delusional and suffering from a major superiority complex - you ain't shit!

    no wonder you trolls all circle-jerk over each other. you're all as equally pathetic and miserable.


    Yet...you...just...can't stay.....away.......


    I don't think you came here to be hated and made fun of.

    If you wanna try it again....you may have better luck.

    No one holds grudges around here. We tend to throw punches and forget about it.

    BUT

    Ya gotta have something to offer.

    Look at some of the exchanges between Me and YourName20000.

    I am now friends with Him and His BF.

    Yer call.
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    Jul 14, 2012 12:46 AM GMT
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    goatgrass


    aww cute goat <3


    I think it's time for a PETTING ZOO BEER BLAST Boys!!!!!!

    Imma buyin'!!!!!!
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    Jul 14, 2012 12:47 AM GMT
    getnassty said
    Ariodante saidI've never said it, never had it said to me.


    you may think you're witty and funny, but the fact of the matter quite simply is that you are not. in truth, you're an immature, egotistical asshat.

    and your "friends" enabling your behavior are just as despicable. grow the fuck up, you're too old to be acting like this. you life, your choices etc.


    Agreed but let's be nice to him because no one in real life likes him. He even had to get that barbie doll nosejob but sadly it did not make up for his lack of personality.
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    Jul 14, 2012 12:49 AM GMT
    Cash said

    I think it's time for a PETTING ZOO BEER BLAST Boys!!!!!!

    Imma buyin'!!!!!!


    omg...I'm totally stealing a fuzzy sheep!!!!!! =D!!
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    Jul 14, 2012 12:50 AM GMT
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    getnassty said
    Ariodante saidI've never said it, never had it said to me.


    you may think you're witty and funny, but the fact of the matter quite simply is that you are not. in truth, you're an immature, egotistical asshat.

    and your "friends" enabling your behavior are just as despicable. grow the fuck up, you're too old to be acting like this. you life, your choices etc.


    Agreed but let's be nice to him because no one in real life likes him. He even had to get that barbie doll nosejob but sadly it did not make up for his lack of personality.


    omg srsly? wow, i can't even make fun of him for that.

    thats just, sad. icon_sad.gif
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    Jul 14, 2012 12:51 AM GMT
    I said it first most recently and I will never regret walking out on that limb.

    Last year I had it said to me and it was awkward .... the beginning of the end.
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    Jul 14, 2012 12:53 AM GMT
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    getnassty said
    Ariodante saidI've never said it, never had it said to me.


    you may think you're witty and funny, but the fact of the matter quite simply is that you are not. in truth, you're an immature, egotistical asshat.

    and your "friends" enabling your behavior are just as despicable. grow the fuck up, you're too old to be acting like this. you life, your choices etc.


    Agreed but let's be nice to him because no one in real life likes him. He even had to get that barbie doll nosejob but sadly it did not make up for his lack of personality.


    Low.
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    Jul 14, 2012 12:54 AM GMT
    As for the question, I've never been in a situation for that to happen yet. Saying 'I love you' should just come naturally.

    As cliche as it is, when you feel it's right and natural, you say it.
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    Jul 14, 2012 12:57 AM GMT
    dan_x saidAs for the question, I've never been in a situation for that to happen yet. Saying 'I love you' should just come naturally.

    As cliche as it is, when you feel it's right and natural, you say it.


    Aww that's so cute , but sadly love is a battlefield and many war games are played.
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    Jul 14, 2012 1:32 AM GMT
    Jamie said,
    "I feel like there is so much power in that word and if you say it first, i feel like that person has power over you. I know I may be overthinking it, but It just seems like the person who says it first is the "whipped" one.

    and then Suppose the person does not say it back, You basically left yourself hanging out there, and once again they have all the "power" or the "control" because you went there and they did not."


    I've never viewed it this way.

    I discovered that when I truly meant it and said it, it had the remarkable power to scare off the flakes. Those that were not flakes were honest and said they didn't feel the same way, and were kind about it.

    In vulnerability there is a great and powerful strength. icon_wink.gif

    I'll paraphrase Abe Lincoln and say that if you want to find out what someone's character is like, give them power over you and watch what happens.
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    Jul 14, 2012 1:45 AM GMT
    Take a chance and get lost in love... If you feel it, say it! No reciprocation needed.
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    Jul 14, 2012 4:57 PM GMT
    To say the word I LOVE YOU has to come out from the heart at the time your ready. Doesn't matter who will say it first, what matters is if your in love, and that day will come even if he was the first one to say I love you.

    Never say I Love You
    If you really don't care
    Never talk about feelings
    If they aren't really there
    Never hold my hand
    If you are going to break my heart
    Never say you are going to
    If you don't plan to start
    Never look into my eyes
    If all you do is lie
    Never say Hello
    If you really mean good bye
    If you really mean forever
    Then say you will try
    Never say forever
    Cause forever makes me cry
    .
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    Jul 14, 2012 7:08 PM GMT
    Snoop_Dawg_Cranky saidFirst? Hah, I don't say it at all.


    Oh stop trying to sound oh-so-jaded.

    You said it to Me the first time I jumped out of a cake wearing nothing but a top hat (although ONLY the first time).

    You said it to Me when I robbed a liquor store and gave you the money to buy new drapes for your dining room.

    You said it to Me when I shot that guy in the foot who tried to cut in front of you at the grocery store.

    It's like You can't STOP saying it!!!!!