gay guy in the gym

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    Jul 15, 2012 2:32 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidCasino,,be patient..make youself available without seeming obvious,...don't stare..don't drool..give it a little more time..I had a cool guy talk to me a couple times..he was smooth ..after a few times he stared the conversation toward working out and sex drives..till eventually i told him i was gay..we have a night planned to hang out and kik back a few cold ones !!..Be patient


    thanks! I want it to be fortuitous
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    Jul 15, 2012 3:01 AM GMT
    endo saidAsk him to spot you.

    Also, because you're gonna be wondering in about 45 minutes, #YCYL stands for "You Cruise You Lose"


    I laughed out loud - this was priceless.
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    Jul 15, 2012 3:12 AM GMT
    Firebrand saidYou Cruise, You Lose = if you go to the gym for any purpose other than working out or seek to engage in suspect activity at the gym such as hitting on, groping, or having sex with others, your gym membership will be revoked and/or the homophobic straight dude you hit on will beat the piss out of you.


    I'm sorry but I think you're ridiculous. I've made friends with many people at the gym (gay and straight, male and female).

    You assume that because a gay man meets another gay man at the gym- they will grope each other and have sex. Give us a little more credit! There is nothing wrong with approaching someone at the gym, having a conversation with them and developing a friendship or relationship. People need to live their life and find love in a variety of different places.

    Does your philosophy also apply to other daily activities? The only thing you can do at a grocery store is shop for groceries? The only thing you can do at a bar is drink? The only thing you can do at a mall is shop? We shouldn't interact with each other?

    And I think we have all dealt with the homophobic straight dude and we know what to do what that happens.

    Thanks- that's all. (I'm just sick of you jumping into posts and screaming your ridiculous nonsense to us)
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    Jul 15, 2012 3:13 AM GMT
    If you're not comfortable talking about how good he looks or asking a question about training, your options are kind of limited.

    Asking him to spot you is probably the safest bet. If he smiles a lot and you catch him looking at you in the mirror, I'd say go for it.

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    Jul 15, 2012 3:28 AM GMT
    Next time he is benching offer to spot him. Even if he says no, spot him anyway. When he is pushing the bar up, teabag him.
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    Jul 15, 2012 3:48 AM GMT
    bijockstl saidNext time he is benching offer to spot him. Even if he says no, spot him anyway. When he is pushing the bar up, teabag him.


    Brilliant
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    Jul 15, 2012 3:48 AM GMT
    bijockstl saidNext time he is benching offer to spot him. Even if he says no, spot him anyway. When he is pushing the bar up, teabag him.


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    Jul 15, 2012 3:52 AM GMT
    Wear a pineapple on your head.
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    Jul 15, 2012 4:04 AM GMT
    iguanaSF saidWear a pineapple on your head.
    Theres a symbol of hospitality for you. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 15, 2012 4:08 AM GMT
    I rather show him my killer legs
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    Jul 15, 2012 4:22 AM GMT
    you wil never know if you will get anywhere unless you two talk. so Talk to him!
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    Jul 15, 2012 9:24 AM GMT
    John6311 said
    I'm sorry but I think you're ridiculous. I've made friends with many people at the gym (gay and straight, male and female).

    And I think we have all dealt with the homophobic straight dude and we know what to do what that happens.

    Thanks- that's all. (I'm just sick of you jumping into posts and screaming your ridiculous nonsense to us)


    Says the dude without a face

    LOL grow a pairrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

    Also, have some gd manners and don't hit on people in places where hitting on people isn't appropriate. It makes you look desperate and sleazy, which you no doubt are, but come on now. Don't scream that shit out to the world.
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    Jul 15, 2012 9:54 AM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    Where the fuck do you live dude? Walton's Mountain?


    LOL. "Goodnight Gym-Bod".
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    Jul 15, 2012 10:09 AM GMT
    Scruffypup said
    Firebrand saidYou Cruise, You Lose = if you go to the gym for any purpose other than working out or seek to engage in suspect activity at the gym such as hitting on, groping, or having sex with others, your gym membership will be revoked and/or the homophobic straight dude you hit on will beat the piss out of you.



    Where the fuck do you live dude? Walton's Mountain? I've met plenty of guys at the gym and I've never been thrown out, and I've certainly never had anyone beat me down. You must be super obvious. icon_rolleyes.gif


    LOL! Well, there's a pop culture reference I wasn't expecting to see on RJ! Practically blew greek yogurt out of my nose. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 15, 2012 10:17 AM GMT
    Firebrand saidYou Cruise, You Lose = if you go to the gym for any purpose other than working out or seek to engage in suspect activity at the gym such as hitting on, groping, or having sex with others, your gym membership will be revoked and/or the homophobic straight dude you hit on will beat the piss out of you.


    It's amazing how many people seem to be misunderstanding this post. Based on my interpretation, Firebrand isn't saying you can't talk to people or make friends with people at the gym (which is the leap many of you are making). He's saying that you shouldn't go to the gym for the reason of "looking cute," having public gym sex, or "hooking up" later. The gym isn't Scruff, Grindr, Jackd, or Growlr. (Man, I wish the people who create gay apps knew how to spell.) If you become with friends with someone down the line and then hook up, no biggie. Going to gym to be creepy and stare at hot guys squatting or doing bicep curls and maybe do a little bit of working out? Not cool.

    All that said, Firebrand's gym sounds crazy gay. Maybe he should switch gyms.
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    Jul 15, 2012 10:34 AM GMT
    People tend to misunderstand 'YCYL, only because, apart from its being ridiculously specific to the gym and obsessively puritanical, Firebrand's definition of it is rather opaque.
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    Jul 15, 2012 11:22 AM GMT
    just blow him a wet kiss,then blink ur eye,looking str8 to his eyes and eyefuck him.Besides,u can shake his hand with a little squeeze.I believe he will get the message that u want to sent,good luck.icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 15, 2012 11:43 AM GMT
    Firebrand said
    Scruffypup said
    Firebrand saidYou Cruise, You Lose = if you go to the gym for any purpose other than working out or seek to engage in suspect activity at the gym such as hitting on, groping, or having sex with others, your gym membership will be revoked and/or the homophobic straight dude you hit on will beat the piss out of you.



    Where the fuck do you live dude? Walton's Mountain? I've met plenty of guys at the gym and I've never been thrown out, and I've certainly never had anyone beat me down. You must be super obvious. icon_rolleyes.gif


    My gym is full of gay dudes and some are super creepy

    Like totally tactless and obv and they don't stop staring even after I death-glare at them to try to get them to stop

    Super trashhhhhhhhhhy and they prob have STDs


    Grow up, boy.

    Why would you make such a hateful, ignorant comment? You wouldn't know tact if it punched you in the face.

    A mind that operates like yours tends to lead its body down the wrong path; if you don't already have an STD, you're well on your way to contracting one.
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    Jul 15, 2012 11:44 AM GMT
    Approach him. Just do it. I don't know if any guys are attracted to me and if they are they never say anything, just looks every time I go to the gym. It's frustrating. I wish guys would just come up and be like "wanna have some fun?" Enough with the "i'm interested but im playing hard to get" glances. What's the worst that can happen? He could laugh at you, then all his friends start laughing, then they report you to the gym, who then calls the police and then you end up on the 6 oclock news and who knows, maybe even CNN all because you hit on some guy. But I highly doubt it. Of course now if I could take my own advice (and I was single), my life would be easier. icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 15, 2012 11:54 AM GMT
    Firebrand is just stupid. Quite the annoying little shit.
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    Jul 15, 2012 11:59 AM GMT
    jhb_male saidFirebrand is just stupid. Quite the annoying little shit.

    He's just young and still trying to impress people. That's all. He'll grow up eventually.
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    Jul 15, 2012 12:04 PM GMT
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    jhb_male saidFirebrand is just stupid. Quite the annoying little shit.

    He's just young and still trying to impress people. That's all. He'll grow up eventually.


    you give him a lot of credit
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    Jul 15, 2012 12:11 PM GMT
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    pf008 said
    jhb_male saidFirebrand is just stupid. Quite the annoying little shit.

    He's just young and still trying to impress people. That's all. He'll grow up eventually.


    you give him a lot of credit


    There's a good person in there. I'm at a point in my life where I am realizing that being mean and negative or making nasty comments to people has never gotten me anywhere, nor made me feel good. I did that kind of stuff when I was younger, it doesn't impress people, it just makes a person look insecure, ignorant. I think everyone will come to realize that sometime in their life.
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    Jul 15, 2012 12:14 PM GMT
    pf008 said
    jhb_male said
    pf008 said
    jhb_male saidFirebrand is just stupid. Quite the annoying little shit.

    He's just young and still trying to impress people. That's all. He'll grow up eventually.


    you give him a lot of credit


    There's a good person in there. I'm at a point in my life where I am realizing that being mean and negative or making nasty comments to people has never gotten me anywhere, nor made me feel good. I did that kind of stuff when I was younger, it doesn't impress people, it just makes a person look insecure, ignorant. I think everyone will come to realize that sometime in their life.


    +1 to you, man.
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    Jul 15, 2012 12:24 PM GMT
    Firebrand saidYou Cruise, You Lose = if you go to the gym for any purpose other than working out or seek to engage in suspect activity at the gym such as hitting on, groping, or having sex with others, your gym membership will be revoked and/or the homophobic straight dude you hit on will beat the piss out of you.

    Normal, logical advice seems to upset some who read into it based on their own insecurities and hang-ups then lash out at you. special kind of lulz needs its own term.