HottJoe saidNot looking to start a flamewar, but if you meet guys on hookup apps, you're likely to end up with only one nighters. If you meet them at bars, you're likely to end up an alcoholic. If you meet them at the gym, at the very least you've found someone interested in health and self-improvement. I think it could be one of the best places to meet someone, as long you're not being a sleezy skeezeball about it.
" If you meet them at the gym, at the very least you've found someone interested in health and self-improvement. I think it could be one of the best places to meet someone, as long you're not being a sleezy skeezeball about it."
The only issue in exploring romantic relationships at your and HIS gym-----is that breaking up is more awkward. However, for making friends with common interests and LOCAL....it can't be beat.
BE OPEN. The new straight girl you chatted with on the treadmill beside you.....may have a DUDE for you.
I like the way you think balancing, cause you're right, you never know where something might lead you, even if it's something you aren't interested in at first. I'm always getting checked out by girls and it irritated me for awhile but I figured maybe she has a gay friend or her bf is bi. Never know.
I've talked to several guys at the gym, never any intention on my part but to learn something. They've always been very eager to help. I ask them stuff like what are the best exercises for certain body parts, or tell them i'm having trouble developing my upper chest , or i'll see them doing an exercise, and ask them what it's targeting if i'm not sure. Just stuff like that, nothing even remotely sexual. So there's alot of ways you can start a conversation and tell if a person wants to even continue making small talk.
One guy I started talking to, hot, piercings, muscular, tattooed, turned out to be a priest and after he started preaching, scared ME off. Wanted me to come to his congregation. No thanks. lol