Saying Hello To Mindless, Random, Hookups!

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    Jul 23, 2012 4:04 AM GMT
    IceBucket saidA). I'm far too nervous and restrained to let myself slip into B) no matter how much I may want to.


    Best answer that fits me.
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    Jul 23, 2012 4:05 AM GMT
    IceBucket saidA). I'm far too nervous and restrained to let myself slip into B) no matter how much I may want to.


    Odds are you'll get to (C) in the next 3 or so years..
    See those chissled cheeks you have...that boyish smile...
    Oooh..your'e gonna get it!!..OooooH !!icon_eek.gif
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    Jul 23, 2012 4:15 AM GMT
    IceBucket saidA). I'm far too nervous and restrained to let myself slip into B) no matter how much I may want to.


    I'm basically the same way. Just don't wanna slip into B, I feel the need to have my wits about me and to maintain a more "professional" image in my life right now.
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    Jul 23, 2012 4:15 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidF) uninterested in sex, a relationship, dating, hookups or anything else that relates to two parties becoming more then just friends.

    Hell, I can't even be bothered chatting a guy up these days, they just don't hold my interest at all... where are the intelligent guys who know how to have a conversation????


    They've evaporated into the maw of a massive blackhole that is Pop-culture. Thank you 16 and Pregnant, Jersey Shore, and the onslaught that is Nicki Minaj.

    My answer for the OP: I just got out of a monogamist relationship of a year, so now I'm tethering around "I'm lonely" so A with a bit of B and a dash of D? Yeah that's about right.
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    Jul 23, 2012 4:27 AM GMT
    I'm having sex with one person right now.

    Unfortunately I don't get to see this person on a regular basis (right now) so I am a-ok with being celibate.

    I don't have any desire to have sex with anyone else so I will hang with my hand until August icon_smile.gif

    I went through my skanky gay phase when I was like 19 and ever since then I have been pursuing a relationship. The thought of random sex now makes me cringe. Like hooking up Grindr or something makes me want to vomit lol.
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    Jul 23, 2012 4:36 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidSo many gay men go through a 'slutty' phase , then they experience a weird sexual burnout period..then they withdraw...and then they prioritize monogamy..!!



    This sounds like what they tell to addicts lol.

    Definitely option A- too scared to have random sex with random ppl
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    Jul 23, 2012 4:37 AM GMT
    running11 saidI'm having sex with one person right now.

    Unfortunately I don't get to see this person on a regular basis (right now) so I am a-ok with being celibate.

    I don't have any desire to have sex with anyone else so I will hang with my hand until August icon_smile.gif

    I went through my skanky gay phase when I was like 19 and ever since then I have been pursuing a relationship. The thought of random sex now makes me cringe. Like hooking up Grindr or something makes me want to vomit lol.


    This guy is awesome !!icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 23, 2012 5:44 AM GMT
    D
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    Jul 23, 2012 5:51 AM GMT
    CLS332 saidNew guy to RJ... Somewhere between A and B, but closer to A.


    +1
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    Jul 23, 2012 5:53 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidF) uninterested in sex, a relationship, dating, hookups or anything else that relates to two parties becoming more then just friends.

    Hell, I can't even be bothered chatting a guy up these days, they just don't hold my interest at all... where are the intelligent guys who know how to have a conversation????


    They're probably turned off by your pessimism.
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    Jul 23, 2012 5:55 AM GMT
    D here completely
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    Jul 23, 2012 6:08 AM GMT
    How about letter "F" for a guy who has had a good mix of boyfriends, slutty times, and now happily with the same guy in a LTR?
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    Jul 23, 2012 6:20 AM GMT
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    lilTanker saidF) uninterested in sex, a relationship, dating, hookups or anything else that relates to two parties becoming more then just friends.

    Hell, I can't even be bothered chatting a guy up these days, they just don't hold my interest at all... where are the intelligent guys who know how to have a conversation????


    They've evaporated into the maw of a massive blackhole that is Pop-culture. Thank you 16 and Pregnant, Jersey Shore, and the onslaught that is Nicki Minaj.

    My answer for the OP: I just got out of a monogamist relationship of a year, so now I'm tethering around "I'm lonely" so A with a bit of B and a dash of D? Yeah that's about right.


    You said it..just avoid C..please
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:47 PM GMT
    Anocxu said
    IceBucket saidA). I'm far too nervous and restrained to let myself slip into B) no matter how much I may want to.


    Odds are you'll get to (C) in the next 3 or so years..
    See those chissled cheeks you have...that boyish smile...
    Oooh..your'e gonna get it!!..OooooH !!icon_eek.gif

    Hahaha....wait..what? icon_eek.gif
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:54 PM GMT
    IceBucket said
    Anocxu said
    IceBucket saidA). I'm far too nervous and restrained to let myself slip into B) no matter how much I may want to.


    Odds are you'll get to (C) in the next 3 or so years..
    See those chissled cheeks you have...that boyish smile...
    Oooh..your'e gonna get it!!..OooooH !!icon_eek.gif

    Hahaha....wait..what? icon_eek.gif


    Hey..i call it like i see it..start putting a "Slutt Kit" together..
    Or just get... Knee Pads...With Wheels !!..icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:55 PM GMT
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    Jul 23, 2012 3:59 PM GMT
    A and D, maybe B if I lived downtown but fortunately I don't lol
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    Jul 23, 2012 4:14 PM GMT
    Dear Dr RJ,

    I read your column and realize I've been a level A Gay for some time now. I tried applying alcohol to kick start the B phase, but found that by the end of the night I was only lusting after a hamburger rather than a man-burger.
    Should I be worried that I am in a state of arrested development? I don't want to be left behind my RG peers. icon_sad.gif

    Sincerely,
    Tasting Only Monogamy
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    Jul 23, 2012 4:51 PM GMT
    Anocxu said
    IceBucket said
    Anocxu said
    IceBucket saidA). I'm far too nervous and restrained to let myself slip into B) no matter how much I may want to.


    Odds are you'll get to (C) in the next 3 or so years..
    See those chissled cheeks you have...that boyish smile...
    Oooh..your'e gonna get it!!..OooooH !!icon_eek.gif

    Hahaha....wait..what? icon_eek.gif


    Hey..i call it like i see it..start putting a "Slutt Kit" together..
    Or just get... Knee Pads...With Wheels !!..icon_biggrin.gif

    I understand the kneepads but why do they need wheels? icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 23, 2012 4:56 PM GMT
    Boink every thing that moves.

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    Jul 23, 2012 5:01 PM GMT
    IceBucket said
    Anocxu said
    IceBucket said
    Anocxu said
    IceBucket saidA). I'm far too nervous and restrained to let myself slip into B) no matter how much I may want to.


    Odds are you'll get to (C) in the next 3 or so years..
    See those chissled cheeks you have...that boyish smile...
    Oooh..your'e gonna get it!!..OooooH !!icon_eek.gif

    Hahaha....wait..what? icon_eek.gif


    Hey..i call it like i see it..start putting a "Slutt Kit" together..
    Or just get... Knee Pads...With Wheels !!..icon_biggrin.gif

    I understand the kneepads but why do they need wheels? icon_confused.gif


    LMAO..I will not tell you..just to keep it interesting !!
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    Jul 23, 2012 6:23 PM GMT
    I keep yo-yoing between B and D icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 23, 2012 6:40 PM GMT
    Z.) The guy who seems slutty, but never hooks-up, makes friends, can have great sex without becoming attached, is not opposed to dating, does not want to be monogamous phase.
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    Jul 23, 2012 6:55 PM GMT
    spell B.A.D.

    B. if theres a hot guy with different nationality that i didnt experience before and he do the first move heaven yes!!
    A. ill search later what is the meaning
    D. ill do it if i get sober..
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    Jul 24, 2012 3:12 PM GMT
    myLoveAngel saidspell B.A.D.

    B. if theres a hot guy with different nationality that i didnt experience before and he do the first move heaven yes!!
    A. ill search later what is the meaning
    D. ill do it if i get sober..


    LMAO...Wow !!