Saying Hello To Mindless, Random, Hookups!

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    Jul 24, 2012 9:09 PM GMT
    probably E

    i am a little embarrassed about my behaviour as a teen. when i first discovered hookups, i was doing all sorts of things, and am very lucky to be healthy and safe.

    for some reason, through no concious coice or anything, i just couldnt do a one nighter without at least knowing someone for a few dates or something. people are a lot more attractive when you like their brain/mind as well as thier body.

    HOWEVER.... every now and then i do bump into someone, *cough AJ from my gym *cough
    and think god if i was single and you wanted me right now, i would absolutely jump all over you.

    but i think this is normal, at least for me.
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    Jul 24, 2012 9:24 PM GMT
    lucky_sevn saidprobably E

    i am a little embarrassed about my behaviour as a teen. when i first discovered hookups, i was doing all sorts of things, and am very lucky to be healthy and safe.

    for some reason, through no concious coice or anything, i just couldnt do a one nighter without at least knowing someone for a few dates or something. people are a lot more attractive when you like their brain/mind as well as thier body.

    HOWEVER.... every now and then i do bump into someone, *cough AJ from my gym *cough
    and think god if i was single and you wanted me right now, i would absolutely jump all over you.

    but i think this is normal, at least for me.


    All Fu*ked out..(C)
    (shhh it'l be our little secret)
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    Jul 24, 2012 10:11 PM GMT
    Anocxu said
    lucky_sevn saidprobably E

    i am a little embarrassed about my behaviour as a teen. when i first discovered hookups, i was doing all sorts of things, and am very lucky to be healthy and safe.

    for some reason, through no concious coice or anything, i just couldnt do a one nighter without at least knowing someone for a few dates or something. people are a lot more attractive when you like their brain/mind as well as thier body.

    HOWEVER.... every now and then i do bump into someone, *cough AJ from my gym *cough
    and think god if i was single and you wanted me right now, i would absolutely jump all over you.

    but i think this is normal, at least for me.


    All Fu*ked out..(C)
    (shhh it'l be our little secret)


    HA!!!

    spooky, you should be a tv psychic
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    Jul 24, 2012 10:20 PM GMT
    sirdreamalott saidi'm still in the virgin phase

    Same here!
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    Jul 25, 2012 2:49 PM GMT
    D mindset, B attitude. Slowly becoming convinced that the two aren't compatible.

    I'll find Jesus and become a born-again A
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    Jul 26, 2012 3:22 AM GMT
    I'm finding that I'm in the phase of wanting sexual stuff in the context of a real relationship. Not sure what phase that pouts me in.
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    Jul 26, 2012 3:33 AM GMT
    n8698u saidG) Too busy with duties. Ready to shag like a randy monkey.


    Heck, THIS!!!
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    Jul 26, 2012 7:42 AM GMT
    F.....or maybe more A
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    Jul 26, 2012 7:59 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidSo many gay men go through a 'slutty' phase , then they experience a weird sexual burnout period..then they withdraw...and then they prioritize monogamy..!!

    What phase are you going through??

    A) Novice/ Prudish?
    B) Slutty?
    C) Totally Fucked out?
    D) Withdrawal, currently celibate and ready for monogamy?
    E) You bounce back and fourth between A,B,C and D..??

    Very interested to hear what you have to say...Anocxuicon_biggrin.gif



    Oh this sums it up nicely! icon_lol.gif

    I'd be in the C) phase I suppose.
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    Jul 26, 2012 8:19 AM GMT
    Anocxu saidSo many gay men go through a 'slutty' phase , then they experience a weird sexual burnout period..then they withdraw...and then they prioritize monogamy..!!

    What phase are you going through??

    A) Novice/ Prudish?
    B) Slutty?
    C) Totally Fucked out?
    D) Withdrawal, currently celibate and ready for monogamy?
    E) You bounce back and fourth between A,B,C and D..??

    Very interested to hear what you have to say...Anocxuicon_biggrin.gif



    Blegh! I'd say I have gone through the burn out phase.. but am not interested in a monogamous relationship that i have to try to hard for at the moment. I'm just now getting to become very comfortable with who i am...and know exactly what i want enough that i can go out identify what it and claim it. I also do not feel i have to be monogamous to have relationships or have sexual relationships with people i'm attracted to. Ultimately i do want to connect with someone ..and I find it more challenging to find a guy who is as into me as i am into him...and who is compatible sexually and mentally.. at this age... it IS too easy to get laid. But it's fun still and i enjoy superfluous sex.
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    Jul 26, 2012 8:22 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidF) uninterested in sex, a relationship, dating, hookups or anything else that relates to two parties becoming more then just friends.

    Hell, I can't even be bothered chatting a guy up these days, they just don't hold my interest at all... where are the intelligent guys who know how to have a conversation????


    This is something i am craving a lot these days.


    But then... yeah... i still like sex... i'll meet guys who are interesting who do not WANT ANY kind of sex.. and that is frustrating too.

    I'm totally at peace with being 100% single till death.
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    Jul 26, 2012 9:13 AM GMT
    I've went through stages A B C and at E sort of, but lately at D waiting for my future husband I guess. icon_cool.gif