Cute or Hot?

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    Aug 11, 2008 3:41 AM GMT
    jprichva said
    Nautical saidcute is what you call a child or small animals.


    Or, when you get to my age, they call you cute again, like "look at that cute little ole grampaw"....


    Oh lookit dat hot lil ole grampaw! icon_cool.gif
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    Aug 11, 2008 4:42 AM GMT
    BigSETXjock saidI think boys are cute, whereas men are hot, handsome or "sick."

    I don't mind someone saying something I did was cute, but I don't like being called cute. Cute is what you call a kitten, puppy or a twink.




    I hope im not considered a "twink"....lol I HOPE IM NOT CONSIDERED ANYTHING but me....
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    Aug 11, 2008 3:39 PM GMT
    Yes... Hoodie... you get your very own catagory ;)

    The "good enough to lick from head to toe" catagory ;)

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    Aug 11, 2008 3:51 PM GMT
    I think I'm way beyond being called "cute" except by a few women I work with (and their opinions don't count!)
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    Aug 11, 2008 4:15 PM GMT

    Yow!

    Someone mentioned boys are cute guys are hot, handsome or "sick" .

    Help! Can aomeone tell me where the term "sick" came from? I'm stumped.
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    Aug 11, 2008 4:31 PM GMT
    I am attracted to guys that I'd call cute or hot. A lot of the time the hot ones have a better body and at least some seniority on me. I'm assuming that's how most people think about it as well.

    But even knowing that, whenever I get called cute I quite feel like I am viewed as an adult in their eyes. Same thing when someone calls you "boy".
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    Aug 11, 2008 4:53 PM GMT
    "Cute" to me are guys I think are very attractive in a boyish way; nice smile, smooth, clean shaven and thin to average build (no matter what age) and NICE personality. "hot" is cute with some overt sexuality.

    It seems on this site our definitions are really varied,
    We all have different standards for what we find "Cute" or "Hot"
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    Aug 11, 2008 5:16 PM GMT
    I have no clue what the difference is. There are tons of cute younger guys.
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    Aug 12, 2008 8:25 PM GMT
    Cute is a great adjective for babies, young children, and baby doll dresses.

    Hot is all about sex, attitude, and skin (or the desire to see more of the hot one's).

    Sometimes my hairstyles get the cute label but I almost never do.
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    Aug 12, 2008 8:31 PM GMT
    meninlove said

    Help! Can aomeone tell me where the term "sick" came from? I'm stumped.


    Must not be too many black folks in Vancouver ;)

    "Sick" is Black slang for "awesome" or "over the top perfect."

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    Aug 12, 2008 8:42 PM GMT
    I thought "sick" took the place of "sweet" in the late 1970's/early 1980's, coming from white Californians but actually used as meaning "great" or "cool" in the UK (maybe Red can shed some light on that one).

    "Slick" (meaning shady, hip, manipulative, or cool) is a word from African Americans I think.
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    Aug 12, 2008 8:56 PM GMT
    I am called cute waaaaay more often than I'm called hot. I guess it's my boyish face. As long as someone doesn't go, "Hey dumbo," or "Hey beanpole," they can describe me however they want.
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    Aug 12, 2008 8:58 PM GMT
    I use the term interchangeably. A man can be strikingly hot and yet do something irresistibly hot.
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    Aug 12, 2008 9:47 PM GMT
    It is like "WICKED PISSA" a new England term for teh best. Unfortunally those west of the Hudson do not have a clue. Well why should anything else be different
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    Aug 12, 2008 10:03 PM GMT
    People use to coin me as "cute" a lot when I was smaller (138-155) used to drive me nuts I wanted to be "hot" now I'm getting bigger I hear "hot" time to time. But now I see you cant really complain about being called any of themicon_wink.gif
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    Aug 12, 2008 10:42 PM GMT
    hey, as long as you enjoy looking at someone, don't worry about what to call it! Just separate the "attractive" from the "Cheney-esque" and go after the ones in the former category.
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    Aug 12, 2008 10:47 PM GMT
    When I'm told I'm "cute", it's that message of "you're cool and all, but I would never want to do anything sexual with you"

    Where-as if I get told i'm "hot", usually from "cute" or "twink" boys, they want to have sex with me...

    anyone somewhat agree with me?
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    Aug 18, 2008 8:11 AM GMT
    This is something I just brought up to a friend recently, and he followed it by saying "but you are cute!" The argument led to him telling me that:
    cute is usually for younger guys that you wish you could take home and get with, but also want to have again and again
    hot is the guy that has the look to take home tonight (usually right now!), but you probably only want for one night
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    Sep 07, 2008 11:37 PM GMT
    meninlove said
    Yow!

    Someone mentioned boys are cute guys are hot, handsome or "sick" .

    Help! Can aomeone tell me where the term "sick" came from? I'm stumped.


    Sick, sic, this is a common current US cultural term having a similar meaning as such past cultural phrases like awesome and sweet, In general its most often used to describe things; music, skate moves and things like that. Example; Their new album is just sick. That's the sickest move I've seen in a long time. I haven't yet heard this used to describe a person in the same way as hot or cute, but maybe I'm missing a version.
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    Sep 14, 2008 9:50 AM GMT
    cutejock saidThis is something I just brought up to a friend recently, and he followed it by saying "but you are cute!" The argument led to him telling me that:
    cute is usually for younger guys that you wish you could take home and get with, but also want to have again and again
    hot is the guy that has the look to take home tonight (usually right now!), but you probably only want for one night


    I've heard it's the opposite. Well at least for me it's the opposite. A monkey is cute, but you don't take it to bed. I'll take hot any day.
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    Sep 14, 2008 10:02 AM GMT
    I've been trying to explain something similar to my hag, certain adjectives are used only in conjunction with certain synonyms for "guy".

    a man can be hot, handsome or beautiful
    a boy can be pretty or cute
    Do not use boy adjectives with "man" and vice versa.
    both can be attractive, sexy, gorgeous etc.
    "guy" is safe. You can use any adjectives you like with "guy".

    It's all to do with how the words fit together.

    I swear, this is Gayglish 101!
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    Sep 14, 2008 12:08 PM GMT
    Yeah, I'd say that young people tend to be 'cute' and older people tend to be 'hot'.

    But I'm more likely to approach someone that I consider cute than someone that I consider hot, probably because I feel less threatened by them or I might consider them more in my league or something like that.
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    Sep 14, 2008 12:28 PM GMT
    Ghen saidI'm more likely to approach someone that I consider cute than someone that I consider hot, probably because I feel less threatened by them or I might consider them more in my league or something like that.

    icon_razz.gif Pick ME, pick ME! icon_razz.gif Hehe!
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    Sep 14, 2008 1:04 PM GMT
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    Ghen saidI'm more likely to approach someone that I consider cute than someone that I consider hot, probably because I feel less threatened by them or I might consider them more in my league or something like that.

    icon_razz.gif Pick ME, pick ME! icon_razz.gif Hehe!


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    Sep 14, 2008 5:19 PM GMT
    I prefer a HOT MAN........ALWAYS!!!!!!icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif