Rudeness!!! Not thanking people after they write nice thing about your pic.

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    Aug 03, 2012 12:36 AM GMT
    If I initiate a photo comment I never expect any response in return. Perhaps 70% of the time the guy does respond though. I think that I never missed responding with a "thank you" after receiving a picture comment- except if it was truly crude from an unknown person (non participant) and I didn't use it.
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    Aug 03, 2012 12:46 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said@Caslon: Alas, no. icon_rolleyes.gif
    except that you actually are a completely rude cunt and mean in every sense of the word.
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    Aug 03, 2012 1:14 AM GMT
    Anduru said
    yourname2000 said@Caslon: Alas, no. icon_rolleyes.gif
    except that you actually are a completely rude cunt and mean in every sense of the word.


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    Aug 03, 2012 1:15 AM GMT
    MuchoMasQueMusculo saidIn the past I used to feel unappreciated for not getting a thank you for leaving a positive comment. But I learned to let it go, you can't have an expectation for something you did that was unsolicited in the first place.

    Plus, it's against TOS to mention profile names in forums with the intent to bash them. They could probably report you for harassment. You should delete those profile names.

    It's like you basically want to ensnare and humiliate members whose behavior you don't approve of. It's uncalled for.


    That was not bashing. I only mention the facts. I will edit the OP though.
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    Aug 03, 2012 1:18 AM GMT
    The MOTD wrote back to me and thanked me. That was nice of him icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif

    http://www.realjock.com/RippedMuscleGuy
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    Aug 03, 2012 1:37 AM GMT
    I'm only writing big when I'm singling out people.
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    Aug 03, 2012 1:40 AM GMT
    you sure you're not a troll?
  • Lanter

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    Aug 03, 2012 1:45 AM GMT
    All of this drama is probably one of the biggest reasons why I don't really use the hot list, buddy list, or photo comment features. I don't really get many of those gestures but when I do I try to respond. I will also admit that messages do slip passed me and I do sometimes forget to respond, but I generally try and write something to everyone. This reminds me, I think I have a few messages in my inbox that I need to return.icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 03, 2012 1:58 AM GMT
    i use the hotlist as a reference tool for men i like and want to ogle after later... and prehaps connect with. I never expect them to do anything with that info. It's nice to know they appreciate it.. but it is just rude to expect them to reply. It's actually a bit arrogant. It's also very passive aggressive. Which indicates other issues. Guys who get upset when they don't get the response they want are often insecure and clingy in their relationships.
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    Aug 03, 2012 2:07 AM GMT
    JackKash saidi use the hotlist as a reference tool for men i like and want to ogle after later... and prehaps connect with. I never expect them to do anything with that info. It's nice to know they appreciate it.. but it is just rude to expect them to reply. It's actually a bit arrogant. It's also very passive aggressive. Which indicates other issues. Guys who get upset when they don't get the response they want are often insecure and clingy in their relationships.


    Rude expecting them to reply? All I want is a "thx". It takes 3 secs or less. Srly.

    It's like saying thank you when someone holds the door for you, do you acknowledge that? Or do you just walk on by like they're supposed to do that in the first place, without even acknowledging their prescience? Huh?
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    Aug 03, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
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    JackKash saidi use the hotlist as a reference tool for men i like and want to ogle after later... and prehaps connect with. I never expect them to do anything with that info. It's nice to know they appreciate it.. but it is just rude to expect them to reply. It's actually a bit arrogant. It's also very passive aggressive. Which indicates other issues. Guys who get upset when they don't get the response they want are often insecure and clingy in their relationships.


    Rude expecting them to reply? All I want is a "thx". It takes 3 secs or less. Srly.

    It's like saying thank you when someone holds the door for you, do you acknowledge that? Or do you just walk on by like they're supposed to do that in the first place, without even acknowledging their prescience? Huh?


    I think americans are really spoiled when it comes to the idea of "customer service" which in ways extends to our daily lives. First of all.. it's psychologically unhealthy to expect anything from anyone. It doesn't jive with reality. Secondly, an act of kindness is something given.. there are no laws that say you must be kind.. rather kindness does afford you possibilities with other people you ordinarily would not have. Being kind is subjective. And it's in your sole discretion. Meaning You make up what is kind and is just. And an incentive to be kind would be that people will treat you differently.

    No one has to smile back to you. But it's nice when they do.

    No one has to say thank you. Nice when they do.

    Manners are not mandatory.


    If i open the door for someone.. i am doing such because in it is in my nature. I do it always. It's knee jerk. But never will i confront or get pissed that someone didn't say thank you to me. It almost sounds disingenuous. As if I am only doing something nice to be noticed. Or be patted on the back. If that is your goal in doing anything "good" then don't do it because your efforts are lost and vain.

    This leads back to the compliment giver. A compliment is usually genuine..without expectation of gain.. when it is not... it is most likely false or made to gain something. If you hit up a guy on your hotlist and expect him to say thank you without thinking of his time or maybe he does not like you (which is tough but it is his right) then for me you are being somewhat passive aggressive and a tad bit manipulative. And i would not trust you at all to begin with. You could have sent a message to the guy and said you were hot. when he did not respond you could have sent a message to him and asked if he liked you.. but instead yo post his profile on a thread.All of this behavior is unattractive. and you might want to rethink it. That's all.
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    Aug 03, 2012 2:27 AM GMT
    First thing you'll see on my profile:

    "FYI - If a guy walked up to me on the street with a bag over his head and wanted to talk to me, I'd ignore him and walk away. Please don't expect it to be any different online. If you'd like to chat, please unlock your face pic before trying to start a conversation."

    And this goes for photo comments too. Show your face or stay home. icon_evil.gif
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    Aug 03, 2012 2:37 AM GMT
    Scruffypup saidFirst thing you'll see on my profile:

    "FYI - If a guy walked up to me on the street with a bag over his head and wanted to talk to me, I'd ignore him and walk away. Please don't expect it to be any different online. If you'd like to chat, please unlock your face pic before trying to start a conversation."

    And this goes for photo comments too. Show your face or stay home. icon_evil.gif


    Lies! All it takes is a torso and you get all weak in the labia icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 03, 2012 2:40 AM GMT
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    Scruffypup saidFirst thing you'll see on my profile:

    "FYI - If a guy walked up to me on the street with a bag over his head and wanted to talk to me, I'd ignore him and walk away. Please don't expect it to be any different online. If you'd like to chat, please unlock your face pic before trying to start a conversation."

    And this goes for photo comments too. Show your face or stay home. icon_evil.gif


    Lies! All it takes is a torso and you get all weak in the labia icon_razz.gif


    I agree
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    Aug 03, 2012 2:46 AM GMT
    JackKash said
    Hapuna said
    JackKash saidi use the hotlist as a reference tool for men i like and want to ogle after later... and prehaps connect with. I never expect them to do anything with that info. It's nice to know they appreciate it.. but it is just rude to expect them to reply. It's actually a bit arrogant. It's also very passive aggressive. Which indicates other issues. Guys who get upset when they don't get the response they want are often insecure and clingy in their relationships.


    Rude expecting them to reply? All I want is a "thx". It takes 3 secs or less. Srly.

    It's like saying thank you when someone holds the door for you, do you acknowledge that? Or do you just walk on by like they're supposed to do that in the first place, without even acknowledging their prescience? Huh?


    I think americans are really spoiled when it comes to the idea of "customer service" which in ways extends to our daily lives. First of all.. it's psychologically unhealthy to expect anything from anyone. It doesn't jive with reality. Secondly, an act of kindness is something given.. there are no laws that say you must be kind.. rather kindness does afford you possibilities with other people you ordinarily would not have. Being kind is subjective. And it's in your sole discretion. Meaning You make up what is kind and is just. And an incentive to be kind would be that people will treat you differently.

    No one has to smile back to you. But it's nice when they do.

    No one has to say thank you. Nice when they do.

    Manners are not mandatory.


    If i open the door for someone.. i am doing such because in it is in my nature. I do it always. It's knee jerk. But never will i confront or get pissed that someone didn't say thank you to me. It almost sounds disingenuous. As if I am only doing something nice to be noticed. Or be patted on the back. If that is your goal in doing anything "good" then don't do it because your efforts are lost and vain.

    This leads back to the compliment giver. A compliment is usually genuine..without expectation of gain.. when it is not... it is most likely false or made to gain something. If you hit up a guy on your hotlist and expect him to say thank you without thinking of his time or maybe he does not like you (which is tough but it is his right) then for me you are being somewhat passive aggressive and a tad bit manipulative. And i would not trust you at all to begin with. You could have sent a message to the guy and said you were hot. when he did not respond you could have sent a message to him and asked if he liked you.. but instead yo post his profile on a thread.All of this behavior is unattractive. and you might want to rethink it. That's all.


    Just like you said manners are not mandatory so I can do whatever I please and that includes posting their profiles on here.

    This is exactly what is wrong with the world today. People have no sense of gratitude whatsoever. I hate people with sense of entitlement


    Pfffttt
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    Scruffypup saidFirst thing you'll see on my profile:

    "FYI - If a guy walked up to me on the street with a bag over his head and wanted to talk to me, I'd ignore him and walk away. Please don't expect it to be any different online. If you'd like to chat, please unlock your face pic before trying to start a conversation."

    And this goes for photo comments too. Show your face or stay home. icon_evil.gif


    Lies! All it takes is a torso and you get all weak in the labia icon_razz.gif


    Beshhh, U don't no my life!
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    Aug 03, 2012 3:02 AM GMT
    Scruffypup saidBeshhh, U don't no my life!
    Wow you tried so hard.
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    Aug 03, 2012 3:04 AM GMT
    I not only thank them. I fuck the ever loving hell out of them and leave money on the nightstand.
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    Aug 03, 2012 3:06 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidI not only thank them. I fuck the ever loving hell out of them and leave money on the nightstand.

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    Aug 03, 2012 3:08 AM GMT
    HottJoe saidI not only thank them. I fuck the ever loving hell out of them and leave money on the nightstand.


    That's the spirit!!!! icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 03, 2012 3:20 AM GMT
    Scruffypup said

    Beshhh, U don't no my life!


    Orly?
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    Aug 03, 2012 4:45 AM GMT
    This guy wrote me back and thanked me and he was super nice.

    http://www.realjock.com/johncaucasian

    His mama raised him right icon_biggrin.gif

    Unlike some other people.


    *cough JackKash
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    Aug 03, 2012 4:50 AM GMT
    This is a prime example of how people get proprietary with folk they've never met and will probably never have a chance of meeting just because they're on the internet. IMing, camming, photo comments, MOTD drama, that's why I stay out of it.

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    Aug 03, 2012 5:05 AM GMT
    yourname2000 saidWhat's your problem, E....I can't say I've ever had a nice painting pay me a compliment, but if it did, I certainly wouldn't feel the need to say "thanks". icon_confused.gif

    If you want to be treated like a person, upload a pic. Until then, don't be surprised when people don't respond to you....there is no "you" to respond to. icon_neutral.gif


    She's right hun

    We want to see some NUDES
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    Aug 03, 2012 5:21 AM GMT
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    yourname2000 saidWhat's your problem, E....I can't say I've ever had a nice painting pay me a compliment, but if it did, I certainly wouldn't feel the need to say "thanks". icon_confused.gif

    If you want to be treated like a person, upload a pic. Until then, don't be surprised when people don't respond to you....there is no "you" to respond to. icon_neutral.gif


    She's right hun

    We want to see some NUDES


    Well gurlfriiiend, eva since SHE's got that HOOOOT man intensity69 as her new hubby, she's EEEExtra bitchy and snooty cuz now she thinks she's ALLLL dat! mmm hmmm!!!

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