This girl asked me if I was gay

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    Aug 23, 2012 10:58 AM GMT
    I've always been confused when guys claim that being gay is only a small part of who they are, and then make a big deal about it when someone asks.

    Shouldn't it be the same thing as someone asking how old you are? Most likely they can tell the truth, yet they're curious, so they ask - and the answer is simple.

    Right way:
    "How old are you?"
    "24."

    "Are you gay?"
    "Yep."

    Wrong way:
    "Are you gay?"
    "No! What?? Why would you ask that??!?"

    "How old are you?"
    "NO."
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    Aug 23, 2012 11:09 AM GMT
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    Aug 23, 2012 11:43 AM GMT
    it's ok nobody is actually gay on RealJock. . . lmao
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    Aug 23, 2012 1:23 PM GMT
    Girls have good gaydar. Unless you're in like Alabama, you should consider being out in college. I wasn't and I regret it. It really only seems like a big deal but you'll probably make more friends and maybe meet someone icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 23, 2012 1:34 PM GMT
    her gaydar went off on ya! hahahaha
    gaydars never go wrong, she new that much
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    Aug 23, 2012 1:39 PM GMT
    "Are you Gay?"

    "eh...If you're asking me out on a date I am"

    ;)
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    Aug 24, 2012 2:18 AM GMT
    sc69 said"Are you Gay?"

    "eh...If you're asking me out on a date I am"

    ;)


    Lol that's a good one. I'll have to use that one day icon_razz.gif
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    Aug 24, 2012 2:22 AM GMT
    some girls have a good gaydar-others are in denial of hot guys being gay, bless their souls- at least in NC
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    Aug 24, 2012 2:26 AM GMT
    Some people just have better gaydar than others. Don't worry too much about it. Just be yourself. If she or anyone judges that it's her problem not yours. You just live your life the way you want.
  • popobtc

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    Oct 19, 2012 1:46 AM GMT
    I was drinking at the straight bars one night with my friends when the dude next to me said I was cute and asked if I was gay. I said yes and they laughed....They didn't believe me.
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    Oct 19, 2012 1:59 AM GMT
    Boland92 saidEarlier today I was down at student services taking care of some things. I was talking to this girl as I was waiting for my counselor. Straight up out the blue she asks me "Are you gay?!" mid-conversation. I was floored, so my voice got a little shaky. I told her no, but that was a lie. I don't know why I lied it just caught me off guard. I'm not used to people asking me that.icon_redface.gif


    She was trying to pick you up.
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    Oct 19, 2012 2:03 AM GMT
    I feel like people who just flat out ask someone about their sexuality are just rude and have no manners. Why is it anyone's business whether you're gay or not? That's not something you ask a stranger or someone you don't know very well in a casual conversation.
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    Oct 19, 2012 2:09 AM GMT
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    why would she ask u that??
  • monet

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    Oct 19, 2012 2:12 AM GMT
    pharmboy90 saidI feel like people who just flat out ask someone about their sexuality are just rude and have no manners. Why is it anyone's business whether you're gay or not? That's not something you ask a stranger or someone you don't know very well in a casual conversation.


    100% true. That is why it is entirely appropriate to give a rude answer to such a person.

    Here are a few rude answer options:

    "You wanna go back to my place and find out?"

    "Are you making a pass at me? Let's go back to my place and I'll let you suck my dick."

    "Do you ask because you are looking for someone to fuck you in the ass?"

    "Are you trying to put together a gang bang for youself?"

    "Are you looking for someone to fuck your boyfriend?"

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    Oct 19, 2012 2:17 AM GMT
    I remember the last time this chick asked me that i was at a party being loud and sociable playing beer pong and what not and out of nowhere this chick was like "you should be gay!" And i was just like the fuck? I was looking around confused at other people while they were looking confused...awkard...then i was just like "this bitch" and continued playing pong and we all continued with the night thinking she was a drunk fool lol the bitch was trying to call me out in a way and then when she realized it backfired she further went on ti explain that gay guys are hella cool with everyone thats why haha
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    Oct 19, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
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    lol
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    Oct 19, 2012 2:22 AM GMT
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    Oct 19, 2012 2:26 AM GMT
    The fact is she was rude to be asking such a personal question. A put down from you would not really have been the best reply, though it would have been fun. You could have changed the topic by saying, "Excuse me, I need to see what is keeping the counsellor," and ignored her. Of course it is hard to come up with the right thing to say at such times, so you could have said nothing and turned you head away to indicate that she had gone out of bounds. One day I will master this stuff so that I am not tempted to do as I wish.
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    Oct 19, 2012 2:28 AM GMT
    LJay saidThe fact is she was rude to be asking such a personal question. A put down from you would not really have been the best reply, though it would have been fun. You could have changed the topic by saying, "Excuse me, I need to see what is keeping the counsellor," and ignored her. Of course it is hard to come up with the right thing to say at such times, so you could have said nothing and turned you head away to indicate that she had gone out of bounds. One day I will master this stuff so that I am not tempted to do as I wish.


    Don't get too involved in it .. it was started by a troll named Boland who was later outed for stealing someone else's Tumblr pics and having a fake profile .. he is hidden for a reason.

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  • monet

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    Oct 19, 2012 2:40 AM GMT
    "I only discuss things like that with my intimate sexual partners. Are you asking me if I want to fuck you?"
  • aznduderocks

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    Oct 19, 2012 3:07 AM GMT
    Boland92 saidEarlier today I was down at student services taking care of some things. I was talking to this girl as I was waiting for my counselor. Straight up out the blue she asks me "Are you gay?!" mid-conversation. I was floored, so my voice got a little shaky. I told her no, but that was a lie. I don't know why I lied it just caught me off guard. I'm not used to people asking me that.icon_redface.gif


    LOL funny stuff - if a hot guy asked you, you prolly scream loud YES YES! lol
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    Oct 19, 2012 5:11 AM GMT
    You should have said: "No girl I ain't gay, I am a raging QUEEN!"
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    Oct 19, 2012 5:15 AM GMT
    You should say none of ur damn business! She knew you were obviously so why ask? U should have been like why do you ask that?? Why huh? WHY?? WHY BITCH! until she ran away... Simple, dont let these bitches faze you.
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    Oct 19, 2012 5:16 AM GMT
    World24 saidYou should have said: "No girl I ain't gay, I am a raging QUEEN!"


    Ha! This is better haha.
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    Oct 19, 2012 7:57 AM GMT
    Nothing makes more fun to tell a girl who starts to like me ---That "I'm GAY"


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    I enjoy this game ..dunno why !