This girl asked me if I was gay

  • Jonno11

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    Oct 19, 2012 8:15 AM GMT
    I was in a gay bar with a buddy, and this girl comes up and asks us if we're straight. We told her we're gay, but she wouldnt believe us. She kept pestering us about how we should take her home and "how do you know you're gay if you've never been with a woman" and all that. It finally took me and my buddy kissing each other before she believed it, lol.
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    Oct 19, 2012 12:34 PM GMT
    Jonno11 saidIt finally took me and my buddy kissing each other before she believed it, lol.

    LOL, I think that would have done it. I've had similar experiences, though never when I was with a guy I could give a "demo" kiss. icon_sad.gif

    One time a professionally dressed woman came into a gay bar where I was sitting, and asked the bartender if they served lunch. She ordered food and sat near me at the bar. She said hello to me and asked if I knew the area. She was a company rep and needed to visit some local businesses.

    I knew the businesses she named, and even gave her the names of most of the owners & managers, which she gladly wrote down. She commented that it looked like a nice community, I think trying to get background info. I told her that it was almost entirely gay, described the age & income demographic, the business focus, etc.

    She didn't realize it was mostly gay. This bar, too, she asked me? Oh, yes, every guy in here right now, I assured her, including the staff. You, too, she asked? Yep. Maybe the ESPN games on the TVs confused her. icon_rolleyes.gif

    I would never have guessed, she said. Your voice is so deep, and you don't act gay. By now I was laughing a little, just loving this. She did seem nice & sincere, I didn't want to slam her with some insult. I told her that the TV & movie versions of gay men are highly exaggerated, and that most of us are just like straight men. She finished her lunch and went on her way, and I hope I succeeded in changing her perceptions about gays a little.
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    Oct 19, 2012 8:31 PM GMT
    Or you should have said.

    Girl: "Are you gay?

    Guy: No, I'm not gay, but my boyfriend... icon_biggrin.gif