Aug 28, 2012 4:02 AM GMT
ParadiseLost saidBring it all!TropicalMark saidParadiseLost saidYou a terrorist? LMAO.. that's something the conservaposse would say!MadeinMich saidParadiseLost saidI don't think you will so long as you find others who can relate to you and be close to you. The question becomes: Are they what you into/looking for in a guy? Based on my experiences and stories that I've gathered from other Black Gay men sticking to their guns and dating within their population, they seem to run into the kind of problems they themselves are trying to avoid in their own lives. For you, I see the trouble of not being into AA who are "thugged out", "campy", or hide behind some sort of stereotype markup. Just my hypothesis of course. What is your experience?
I don't want to generalize but I do run into a lot of homothugs that turns me off. so you have to sift through them. and after that i'm left with an even smaller dating pool. its not that i'm not into AA. its that i very rarely find the kinds i'm into around me. i understand i do have hang ups i need to get over and am working on.
but my mind isn't limited to one group,thats a problem of mine maybe. i mean i have AA friends who are soley into AA and i think to myself "wow, that would be so much easier if i were like that cuz i would only be attracted to a group that are more naturally attracted to me". not sure if that makes sense.
I think I can understand. I don't date within my people because most of them are assholes. The Persians and Arabs both have huge machismo egos (you want to talk about patriarchal...) and live in a world far too polarized for my taste. I don't know much about Turkish gay men because, well, I don't know of any! Same with Greek. The ancient Egyptians are long gone. The current people of Egyptian are Arabs mostly and, well, I don't know of any Egyptian gay men. I'm not interested in Eastern Indian gay men. Jewish gay men mostly fear me and think I'm a terrorist . +D
Yeah, see? I don't date within my own pool either.
Come on down here and 'terrorize' me!
Lol, okay! +D Shall I bring my Hand Grenades or do you prefer 'ra-ta-ta-ta's'? Also, where is "down here"? I mean... I thought Texas was as low as one could go (in so many ways -_-)?
Flowida.. as far south as you can get there!