JackKash saidI get tired of these threads too..which i am begining to see what some white men could possibly and quite easily spin this thread out to say. Eventhough its not intentioned the thread content reads: Why wont white guys fuck me? Im tired of dating and fucking plain old black guys. PLEASE... lets get some white guys in here who will say they will fuck black guys for like 50 millionth time.
Thats how these threads read.
That's what I thought when I read the OP's post.
I just don't see the point in a black guy lamenting--on REALJOCK--over the fact that the white men in his city have failed to show enough interest in him. He seems to be begging for acceptance by a group that has already rejected him. To me, that's pathetic.
Also, I'm not even sure it's useful to try to have conversations about race relations on this website. People define concepts like racism and equality differently. So, whenever topics involving race problems come up, having a decent conversation is virtually impossible because people don't agree on what the problem actually is.
Here's my response to the OP:
If you'd rather be with a white man than be with a black man, just own it! We're in a free country, and as long as you're not running for president, most people won't care! But to get the white man you want, you probably will have to do the following:
1. Get some more muscle, make sure your "paper" (education, career, salary, etc.) is "right," and show that swagger (if you have it). You will need at least 2 of the 3 to beat the competition--if you want to get the type of white men populating your HOT LIST.
2. Grow thicker skin. Regardless of how educated, muscled, or gorgeous you are, there are white guys who will consider you inferior and unsuitable for anything--including platonic friendship. (Yes, it's true, Realjockers!) You'll have to wade through them to get to the white guys who will appreciate your worship.
3. Move to a different city. Try NYC, DC, or Los Angeles. Interracial relationships are more common there. That's because those cities are very racially diverse, and exposure to different races tends to make people more open to interracial dating.
There is one caveat: You will be hard-pressed to find any city in the world where gay men of all races get together for regular kum-bah-yah sing alongs. That goes for even Toronto! Fear, prejudice, and unconscious bias exist everywhere. You're just going to have to get used to mixed results wherever you end up.