If your boyfriend was/is condescending/controlling to you...

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    Aug 29, 2012 7:57 PM GMT
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    That shit wouldn't last two seconds.
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    Aug 29, 2012 8:07 PM GMT
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    That shit wouldn't last two seconds.

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    Aug 30, 2012 8:40 AM GMT
    ohboyIt blows my mind how quick everyone would dump someone like that...how about sitting down and talking about it with him??


    Exactly...why such the disposable attitude?

    You'd be surprised. A lot of times, people don't even realize their own behavior. That's why you have to confront them about it. But you don't just come right out and say, "you're being controlling", that's blaming. But you bring up the exact issue that is controlling and let them know how you feel about it without using that word 'controlling', it's just not a good word to use.

    Men don't like to lose control BUT you can let them feel they have control without them LITERALLY controlling you.