Sep 12, 2012 11:11 PM GMT
k3l3k0 saidEvery man is a universe unto himself, and is meant to be a king in his own realm. Each man's realm is different. The "narrow gate" or rite of passage that gains him ownership of his realm is gaining ownership of his sexuality.
Most men never accomplish this. They believe themselves to be powerless over sexual urges...
It is ironic that sexual laxity results in limitations of growth, relationships, and life options, while sexual integrity results in expanstion of the same areas.
Perhaps monogamy seems difficult, from one perspective. However, it is similar to any important habit...when cultivated, it brings manifold benefits.
OK, this is the biggest crock of crap I have ever read! The narrow gate? WTF? Just because someone enjoys sexual pleasure does not mean they have no self control. Oh sure, it's much better to be celibate to ensure complete ownership of your selfhood? Plenty of monogamous men are very unhappy because there's no sex left in their relationships and couples have drifted apart. You're attempt of an eloquent literary expose is a failure.
Perhaps you can give us some references to this statement "It is ironic that sexual laxity results in limitations of growth, relationships, and life options, while sexual integrity results in expanstion of the same areas." Tell me where you've found sexual laxity limiting growth, relationships and life options (which are?). Many open relationship are very strong, growing and providing more options and opportunities to enjoy other men in friendships and relationships.
This reeks of someone who has placed them self very high on a pedestal. What a crock of unsubstantiated opinion.