The sadness in gay men's eyes

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    Sep 19, 2012 6:22 PM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    swimguychicago saidChrist, I've seen it in others, but now I'm paranoid about my own eyes.

    Don't worry about it...it's called "depth"...the OP should get some (it looks good on a man.)

    Agreed* That level of depth isn't a bad thing.
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    Sep 20, 2012 7:36 PM GMT
    I see Cleopatra 1, Cleopatra 2, Cleopatra 3, and many other beautiful queens in this thread.

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    Dec 31, 2012 2:15 AM GMT
    its morphosis...it can be scary as we change into capable, accountable, strong gay men
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    Dec 19, 2015 8:02 PM GMT
    LousyMick saidIt's loneliness. Spiritual longing, even.

    There's a group of people who think that the shallow consumerism in our society is a result of unfulfilled spiritual longing. We don't know how to fill the hole so we use things like objects, alcohol, sex, and the glorification of inanity.

    Look at poorer societies, and they are rich in spirit, in love, and in community.



    Yes, I chat with others in the Philippines. They have a great sense of community. Gays are accepted by their families as are ladyboys.
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    Dec 19, 2015 8:21 PM GMT
    I'm not sure why but I only see this sadness in older men.
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    Dec 19, 2015 8:27 PM GMT
    Ahri saidI'm not sure why but I only see this sadness in older men.

    It's because we know the grim reaper is just around the corner!   icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 19, 2015 9:06 PM GMT
    Well, it's an almost four year old post... They're all older men now.
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    Dec 19, 2015 10:18 PM GMT
    mindgarden saidWell, it's an almost four year old post... They're all older men four years closer to the grave now.
  • mystery905

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    Dec 20, 2015 4:09 AM GMT
    Ahri saidI'm not sure why but I only see this sadness in older men.


    That's because the young ones don't know any better yet.
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    Dec 20, 2015 5:54 AM GMT
    Ahri saidI'm not sure why but I only see this sadness in older men.


    Because ignorance is bliss.
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    Dec 21, 2015 12:07 AM GMT
    Yes I have seen this a lot and thought maybe that they had lost their moral compass because of the amount of guys they had slept with and maybe also drugs and drink contributing to the feeling of lack of self respect and feeling lost. I don't mean to offend anyone by this view, it is meant to maybe help anyone who feels like this and to do something about it. I think that sex is sacred and if you loose your self respect then you have practically nothing left. I don't sleep around and never have, the amount of one night stands I can count on a few of the fingers on one hand, I think being able to look at yourself in the mirror and like who you see is important, its never too late to change and find yourself again.
    God I sound like a psychologist.
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    Dec 21, 2015 12:39 AM GMT
    mystery905 said
    Ahri saidI'm not sure why but I only see this sadness in older men.


    That's because the young ones don't know any better yet.


    Neither does the old ones, other wise they wouldn't be alone.

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    Dec 21, 2015 1:48 AM GMT
    I think there's deeply buried sadness in a lot of gay men because most people get married and have kids while gay men who get married and have kids are in the minority. Many probably go through hurts and pains of rejections, getting dumped, etc etc. icon_cry.gif
  • HottJoe

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    Dec 21, 2015 7:19 PM GMT
    I haven't really noticed this among the gay men I know irl.... Maybe the ones who receive sad looks are inflicting pain on others???

    Gay men are usually in high spirits around me.
  • Offset

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    May 20, 2018 7:14 PM GMT
    Yeah most gay men are depressed and deal with sadness a lot.