Aug 18, 2007 5:35 PM GMT
okay, here we go. i'm sorry, i know this is gonna sound disgusting but a guy i know has a problem. you see, he's found that it's necessary for him to use an anal douche prior to bottoming in order to ensure there's "nothing left in the pipe" those unspeakable and icky messes would likley occur if his rectum wasn't squeaky clean. he's never encountered other guys with that issue when he tops but he pretty much has to know before hand if he's going to bottom so he can ensure the necessary cavity is cleansed. it can never be spontaneous unless he had an anal douche with him at all times. simply taking a dump before hand doesn't doesn't completely "evacuate the premises" so my question is one of being discreet about it. unlike condoms, he obviously can't just carry an anal douche around in his wallet or his pocket. he's even considered buying a man purse just so he can have something to carry it in w/out being noticed on those special nights. there is also a question of the noise it cant make when expelling the dirty water from you know where. Unless you find scatological sounds erotic, it can be a bit of a turn off. does anyone else have this problem and do you have any advice for him??