So even still, how does one find guys similar to one self who are masculine? Do you go up to every masculine guy you're attracted to and ask if he's into men? It's easy to tell if a fem guy is gay or not but it seems hard for masculine guys to find other masculine guys who aren't so vocal about their sexuality.
Why not try gay socials that happen across the state various days of the week, or join the gay softball or tennis teams that meet and play around the state. There are gay outing groups that do rock climbing, or kayaking, etc..
Facebook is a good place to start looking for groups.