Where in CT can I meet masculine gay guys like many of the men on here?

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    Sep 30, 2012 7:47 PM GMT
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    You have to be the sweetest flipping guy.


    Yes, yes I am. But don't tell anyone. It'll ruin my rep. icon_biggrin.gif

    Here's a search for single guys in Connecticut (or travel to CT) who have a photo and are looking for dating/relationship.

    CT Search
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    Oct 01, 2012 10:43 PM GMT
    ATC84 saidYou are a victim of your own shortcomings. You are seeking other closeted masculine guys who don't show photos and hide behind a wall of internet anonymity.

    Here in Connecticut we are pretty much liberal and open enough guys don't have to hang out on Grindr all day.


    So even still, how does one find guys similar to one self who are masculine? Do you go up to every masculine guy you're attracted to and ask if he's into men? It's easy to tell if a fem guy is gay or not but it seems hard for masculine guys to find other masculine guys who aren't so vocal about their sexuality.
  • roadbikeRob

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    Oct 01, 2012 10:45 PM GMT
    Try Hartford.
  • AllAmericanJo...

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    Oct 01, 2012 10:46 PM GMT
    Masculine gay guys on RealJock?
  • Saffron69

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    Oct 01, 2012 11:17 PM GMT
    icon_mad.gificon_evil.gif going throught the exact same thing in my own burg it's frustrating. Most of the guys in my area are sex fiends and I'm not looking for a blow up doll relationship. There must be an effective way to find masc guys without fear of trying to chat up the wrong guy
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    Oct 01, 2012 11:38 PM GMT
    hanzo83 said
    So even still, how does one find guys similar to one self who are masculine? Do you go up to every masculine guy you're attracted to and ask if he's into men? It's easy to tell if a fem guy is gay or not but it seems hard for masculine guys to find other masculine guys who aren't so vocal about their sexuality.


    Why not try gay socials that happen across the state various days of the week, or join the gay softball or tennis teams that meet and play around the state. There are gay outing groups that do rock climbing, or kayaking, etc..

    Facebook is a good place to start looking for groups.