Oct 27, 2012 2:26 AM GMT
HottJoe saidAeroNalex saidART_DECO said
So maybe the OP should try gay bathhouses, to get this stuff out of his system. Then he can have all the fun he wants, indulge all his fantasies (but safely, STD/STIs are still a concern), before an audience that welcomes it. But then leave the straight guys alone in the regular locker rooms and not annoy them with inappropriate sights & antics.
That is NEVER good advice.
This would be like me telling you, Art, to go to a lesbian whorehouse to get over your fear of lesbians. You might get over it, but you'll have herpes.
He's saying that the gym isn't the right place for exhibitionism and offering up another suggestion. You're getting all Victorian and acting like sex is a dirty taboo that needs to be kept out of decent society.
Here's a little lesson for you. Bathouses were the Grindr of the previous generation. If you've ever "hooked up" with anyone you met online, or on an app, then you've basically visited a virtual bathhouse.
I think you need to figure out that you should only take charge of your own sexlife; you shouldn't tell others how to live, or you're no better than a fundi Christian.
Exactly! why is everyone being so judgmental, if OP wants to be naked in his gym with cockring and tan lines, let him be, who cares. In my personal experience i have found the more a judgmental a person is the more of an asshole he is and usually does the same thing on which he judges others.