Even an attractive guy can turn me off when he ___________.

  • groundcombat

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    Oct 15, 2012 1:53 AM GMT
    1. He's focused on nothing else but his attractiveness

    2. He does lots of drugs (or hard drugs).

    3. He has exclusive racial preferences (not to be confused with merely a track record for dating guys of certain races)
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    Oct 15, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    1)is emotinally absorbing/dependent
    2)is dramatic/acts like a queen
    3)has bad hygiene (especially oral)
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    Oct 15, 2012 4:32 AM GMT
    Global_Citizen said1. Smokes


    I can deal with a respectful smoker who only smokes at bars. But I can't deal with the boundary-pushing smoker who goes from smoking in my car to smoking in my house.

    Oh, since race has already been discussed here...any non-Black guy who tells me they only date Black guys. Uh no. Every guy I've tried to date who says that tends to be fucking 4 or 5 at the same time.
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    Oct 15, 2012 4:37 AM GMT
    Hameldon said

    I don't think there are many countries in the world in which self improvement is valued as much as it is in the US.



    It is something to be valued. Always strive to improve yourself. I see it as being goal oriented, ambitious and passionate in everything you do. I would argue that not wanting to improve yourself is boring and a passive way to live your life.
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    Oct 15, 2012 4:37 AM GMT
    ... starts dropping many racial slurs with bad context.
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    Oct 15, 2012 4:38 AM GMT
    1. doesn't know that Africa is a continent.
    2. has no idea about current events - sorry I don't follow E! or TMZ.
    3. more interested in looks than personality: superficial, pretentious.
    4. says "Oh I'm not like that" when it is obvious he is.
    5. no aspirations or goals - EDUCATION is valuable.
    6. smokes, heavy drinker, slob.
    7. acts like he is better than everyone else.
    8. seeks attention.
    9. feminine voice and traits.

    ......
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    Oct 15, 2012 4:38 AM GMT
    Ariodante said
    89bkbred said

    3. is only attracted to a specific race but will say I'm not racist it's just a preference...


    It's actually a Catch 22. Anyone can be attracted to any specific race/races they want and not be racist, they just can't ever disclose that to anyone anywhere or they will immediately be labeled as racist. Kind of backwards but that's pretty much how it works.


    But why would anyone feel the need to disclose it to someone?
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    Oct 15, 2012 4:39 AM GMT
    I will agree with

    1. Arrogant

    2. Smokes/Drugs

    3. Is completely inconsiderate of others
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    Oct 15, 2012 4:40 AM GMT
    sonicpower19 said1. doesn't know that Africa is a continent.
    2. has no idea about current events - sorry I don't follow E! or TMZ.
    3. more interested in looks than personality: superficial, pretentious.
    4. says "Oh I'm not like that" when it is obvious he is.
    5. no aspirations or goals - EDUCATION is valuable.
    6. smokes, heavy drinker, slob.
    7. acts like he is better than everyone else.
    8. seeks attention.
    9. feminine voice and traits.

    ......


    Basically sums it up for me, but I disagree with #9 and somewhat with #2, though.
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    Oct 15, 2012 4:41 AM GMT
    Wears flip flops
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    Oct 15, 2012 4:41 AM GMT
    sonicpower19 said
    5. no aspirations or goals - EDUCATION is valuable.
    6. smokes, heavy drinker, slob.
    7. acts like he is better than everyone else.
    8. seeks attention.


    Wow, you made that list in perfect succession. A person with # 5 usually leads to # 6 because they have no future, which being drunk and on drugs leads them to #7 which leads to #8 because nobody likes them to begin with because they think they are better than everybody that ever tries to like them.
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    Oct 15, 2012 4:55 AM GMT
    If he's cocky ..

    Then again I secretly would still be attracted to him. icon_eek.gif



    .. I just wouldn't tell him that.
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    Oct 15, 2012 5:15 AM GMT
    Timbales said
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    Timbales saidwon't pay me the rate we negotiated


    You ask for the money upfront and immediately Timmy. In cash. If he doesn't pay you walk out the door.


    I need a pimp.


    I'll take care of you Timmy. Promise I won't beat you up too much! Well I mean I'll still have to slap you around a little but it's part of the charm of the profession <3


    I'll pretend I don't like it and cry.


    This is one of the only reasons why I read the forums. RJers has a great sense of humor. You a serious note: How much Tim?
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    Oct 15, 2012 5:18 AM GMT
    If... anything, we're all beautifully flawed to our own unique specifications... I try to accept the flaws, until the flaws reject me first.
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    Oct 15, 2012 5:19 AM GMT
    Chews with his mouth open
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    Oct 15, 2012 5:38 AM GMT
    1. Arrogant
    2. Smokes
    3. Self-important or pretentious
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    Oct 15, 2012 5:40 AM GMT
    not attracted to me
    bad breath
    cruel
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    Oct 15, 2012 5:41 AM GMT
    Dumb.
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    Oct 15, 2012 5:42 AM GMT
    conceited and add a sprinkle of douchebagness.
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    Oct 15, 2012 5:42 AM GMT
    says 'ew' before even trying a new food... or anything new for that matter.

    doesn't like dogs

    thinks being clean is more important than getting dirty
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    Oct 15, 2012 5:45 AM GMT
    crownroyal117 saidSharts.
    yum
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    Oct 15, 2012 6:02 AM GMT
    1. Requests to hook-up/sends snaps of his junk

    2. Smokes

    3. Talks like my friend's sister
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    Oct 15, 2012 6:10 AM GMT
    1. SMOKES
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    Oct 15, 2012 6:16 AM GMT
    1) Smokes
    2) Defines himself as "Masc"
    3) Shaves his chest/pubes
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    Oct 15, 2012 6:26 AM GMT
    89bkbred said1. Arrogant

    2. Judgmental

    3. is only attracted to a specific race but will say I'm not racist it's just a preference...


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