Even an attractive guy can turn me off when he ___________.

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    Oct 15, 2012 6:29 AM GMT
    Yeay! Its the IT guy! Okay well

    10. Bad mannerism

    9. Smokes

    8. Not being hygienic.

    7. Cares all about his beauty

    6. A Peacock

    5. Racist

    4. Divalicious

    3. Whore

    2. Not sensible.

    1. Ant Killer. icon_evil.gif
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    Oct 15, 2012 6:30 AM GMT
    JR_RJ saidIf... anything, we're all beautifully flawed to our own unique specifications... I try to accept the flaws, until the flaws reject me first.


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    Oct 15, 2012 6:41 AM GMT
    Initiates a chat with me and then tells me he doesn't like "yellows" when he finds out I'm asian.
  • groundcombat

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    Oct 15, 2012 2:10 PM GMT
    Ariodante said
    89bkbred said

    3. is only attracted to a specific race but will say I'm not racist it's just a preference...


    It's actually a Catch 22. Anyone can be attracted to any specific race/races they want and not be racist, they just can't ever disclose that to anyone anywhere or they will immediately be labeled as racist. Kind of backwards but that's pretty much how it works.


    Well I can't speak for everyone who has ever spoken on the topic, but its a little more nuanced than that. You're not racist for only liking white guys or even saying you've only liked white guys, for example. Its racist when you refuse to entertain the thought of being with someone because of their race. Some think all is fair in love and war so its okay to be racist in this context but that doesn't make the act any less racist than refusing to hire someone because of their race, for example.
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    Oct 15, 2012 2:30 PM GMT
    Shows that his "attractiveness" is only skin deep!
    Selfish, self absorbed, stuck up and condescending.
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    Oct 15, 2012 2:32 PM GMT
    when hes...

    1.narcissistic

    2.judgmental

    3. lewd
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    Oct 15, 2012 2:33 PM GMT
    can't prolapse on demand.....
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    Oct 15, 2012 2:35 PM GMT
    1. Has bad breath
    2. Binge drinks
    3. Is unkind to others
    4. Describes himself as "masc," "straight acting," or "VGL"
    5. Can't hold his own in conversation
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    Oct 15, 2012 2:43 PM GMT
    1) Smokes

    2) Airhead
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    Oct 15, 2012 2:43 PM GMT
    shaves his pubes, pits, or chest
  • groundcombat

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    Oct 15, 2012 2:50 PM GMT
    SF79 said
    4. Describes himself as "masc," "straight acting," or "VGL"


    Yes. I forgot about these. Even though I generally tend to go for guys with masculine qualities, guys who self-describe as "masc" or "straight acting" are rarely that and often come with additional emotional baggage. Very much a turn off.

    And I don't know where this ":VGL" business came from. It's so strange. Why would you need to say it, especially where there's a picture? Aren't we supposed to be one the ones deciding if you're VGL? I just get this mental picture of the guy saying "Here's a pic. And just in case you didn't know, I'm attractive." Lol.
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    Oct 15, 2012 2:54 PM GMT
    Juxtaposes an idea that subtly makes me look bad for being not being bad in that way at all, and expects me to just accept it.
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    Oct 15, 2012 3:01 PM GMT
    har19 said
    JR_RJ saidIf... anything, we're all beautifully flawed to our own unique specifications... I try to accept the flaws, until the flaws reject me first.


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    I'm trying to imply that I will overlook superficial beauty for quality of character. Also saying I'll walk away from character traits that are in conflict with my own.
    Why so sad?
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    Oct 15, 2012 3:03 PM GMT
    has teeth.....dammit......get them knocked out before you come on a date with me... or i'll knock em out...and then we gotta way for the bleeding to stop
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    Oct 15, 2012 3:19 PM GMT
    Man.. I'm gonna sound like such a superficial/shallow bitch. o_o

    1. Bad Hygiene including breath/body odor.
    2. Terrible Teeth.
    3. Unshapely body
    4. Pays too much attention to the way a person dresses
    5. Forgets to be kind and respectable with others.
    6. Insults me (or people like myself) for having spiritual beliefs.
    a. Lacks such spiritual beliefs.
    7. Clings onto silly roles.
    a. Believes that being Top means you're tall, muscular, and masculine.
    b. Believes that being Bottom means you're short, slim, and queeny.
    8. Considers Bi men to be whores/sluts/untrustworthy/in denial.
    9. His only desire is to have sex.
    a. Begins to objectify me.
    b. Lacks actual sexual creativity/originality.
    10. Is a Dragqueen.
    11. Refers me as a 'she' or says 'guuuuuuurl' other than when he's joking of course. icon_surprised.gif
    12. Cannot maintain a conversation.
    a. Is either dull or simply incapable of communication.
    b. Solely relies on texts to communicate with me.
    c. Talks about himself and does not listen to what I have to say.
    13. Begins to label/stereotype me without getting to know me better.
    13. Uses/Abuses drugs/consumptives.
    a. Smokes cigarettes.
    b. Binge drinks and gets shit-faced.
    c. Does illicit drugs (marijuana being the exception)
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    Oct 15, 2012 3:22 PM GMT
    ParadiseLost saidMan.. I'm gonna sound like such a superficial/shallow bitch. o_o

    1. Bad Hygiene including breath/body odor.
    2. Terrible Teeth.
    3. Unshapely body
    4. Pays too much attention to the way a person dresses
    5. Forgets to be kind and respectable with others.
    6. Insults me (or people like myself) for having spiritual beliefs.
    a. Lacks such spiritual beliefs.
    7. Clings onto silly roles.
    a. Believes that being Top means you're tall, muscular, and masculine.
    b. Believes that being Bottom means you're short, slim, and queeny.
    8. Considers Bi men to be whores/sluts/untrustworthy/in denial.
    9. His only desire is to have sex.
    a. Begins to objectify me.
    b. Lacks actual sexual creativity/originality.
    10. Is a Dragqueen.
    11. Refers me as a 'she' or says 'guuuuuuurl' other than when he's joking of course. icon_surprised.gif
    12. Cannot maintain a conversation.
    a. Is either dull or simply incapable of communication.
    b. Solely relies on texts to communicate with me.
    c. Talks about himself and does not listen to what I have to say.
    13. Begins to label/stereotype me without getting to know me better.
    13. Abuses drugs/consumptives.
    a. Smokes cigarettes.
    b. Binge drinks and gets shit-faced.
    c. Does illicit drugs (marijuana being the exception)

    Sounds reasonable to me!
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    Oct 15, 2012 3:25 PM GMT
    1. Is shallow
    2. Is anxious
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    Oct 15, 2012 3:27 PM GMT
    JR_RJ said
    Sounds reasonable to me!


    Yaaaaaaaaay. :3 *Dance and glomps*

    Oh and I forgot add: Combative/Argumentative. Total turn off. :/
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    Oct 15, 2012 3:31 PM GMT
    1. Is emotionally unstable;
    2. Has addiction issues (incl. smoking);
    3. Is overly concerned about money, status and who he is seen with;
    4. Is angry or hypercritical;
    5. Has a dependent personality
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    Oct 15, 2012 3:33 PM GMT
    Starts threads like this one.

    Back to something of interest... Horny Florentine women in unisex showers in Switzerland.
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    Oct 15, 2012 3:34 PM GMT
    JR_RJ said
    ParadiseLost saidMan.. I'm gonna sound like such a superficial/shallow bitch. o_o

    1. Bad Hygiene including breath/body odor.
    2. Terrible Teeth.
    3. Unshapely body
    4. Pays too much attention to the way a person dresses
    5. Forgets to be kind and respectable with others.
    6. Insults me (or people like myself) for having spiritual beliefs.
    a. Lacks such spiritual beliefs.
    7. Clings onto silly roles.
    a. Believes that being Top means you're tall, muscular, and masculine.
    b. Believes that being Bottom means you're short, slim, and queeny.
    8. Considers Bi men to be whores/sluts/untrustworthy/in denial.
    9. His only desire is to have sex.
    a. Begins to objectify me.
    b. Lacks actual sexual creativity/originality.
    10. Is a Dragqueen.
    11. Refers me as a 'she' or says 'guuuuuuurl' other than when he's joking of course. icon_surprised.gif
    12. Cannot maintain a conversation.
    a. Is either dull or simply incapable of communication.
    b. Solely relies on texts to communicate with me.
    c. Talks about himself and does not listen to what I have to say.
    13. Begins to label/stereotype me without getting to know me better.
    13. Abuses drugs/consumptives.
    a. Smokes cigarettes.
    b. Binge drinks and gets shit-faced.
    c. Does illicit drugs (marijuana being the exception)

    Sounds reasonable to me!


    Ya'll are single aren't you?
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    Oct 15, 2012 3:38 PM GMT
    FuzzyPecs25 said
    Global_Citizen said1. Smokes


    I can deal with a respectful smoker who only smokes at bars. But I can't deal with the boundary-pushing smoker who goes from smoking in my car to smoking in my house.

    Oh, since race has already been discussed here...any non-Black guy who tells me they only date Black guys. Uh no. Every guy I've tried to date who says that tends to be fucking 4 or 5 at the same time.


    Haha is this serious?
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    Oct 15, 2012 3:41 PM GMT
    groundcombat said
    SF79 said
    4. Describes himself as "masc," "straight acting," or "VGL"


    Yes. I forgot about these. Even though I generally tend to go for guys with masculine qualities, guys who self-describe as "masc" or "straight acting" are rarely that and often come with additional emotional baggage. Very much a turn off.

    And I don't know where this ":VGL" business came from. It's so strange. Why would you need to say it, especially where there's a picture? Aren't we supposed to be one the ones deciding if you're VGL? I just get this mental picture of the guy saying "Here's a pic. And just in case you didn't know, I'm attractive." Lol.


    So true. lmao.
  • bburg34

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    Oct 15, 2012 3:41 PM GMT
    1) Votes Romney
    2) Smokes Crack in my Bed
    3) Dies Suddenly on our 1st Date at Starbucks
    4) Shouts Out his Own Name During Sex
    5) Uses Garlic as Aftershave
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    Oct 15, 2012 3:42 PM GMT
    Antarktis said

    Ya'll are single aren't you?


    Yep. icon_cool.gif And damn proud of it. Go big or go home. icon_biggrin.gif

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