The irony of gays judging other gays....

  • Sincityfan

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    Oct 25, 2012 10:50 PM GMT
    spgem said(Playing devil's advocate): As if it's not bad enuf that straights judge us as freaks, we have to pass judgement on each other. It's stifling enuf how straight people judge our lifestyle as weird & deviant, why then wud we turn around & judge other gays as weird or less than other gays. Everyone has an opinion & a viewpoint. If we can't tolerate other gays in our community who has a certain viewpoint that we don't agree with, how do u expect straights to tolerate us as a whole? Does anyone see the irony & hypocrisy within our gay community?


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    Oct 25, 2012 10:51 PM GMT
    Complimenting is a form of judgment yet no one seems to complain about it.
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    Oct 25, 2012 10:54 PM GMT
    To Cash: Veteran assumes too much without knowing.... icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 25, 2012 10:56 PM GMT
    spgem saidTo Cash: Veteran assumes too much without knowing.... icon_smile.gif


    ...or particularly caring.

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    Oct 25, 2012 10:57 PM GMT
    Cash said
    spgem saidTo Cash: Veteran assumes too much without knowing.... icon_smile.gif


    ...or particularly caring.

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    Cash, I'm judging YOU. You're hot. almost too hot.
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    Oct 25, 2012 10:57 PM GMT
    To Sincityfan: Ooo putting out the discrimination card icon_smile.gif A troll a dozen..... icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 25, 2012 10:59 PM GMT
    To Cash: Time for Cash to troll away now! Goodbye icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 25, 2012 11:01 PM GMT
    spgem saidTo Sincityfan: Ooo putting out the discrimination card icon_smile.gif A troll a dozen..... icon_smile.gif


    How do you manage to keep yer hair so neat with so MANY points flying over yer head at the speed of light???

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    Oct 25, 2012 11:02 PM GMT
    ROFL cash
    I say Cash: 3 spgem: 0
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    Oct 25, 2012 11:03 PM GMT
    spgem saidTo Cash: Time for Cash to troll away now! Goodbye icon_smile.gif


    Sounds pretty judgmental...oh the bitter irony....

    HEY!!!! - Somebody should start a thread about this hot-button topic...and use some type of insipid short-hand....oh, wait...

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    Oct 25, 2012 11:06 PM GMT
    To Cash: Cause trolls like u are old news & old hat, there's nothing to it! I can multi-task with the best of em! icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 25, 2012 11:06 PM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    Roguewave saidROFL cash
    I say Cash: 3 spgem: 0

    Yup....pretty mismatched "fight", lol.

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    Oct 25, 2012 11:06 PM GMT
    You all are simple bitches. icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 25, 2012 11:10 PM GMT
    Hurt people hurt people. That's just the way it is. You can't control what they do, but you can control how you respond. A hammer to the temple is an effective response.
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    Oct 25, 2012 11:11 PM GMT
    There are a great many vain, superficial, weak-willed, follow-the-leader men out there.

    Most people are not very self-reflective, and when you call them on their antics, a light goes on inside them.

    They need to hear it.
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    Oct 25, 2012 11:16 PM GMT
    To all the trolls: Shame the thread was going so well before u guys came & jumped on the bandwagon icon_sad.gif U guys are so good at patting each other on the back with ur little clique icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 25, 2012 11:20 PM GMT
    spgem saidTo Cash: Cause trolls like u are old news & old hat, there's nothing to it! icon_smile.gif


    blahblahblah...

    Here is the problem, you have given no concrete examples of what you are specifically talking about.

    Judgement calls are REQUIRED on a daily basis. Whether it's safe to cross the street or go down a dark alley with a seedy looking stranger.

    Your comment that I am "do-able' (thanks btw - NOW I REALLY feel like I have arrived!!!) is a judgement call.

    So what.

    Anyone who has not jumped on your pity-party bandwagon has been deemed a troll. By you. The guy who has issues with judgements in the Gay community. Smooth move btw - adding the "devils advocate" angle 3 pages in.

    At best you come across like someone who doesn't get enough of SOMETHING and has decided it is everybody ELSE's fault for passing judgement.

    At worst - an amateur troll.

    Either is cool - but you take the teeth of relevancy out of a worth-while topic and ultimately just get tossed aside.

    I have no doubts that you have something to add - just no proof of it thus far.

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    Oct 25, 2012 11:29 PM GMT
    yourname2000 said

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    I wanna slam the little dude against a wall and do dirty things to him.
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    Oct 25, 2012 11:38 PM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    spgem saidTo all the trolls: Shame the thread was going so well before u guys came & jumped on the bandwagon icon_sad.gif

    It takes two to troll, troll. icon_wink.gif

    Noone wants to judge me!!
    Am I not ironic and hip!?!?
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    Oct 25, 2012 11:40 PM GMT
    JR_RJ said
    yourname2000 said
    spgem saidTo all the trolls: Shame the thread was going so well before u guys came & jumped on the bandwagon icon_sad.gif

    It takes two to troll, troll. icon_wink.gif

    Noone wants to judge me!!
    Am I not ironic and hip!?!?
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    If it makes You feel any better I think You have EXCELLENT taste in shoes but Your sliverware is just plain tacky.
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    Oct 25, 2012 11:52 PM GMT
    To Stash: Posture as much as u want with all ur assumptions troll. Without having read all the above verbatim, all ur quick to judge posturings is mute. icon_smile.gif I'm sorry that my saying, "Ur doable" incensed ur blown ego to tyrate, but really, I've had far better than u with mind's more/worth engaging icon_smile.gif U shud start a facetious thread & I'll be the first poster to be as sardonic as possible just for the sake of it icon_smile.gif I'll leave it to all u pre-school trollers to keep on trolling cause I know ur just dying to get the last word.....
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    Oct 25, 2012 11:53 PM GMT
    We all judge each other--gay, straight, bi, transgender, etc. The only difference is that when gay people judge each other we're more merciless and devoid of compassion. This thread is a good example.
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    Oct 26, 2012 12:03 AM GMT
    spgem saidTo Stash: Posture as much as u want with all ur assumptions troll. Without having read all the above verbatim, all ur quick to judge posturings is mute. icon_smile.gif I'm sorry that my saying, "Ur doable" incensed ur blown ego to tyrate, but really, I've had far better than u with mind's more/worth engaging icon_smile.gif U shud start a facetious thread & I'll be the first poster to be as sardonic as possible just for the sake of it icon_smile.gif


    Why do you think I haven't read the entire thread? I always do - it's something I frequently reccommend.

    I have made observations and pointed out a few holes in yours. Why is that such a problem for you?

    I have no doubts that you have had FAR better than Me. A Man-Magnet like you probably needs a retinue of bodyguards just to walk down the street. The poorly stated talking points, the redundant meandering observations and ideas, the insatiable need for validation - who could resist!??!?!?!

    Well at least now that I am "mute" (at least I am not moot - phew!!!) maybe I can take My ENORMOUS ego and try to be more/worth engaging.
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    Oct 26, 2012 12:13 AM GMT
    To stash: Ur the exact target of the what my post was about. Ur the guinea pig troll I knew wud express his consternations just to validate himself right & no other. Hail to the guinea pig! icon_smile.gif
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    Oct 26, 2012 12:14 AM GMT
    Cash said
    JR_RJ said
    yourname2000 said
    spgem saidTo all the trolls: Shame the thread was going so well before u guys came & jumped on the bandwagon icon_sad.gif

    It takes two to troll, troll. icon_wink.gif

    Noone wants to judge me!!
    Am I not ironic and hip!?!?
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    If it makes You feel any better I think You have EXCELLENT taste in shoes but Your sliverware is just plain tacky.

    Omj! You really think I have silverware?! D=