Bareback and Drug Parties...the new craze? (revisited even after the AIDS epidemic?)

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    Oct 30, 2012 11:09 PM GMT
    TheBizMan saidSome men like semen oozing out of their gaping assholes for some reason. icon_confused.gif


    They're called whores.
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    Oct 30, 2012 11:13 PM GMT
    If i had a nickel for every time I stumbled into a sex party icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Oct 30, 2012 11:16 PM GMT
    Claystation saidIf i had a nickel for every time I stumbled into a sex party icon_rolleyes.gif

    I know right!

    I mean hell, just the other day I walked in on one and I was like Damn! That lounge totally doesn't suit the scene!
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    Oct 30, 2012 11:16 PM GMT
    Well, here's my experience with this: I grew up in Germany in the eighties, where the epidemic was handled very differently in public. While Reagan was still not willing to even acknowledge the tragedy, public officials in Germany were very upfront, explicit messages were on many billboards, and we were taught in high school how to use condoms. In the early nineties I traveled to the US quite a bit and explored the gay scene here, and many men I met back then died of AIDS rather quickly, and I was terrified. I took every precaution under the sky. When I moved to the Los Angeles area in 1997, it didn't take me long to be invited to a bareback party, "Oh, you're still negative - if you want to take a chance, come, it's fun!" And the availability of drugs was certainly implied. I was so appalled that I basically stayed away from everything for a few months out of fear; I just couldn't wrap my mind around that kind of attitude. Slowly I got back into the swing of things, but I'm still extremely cautious. I made it through all of this, still negative, and very much want to keep it that way!
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    Oct 30, 2012 11:18 PM GMT
    lilTanker said
    I know right!

    I mean hell, just the other day I walked in on one and I was like Damn! That lounge totally doesn't suit the scene!


    Seriously. I cant believe how many of them dont use a tarp. I mean, hows a guy gonna bukkake with no tarp? icon_confused.gif
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    Oct 30, 2012 11:29 PM GMT
    Claystation said
    lilTanker said
    I know right!

    I mean hell, just the other day I walked in on one and I was like Damn! That lounge totally doesn't suit the scene!


    Seriously. I cant believe how many of them dont use a tarp. I mean, hows a guy gonna bukkake with no tarp? icon_confused.gif

    If they wanted to keep things neat and tidy they'd use protection.

    Apparently the scrubbing after must be just as much fun.
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    Oct 30, 2012 11:31 PM GMT
    lilTanker said
    If they wanted to keep things neat and tidy they'd use protection.

    Apparently the scrubbing after must be just as much fun.


    Clearly. Who wouldnt want to clean DNA off the walls and floors, thats a party in itself.
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    Oct 30, 2012 11:34 PM GMT
    Claystation said
    lilTanker said
    If they wanted to keep things neat and tidy they'd use protection.

    Apparently the scrubbing after must be just as much fun.


    Clearly. Who wouldnt want to clean DNA off the walls and floors, thats a party in itself.

    Absolutely.

    Invite some friends over, order pizza, make a night of it!
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    Oct 30, 2012 11:35 PM GMT
    lilTanker said
    Absolutely.

    Invite some friends over, order pizza, make a night of it!


    Any other way would just be some lazy bitch ass get together
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    Oct 30, 2012 11:39 PM GMT
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    paulflexes saidI read the thread title.

    Then I clicked to see the OP's profile and check his age.

    Then I LOL'd cause he's way behind. This has been going on since way before I came out of the closet...in 1991.


    At the advice of a friend on here, someone who is much more experienced and lived in a different time than I have, did I start the thread. I felt it important to bring up instead of "would you have a threesome with the two guys who posted above you?". Apologies for being young, inexperienced, and finding the need to address an issue that seems to be plaguing our community rather than enhancing it. Bareback sex is dangerous, and I felt like it was more important to discuss. Again, I didn't partake in the drugs or barebacking- was an observation of a new New Yorker who has never been in a situation like this before.
    nothing to apologize for. Thank God there are always more young and inexperienced guys like you coming along the trail behind us older , experienced, jaded, and cynical guys who may have lived through the eighty's or ninety's and know enough not to bearback, unless we want to gamble at playing Russian roulette . Unfortunately, there are lots of younger guys who don't know or appreciate the hazards of unsafe sex, even on this website , so your posting could be of great service to them, and might even save a life. Thanks.
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    Oct 30, 2012 11:49 PM GMT
    Claystation saidAny other way would just be some lazy bitch ass get together

    I wonder if they serve pizza at these sex parties.. I never see the boxes.. maybe it happens after all the sex is over.
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    Oct 30, 2012 11:58 PM GMT
    lilTanker said
    I wonder if they serve pizza at these sex parties.. I never see the boxes.. maybe it happens after all the sex is over.


    You know, that is a very legit question icon_confused.gif Next time I stumble into a sex party I'm gonna say "Hey!, wheres the pizza?"
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    Oct 30, 2012 11:58 PM GMT
    Am I the only person who thinks bug chasers have severe mental issues and desperately need help? As a minimum they must have absolutely no sense of self-worth. As for other people who willingly indulge in PNP bare back sessions with strangers I have nothing but contempt for them: their selfish behaviour insults all those who died from AIDS who never deserved to get it.

    Like just about everone my age I knew guys that died of AIDS and it just pisses me off that people who know better nowadays couldn't care less if they get HIV or pass it on.
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:02 AM GMT
    Claystation said
    lilTanker said
    I wonder if they serve pizza at these sex parties.. I never see the boxes.. maybe it happens after all the sex is over.


    You know, that is a very legit question icon_confused.gif Next time I stumble into a sex party I'm gonna say "Hey!, wheres the pizza?"


    It's only at the hotel parties that they... I mean who knows unless you go!!! icon_eek.gif
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:04 AM GMT
    Claystation said
    lilTanker said
    I wonder if they serve pizza at these sex parties.. I never see the boxes.. maybe it happens after all the sex is over.


    You know, that is a very legit question icon_confused.gif Next time I stumble into a sex party I'm gonna say "Hey!, wheres the pizza?"

    Find out what kind too. My bets on something chicken
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:05 AM GMT
    Montague said

    It's only at the hotel parties that they... I mean who knows unless you go!!! icon_eek.gif


    Pfft, I'm not gonna slum it at some hotel like some commoner. It has to be at a strangers house, otherwise how am I going to just stumble across it icon_confused.gif
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:06 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    Find out what kind too. My bets on something chicken


    I was thinking a supreme, they make more of a mess and you know how gay guys like themes. Messy sex party, messy pizza
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:11 AM GMT
    Claystation said
    Montague said

    It's only at the hotel parties that they... I mean who knows unless you go!!! icon_eek.gif


    Pfft, I'm not gonna slum it at some hotel like some commoner. It has to be at a strangers house, otherwise how am I going to just stumble across it icon_confused.gif


    You're a brave man!! I never like to go to some strangers house and end up looked in a basement! icon_sad.gif
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:13 AM GMT
    Montague said

    You're a brave man!! I never like to go to some strangers house and end up looked in a basement! icon_sad.gif


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    Oct 31, 2012 12:13 AM GMT
    Claystation saidI was thinking a supreme, they make more of a mess and you know how gay guys like themes. Messy sex party, messy pizza

    yeah but all the calories man. Homos being physically obsessed and all. Being sex it is all physical too so gotta keep those bodies looking good
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:16 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    yeah but all the calories man. Homos being physically obsessed and all. Being sex it is all physical too so gotta keep those bodies looking good


    You know they throw it all up afterward, pizza, DNA, calories it all comes out in the end. Messy theme and all that jazz icon_biggrin.gif
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:19 AM GMT
    Hmm, Bug Chaser and Gift Giver, what. titles.

    I prefer "barebacking," have since started experiencing sex. That is a preference which is not exercised.

    It is not exercised due to living and surviving the outbreak of AIDS, syphilis and gonorrea were prevalent during the '60s.

    I knew many associates and friends who got HIV, some lived yet many died. I found some very "evil" males who deliberately wanted to pass it to others. That was MY WAKEUP.

    Wearing a "raincoat" has helped protect me along with 6 month testing ( I was a drug user).

    Yes, it is a personal choice. Mine is "in thought" not "in practice."

    I have male associates/friends HIV pos and give them love and support
    j.c.
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:20 AM GMT
    Claystation said
    lilTanker said
    yeah but all the calories man. Homos being physically obsessed and all. Being sex it is all physical too so gotta keep those bodies looking good


    You know they throw it all up afterward, pizza, DNA, calories it all comes out in the end. Messy theme and all that jazz icon_biggrin.gif

    You go to far young man!!
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:20 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    You go to far young man!!


    Orly?
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:22 AM GMT
    Claystation said
    lilTanker said
    yeah but all the calories man. Homos being physically obsessed and all. Being sex it is all physical too so gotta keep those bodies looking good


    You know they throw it all up afterward, pizza, DNA, calories it all comes out in the end. Messy theme and all that jizz icon_biggrin.gif


    Fixed that for ya.