Bareback and Drug Parties...the new craze? (revisited even after the AIDS epidemic?)

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    Oct 31, 2012 12:23 AM GMT
    Claystation saidOrly?

    I know how I'm suppose to interpret Orly but it's not what I immediately think of when I see that.

    and Yes you do
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:25 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    Claystation saidIf i had a nickel for every time I stumbled into a sex party icon_rolleyes.gif

    I know right!

    I mean hell, just the other day I walked in on one and I was like Damn! That lounge totally doesn't suit the scene!


    I walk into the Safeway and what do I find...a SEX PARTY!
    I walk into the Wells Fargo and what do I find...a SEX PARTY!
    I walk onto the fucking Muni and what do I find...a SEX PARTY!

    You just can't go ANYWHERE these days without running into a SEX PARTY!

    Sigh.
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:26 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    I know how I'm suppose to interpret Orly but it's not what I immediately think of when I see that.

    and Yes you do


    Those thoughts will have you stumbling into a sex party in no time icon_biggrin.gif

    Psh, I only speaks da truf icon_razz.gif
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:26 AM GMT
    Been around forever. I remember playing twister as a kid or being forced to wrestle in high school gym class.
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:33 AM GMT
    [quote][cite]GAMRican said[/cite]Post-humanist hedonism is ancient and certainly not a "new craze".

    Regarding fear of STD infection, I sense that there is less fear of contracting HIV infection. However, worse may be encountering antibiotic resistant gonorrhea, and Hepatitis C.

    THIS!!! They say this is the worst gonorrhea outbreak ever seen
    (at least in la county and palm springs)

    and its in the throat, no symptoms. you just keep infecting dick after dick if you suck and if the recipient is immune compromised it can be very dangerous
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:35 AM GMT
    Claystation saidThose thoughts will have you stumbling into a sex party in no time icon_biggrin.gif

    Psh, I only speaks da truf icon_razz.gif

    Who says I ever stumble into a party?

    Hostess with the moistness mostess right here thank you!
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:35 AM GMT
    Roguewave saidBeen around forever. I remember playing twister as a kid or being forced to wrestle in high school gym class.


    "Twister" = Code word for "SEX PARTY" game.
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:37 AM GMT
    im a voyeur so id watch with pure enthusiasm. Hmm people are no long afraid of hiv...With these modern medicines....its like some people actually go out their way to get it..just like how you went out your way to go to the party. As you dont stumble upon hiv and you sure as hell don't stumble upon a bareback party. tsk.
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:37 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    Who says I ever stumble into a party?

    Hostess with the moistness mostess right here thank you!


    You dont know when you're going to stumble into a sex party! You could be walking and trip on your own feet and then BAM! sex party!
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:37 AM GMT
    Claystation saidYou dont know when you're going to stumble into a sex party! You could be walking and trip on your own feet and then BAM! sex party!

    Oh I love surprise parties
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:39 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    Oh I love surprise parties


    Oh it'll be a surprise, before you know it you'll be in a sling thinking "how the hell did I get here? Oh yeah, I stumbled"
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:43 AM GMT
    KansasColt09 saidStumbled into a a sex party by accident with a friend, first one I've ever been to and it was obvious that something was different. Bareback- one bottom, and lots of drugs. Granted, I know that this is something that the gay community has had recurring throughout it's history, however...is no one afraid of HIV anymore? There was no question when we walked in the door...I kept to myself, but was amazed at how laid back and relaxed everyone was about it. It made me uncomfortable which is why I kept to myself.

    Thoughts? With HIV as a major concern in our community and the world, why are people so lax about it? Just because it's not a death sentence anymore does not mean it isn't a life-long malady and a life-changing circumstance.


    i wish you had a hidden night vision camera on hand..it would have been a hot video.
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:44 AM GMT
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    Roguewave saidBeen around forever. I remember playing twister as a kid or being forced to wrestle in high school gym class.


    "Twister" = Code word for "SEX PARTY" game.


    Alright! I now understand "3" even better!
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:46 AM GMT
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    GAMRican said
    Roguewave saidBeen around forever. I remember playing twister as a kid or being forced to wrestle in high school gym class.


    "Twister" = Code word for "SEX PARTY" game.


    Alright! I now understand "3" even better!


    Yeah but the mats are larger and black with black dots now
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:47 AM GMT
    I think of all the guys in the late 70s early 80s who didnt have the chance to protect themselves because they didnt know there was anything to protect themselves from. And now there are guys who are throwing their lives away. If only those lives could be given to those guys back then who didnt have a chance.

    I also think when someone asks if there is anything about myself I would change, I think "hell, no." If I changed something and was more attractive, etc, I would probably be dead like those guys.
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:48 AM GMT
    I could use a football team railing me right now... Party at my place? BYOC!
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:48 AM GMT
    Next time you see Sharon Stone campaign for AmFar, show her this. Don't mess with the butt, I say. And if you must step into the gutter, wear rubber (boots). For a virus to usurp life's ease is atrocious. For dangerous practices to be perpetuated despite awareness of consequence should be illegal. It adds more stigma to our brothers who didn't know that one time's fling's status.
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:51 AM GMT
    RomanticRebel saidNext time you see Sharon Stone campaign for AmFar, show her this. Don't mess with the butt, I say. And if you must step into the gutter, wear rubber (boots). For a virus to usurp life's ease is atrocious. For dangerous practices to be perpetuated despite awareness of consequence should be illegal. It adds more stigma to our brothers who didn't know that one time's fling's status.


    It adds a larger burden to the already taxed medical system too. Like lung cancer and obesity, voluntarily contracted diseases need to be cracked down on.
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:55 AM GMT
    JustTheTip said[quote]
    Regarding fear of STD infection, I sense that there is less fear of contracting HIV infection. However, worse may be encountering antibiotic resistant gonorrhea, and Hepatitis C.

    THIS!!! They say this is the worst gonorrhea outbreak ever seen
    (at least in la county and palm springs)

    and its in the throat, no symptoms. you just keep infecting dick after dick if you suck and if the recipient is immune compromised it can be very dangerous


    What's even more dangerous is that these men doing what they're doing can easily catch those diseases along WITH Hiv. That's a cocktail that will kill you, and I think rather horribly.
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:56 AM GMT
    KansasColt09 saidStumbled into a a sex party by accident with a friend, first one I've ever been to and it was obvious that something was different. Bareback- one bottom, and lots of drugs. Granted, I know that this is something that the gay community has had recurring throughout it's history, however...is no one afraid of HIV anymore? There was no question when we walked in the door...I kept to myself, but was amazed at how laid back and relaxed everyone was about it. It made me uncomfortable which is why I kept to myself.

    Thoughts? With HIV as a major concern in our community and the world, why are people so lax about it? Just because it's not a death sentence anymore does not mean it isn't a life-long malady and a life-changing circumstance.


    People aren't rational beings.




    This isn't anything new either, my Ma's best friend used to visit bath houses in LA before he got HIV. I've also stubbled into one of these parties before thinking it was an after party. It was a straight party. People have a tendency to think gays primarily engage in this behavior, we're just less ashamed of it. HIV has an R 0 of 8 and people taking unessisary risks is why.
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:57 AM GMT
    This is nothing new and the OP did not stumble into anything by accident.
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    Oct 31, 2012 12:58 AM GMT
    noviceprime saidim a voyeur so id watch with pure enthusiasm. Hmm people are no long afraid of hiv...With these modern medicines....its like some people actually go out their way to get it..just like how you went out your way to go to the party. As you dont stumble upon hiv and you sure as hell don't stumble upon a bareback party. tsk.


    All the jokes are hilarious, minus that fact that I'm serious about all of this and those of you joking about it are sad. I was with a friend- we wanted to meet this guy on grindr and he invited us to his hotel room. Judgment aside, you can actually stumble upon a bareback party.

    I thought this might be a good topic to discuss on this forum, instead of act like idiots and never take anything seriously. Sorry, I'll change the thread to, "would you do the guy who posted above you?"
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    Oct 31, 2012 1:01 AM GMT
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    Oh I love surprise parties


    Oh it'll be a surprise, before you know it you'll be in a sling thinking "how the hell did I get here? Oh yeah, I stumbled"

    Oh fabulous!!

    Will there be pizza?
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    Oct 31, 2012 1:05 AM GMT
    lilTanker said
    Oh fabulous!!

    Will there be pizza?


    Probably. I guess it depends on who takes you to their hotel room.
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    Oct 31, 2012 1:06 AM GMT
    Caslon21000 saidI think of all the guys in the late 70s early 80s who didnt have the chance to protect themselves because they didnt know there was anything to protect themselves from. And now there are guys who are throwing their lives away. If only those lives could be given to those guys back then who didnt have a chance.
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    QFT.