Mar 09, 2007 1:59 PM GMT
Hey guys, I was just curious about something here. I can remember back to my single days when I would hookup with guys when I was alone and horny. The things is sometimes I would question my reasoning, which was sometimes questionable at best. Such as going out at 2am to get laid and not leaving any type of clue as to my whereabouts if something should happen to me. Or having a guy over to my apartment I knew nothing about. Granted most of my hooks went well and were fun for the most part. But there were times when my gut said get the hell out of here or this guy doesn't need to be in your apartment. I have found that "gut" feeling to be essential to survival, gay or straight. I think sometimes as gay men we become so lonely and horny sometimes that it becomes a dangerous mix. Add alcohol and other goodies to the mix and well you know the rest. I'm not a drinker or a drug user but the urge to "hook up" can be so over powering sometimes that it clouds your better judgement. My best advice guys, always follow your gut when hooking up. What are your thoughts guys.