ASIAN and the issue about interracial relationship...

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    Nov 17, 2012 12:08 PM GMT
    For once I have something worthwile to add to this thread. I dated an Asian for a year or so. Race was never an issue, not once. The relationship failed because he wanted to devote more time to his career. In the year 2012, I dont see how race is an issue in a relationship between a white and an asian.
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    Nov 17, 2012 12:11 PM GMT
    My man is Chinese Singaporean, and we've been together for 18 years. He is still the most entertaining, intelligent, inspiring and handsome person I know. Just my two cents...
  • Karl

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    Nov 17, 2012 12:23 PM GMT
    This thread again ........... icon_eek.gif
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    Because of porn maybe ? icon_confused.gif
    Most of the asian porn I've seen (well, I admit it ! ) are full of skinny asian guys with long-girly hair and very feminine.
    Oops sorry, I didnt mean to, it's ok to be a feminine guy but I think almost gay men prefer a masculine , fit guy.
    Therefore,they arent into Asian guys ? (because of their views from porn ?/)

    Hot is hot , interesting is interesting ...... race isnt a problem !icon_biggrin.gif
    Appearance is just about sex.
    Even if a person is skinny and ugly , if he's interesting , everybody loves him.

    ughhh grammar grammar icon_mad.gif
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    Nov 17, 2012 12:35 PM GMT
    were in a game of bias media , so please celebrate your own skin and have fun..icon_wink.gif
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  • Buddha

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    Nov 17, 2012 12:38 PM GMT
    Ge mig arsenik
  • Beastmode

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    Nov 17, 2012 12:43 PM GMT
    Well I have to say that I've never had an issue with this.
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    Nov 17, 2012 12:48 PM GMT
    meh. i once had a thing for a guy who happened to be white (and hot) but was only into asians!
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    Nov 17, 2012 3:19 PM GMT
    What is this Asian obsession with dating white guys only? I have never heard , why black guys dont find Asian attractive . It so degrading to us Asian to keep hearing this plea of help and request of explanation.

    If a white guy not intersted in you, why are you blaming your race for the rejection. Probably there something about your personality that dont interst him.

    Back in college , I been with all kinda fo white guys. I have a 7 years relationship with one, Live with another white guy for 2 years.
    The fact that I am Asian , make me look exotic to them (just like Asian find some white guys exotic). As an older men, I still able to attract a guy from Iceland during a trip to Bangkok..
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    Nov 17, 2012 5:06 PM GMT
    It's adorable watching all of the Asian guys Chastise the OP.

    Let's a have a little dose of honesty here, a huge percentage of white men are not attracted to Asian men. When they are young and sexy they don't even consider dating an Asian guy. But as they age, and the young white boys lose interest, the suddenly have this benetton revolution where they are happy to nab a young Asian boy.

    Now I know a lot of people on RJ like to hide in the margins of the truth, but what I have just described is ridiculously common, so just accept it and allow the discourse to move forward.

    The OP asked a very legitimate question in a way that respected the dignity of the Asian community, so it's really sad that other Asians are jumping on him about it. I clicked on every single one of you and you all have hotlists saturated with white men, so stop acting like you are above this question or like it's never crossed your mind.

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    Nov 17, 2012 5:10 PM GMT
    Karl saidThis thread again ........... icon_eek.gif
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    Because of porn maybe ? icon_confused.gif
    Most of the asian porn I've seen (well, I admit it ! ) are full of skinny asian guys with long-girly hair and very feminine.
    Oops sorry, I didnt mean to, it's ok to be a feminine guy but I think almost gay men prefer a masculine , fit guy.
    Therefore,they arent into Asian guys ? (because of their views from porn ?/)

    Hot is hot , interesting is interesting ...... race isnt a problem !icon_biggrin.gif
    Appearance is just about sex.
    Even if a person is skinny and ugly , if he's interesting , everybody loves him.

    ughhh grammar grammar icon_mad.gif



    go to gaymaletube, click on the Japanese section.



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    Also, America is VERY racist towards Asian men in general, and they are purposely desexualized in our media. Even the opportunities that we do have to project images of sexy Asian guys are actively sabotaged by hollywood.

    The last Airbender was full of white people

    Even Goku was white in that horrible shitty movie they made.

    So no, I think it's a lot more than porn.
  • Karl

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    Nov 17, 2012 5:10 PM GMT
    DEKIRUMAN said
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    the ugly truth icon_cry.gif
    btw I hot list no one icon_evil.gif
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    Nov 17, 2012 5:11 PM GMT
    MY sexy sexy man is Asian

    Blasian for the win icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 17, 2012 5:14 PM GMT
    Karl said
    DEKIRUMAN said
    {....}

    the ugly truth icon_cry.gif
    btw I hot list no one icon_evil.gif


    I know, I was only referring to the Asians who were like "oh noez! another Asian thread"

    Besides, you like all kinds of men from what I can see. icon_wink.gif


    Trying to steal TheBizMan from me icon_twisted.gif
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    Nov 17, 2012 5:20 PM GMT
    zakariahzol saidWhat is this Asian obsession with dating white guys only? I have never heard , why black guys dont find Asian attractive . It so degrading to us Asian to keep hearing this plea of help and request of explanation.


    I love Asian men and honestly I've always chased after Asian men but never once would they give me the time of the day. I never took it personal.
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    Nov 17, 2012 5:22 PM GMT
    Amira said
    zakariahzol saidWhat is this Asian obsession with dating white guys only? I have never heard , why black guys dont find Asian attractive . It so degrading to us Asian to keep hearing this plea of help and request of explanation.


    I love Asian men and honestly I've always chased after Asian men but never once would they give me the time of the day. I never took it personal.


    you never know bro. There are many asian men out there who loves chocolate icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 17, 2012 5:24 PM GMT
    Haha this is a funny forum
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    Nov 17, 2012 5:25 PM GMT
    tmac said
    Amira said
    zakariahzol saidWhat is this Asian obsession with dating white guys only? I have never heard , why black guys dont find Asian attractive . It so degrading to us Asian to keep hearing this plea of help and request of explanation.


    I love Asian men and honestly I've always chased after Asian men but never once would they give me the time of the day. I never took it personal.


    you never know bro. There are many asian men out there who loves chocolate icon_biggrin.gif
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    No there aren't

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    Nov 17, 2012 5:28 PM GMT
    DEKIRUMAN said
    tmac said
    Amira said
    zakariahzol saidWhat is this Asian obsession with dating white guys only? I have never heard , why black guys dont find Asian attractive . It so degrading to us Asian to keep hearing this plea of help and request of explanation.


    I love Asian men and honestly I've always chased after Asian men but never once would they give me the time of the day. I never took it personal.


    you never know bro. There are many asian men out there who loves chocolate icon_biggrin.gif
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    No there aren't



    lol yes there are. you just haven't had the opportunity to meet them but they're out there. and some preferences can change. I wasn't always into Asians and my bf never thought he'd be into black guys but it happened
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    Nov 17, 2012 5:30 PM GMT
    DEKIRUMAN said

    Trying to steal TheBizMan from me icon_twisted.gif


    aww dont worry , now I have Neight icon_twisted.gif
    *vigilantly looking for Neight*
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    Nov 17, 2012 5:30 PM GMT
    I wish people would stop talking about Race ? Does it really matter when you love someone? What with race and religion the world would be better without !
  • Destinharbor

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    Nov 17, 2012 6:03 PM GMT
    allexxy saidWe, Asian guys, all assume that Caucasian never show interest in us except aged gentlemen seeking for young Asian. The issue might be related to the culture or whatever shit that i dont know but hey if we're just into having fun or hooking up sometimes then is there any problem with races?

    Plz let me know and we can discuss bout this further...


    HEY!! I've always dated in my own age range until I met my partner of five years now. So I guess to you I fall into the "aged gentlemen seeking young Asian" category. If anything, I think the age and cultural differentials are hurdles. But my partner is serious, educated, hardworking, funny, polite, kind, devoted to family and friends, and loves me. He's also attracted to older guys and not younger guys (and not just because we're experienced or some non-physical reason). But to you I'm just a dirty old guy taking all I can get? Buddy, be a bit less judgmental. There are lots of routes to happiness and you should be less quick to label others. If you want a young, white guy (or any guy), you need to lose the attitude.
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    Nov 17, 2012 6:31 PM GMT
    allexxy saidWe, Asian guys, all assume that Caucasian never show interest in us except aged gentlemen seeking for young Asian. The issue might be related to the culture or whatever shit that i dont know but hey if we're just into having fun or hooking up sometimes then is there any problem with races?

    Plz let me know and we can discuss bout this further...


    I have dated many Caucasian men and even had long term relationships with a few, so please don't speak for the rest of "We, Asian guys", just speak for yourself. Maybe it is your personality that they are not attracted to and not your race?
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    I've never been a fan of dating Caucasians. Just a personal preference icon_razz.gif
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    Nov 17, 2012 8:21 PM GMT
    tmac saidMY sexy sexy man is Asian

    Blasian for the win icon_biggrin.gif


    Congratulations on your find man. icon_smile.gif
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    Nov 17, 2012 8:23 PM GMT
    UberBane said
    allexxy saidWe, Asian guys, all assume that Caucasian never show interest in us except aged gentlemen seeking for young Asian. The issue might be related to the culture or whatever shit that i dont know but hey if we're just into having fun or hooking up sometimes then is there any problem with races?

    Plz let me know and we can discuss bout this further...


    Maybe you should think outside the box and stop being stuck on one particular race. You speak for ALL Asian men as if all is into Caucasians only. I think you should branch out and see what life really has to offer, you're selling yourself short on this one.


    To be fair, there are plenty of sexy black and asian men that would be more than happy to date you. You need to stop pining over gringo's, homey.