ASIAN and the issue about interracial relationship...

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    I can't believe this is thread is still going after a few days... ha

    I just wanted to say that I'm a young, pretty fit, non-ugly white guy and I think asians are attractive as fuck... icon_razz.gif
    Having said that, I never really had a "thing" for asians until I started dating my filipino boyfriend. I had no rules about the type/race of guy I wanted to date, but since dating him, I've found I just generally find asian guys better looking than other races, again generally speaking. Deduce what you want from that lol

    Anyway, Just wanted to point out that there ARE white guys that aren't old and/or creepy, but are attracted to asians...
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    qwerty10000 saidI can't believe this is thread is still going after a few days... ha

    I just wanted to say that I'm a young, pretty fit, non-ugly white guy and I think asians are attractive as fuck... icon_razz.gif
    Having said that, I never really had a "thing" for asians until I started dating my filipino boyfriend. I had no rules about the type/race of guy I wanted to date, but since dating him, I've found I just generally find asian guys better looking than other races, again generally speaking. Deduce what you want from that lol

    Anyway, Just wanted to point out that there ARE white guys that aren't old and/or creepy, but are attracted to asians...


    I don't know man, some (if not, all) Filipinos don't even consider themselves as part of the Asian community.
    I've seen some profiles of Filipinos (clearly can tell them apart) and they'd have
    "Pacific Islander" as a Ethnicity. Or "Mixed" even though they're clearly not.
    You're not going to get laid easier just because you're "mixed."

    It's one of the thing that bothers me; why can't people just be true to themselves, and not be ashamed of who or where they came from?

    I'm Filipino myself, and proud of it. But grew up here in Canada.
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    BAEGolden saidMario Lopez is extremely hot.


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    He is! XD


    Didn't say he's not... just confused because this thread is about Asians, and last I check, Mario Lopez isn't one.


    Someone said Asians don't find other races attractive... I think there are attractive guys from every race. From Tyson Beckford to Brad Pitt (without the facial hair). I like Asians too! I notice a trend that Asians don't want to date other Asians :-/

    *I find guys I see everyday attractive too from every race I just used people we know in the media - sadly there isn't a generic hot Asian male. I think Lucy Liu is very pretty =]
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    Nov 18, 2012 11:44 PM GMT
    Iakona saidLet's not get on the OP about starting another thread about being Asian and dating....it's valid for him, and a lot of young asian gays.... What this comes down to is self confidence...Nobody like being rejected, especially over something that can not be changed (nor should anybody want to change this)...
    You know what is sexy out there in the dating world.....confidence, somebody that is comfortable in their own skin....If you are into a white guy and he is not into you....all you have to think is "Next"..... there are plenty of hot guys that will want you.... if you want to limit your choices to one race, well than you have to face the consequence that you are limiting your dating life as well.
    The pics of the asian guys that the people here are swooning over, is because they exude confidence....

    Just something to think about.


    This +1

    Generalising here but a lot of Asians that complain about never getting much attention are those that are insecure, lack of confidence, timid and then somewhat attribute it all to being Asian. Look I know society doesn't make oit easier but surely there are ways to not define yourself solely on your ethnicity.
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    Nov 18, 2012 11:47 PM GMT
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    qwerty10000 saidI can't believe this is thread is still going after a few days... ha

    I just wanted to say that I'm a young, pretty fit, non-ugly white guy and I think asians are attractive as fuck... icon_razz.gif
    Having said that, I never really had a "thing" for asians until I started dating my filipino boyfriend. I had no rules about the type/race of guy I wanted to date, but since dating him, I've found I just generally find asian guys better looking than other races, again generally speaking. Deduce what you want from that lol

    Anyway, Just wanted to point out that there ARE white guys that aren't old and/or creepy, but are attracted to asians...


    I don't know man, some (if not, all) Filipinos don't even consider themselves as part of the Asian community.
    I've seen some profiles of Filipinos (clearly can tell them apart) and they'd have
    "Pacific Islander" as a Ethnicity. Or "Mixed" even though they're clearly not.
    You're not going to get laid easier just because you're "mixed."

    It's one of the thing that bothers me; why can't people just be true to themselves, and not be ashamed of who or where they came from?

    I'm Filipino myself, and proud of it. But grew up here in Canada.


    When I first saw your photo I thought you were Spanish XD I agree 100% though. Black guys constantly put mixed on their dating profiles too, and it's always a turn off when someone can't embrace who they are.
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    Partner is South Asian. He's a few years older than me. Granted not everyone considers me Caucasian.... but yeah.
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    Yeah, I get that sometimes, people assume I'm mixed or hispanic, but I'm not.
    Just don't have the typical Asian features or stereotype.

    I have a buttchin, hairy legs (not typical for some Asians or at least, the generalization that all Asians are smooth and hairless) and what else.. the eyes I suppose.

    And if some white guys don't like Asian guys, that's fine, send them my way. Less competition I say! icon_twisted.gif
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    Kel_ saidYeah, I get that sometimes, people assume I'm mixed or hispanic, but I'm not.
    Just don't have the typical Asian features or stereotype.

    I have a buttchin, hairy legs (not typical for some Asians or at least, the generalization that all Asians are smooth and hairless) and what else.. the eyes I suppose.

    And if some white guys don't like the Asians, that's fine, send them my ways. Less competition I say! icon_twisted.gif


    I have hairy legs too =] haha the rest of me is smooth though. I'm glad I don't have to shave a hairy back or chest. What's weird is I'll just get one odd hair on my upper pecs/close to my shoulder and I just tweeze that one away.
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    Kel_ saidYeah, I get that sometimes, people assume I'm mixed or hispanic, but I'm not.
    Just don't have the typical Asian features or stereotype.

    I have a buttchin, hairy legs (not typical for some Asians or at least, the generalization that all Asians are smooth and hairless) and what else.. the eyes I suppose.

    And if some white guys don't like the Asians, that's fine, send them my ways. Less competition I say! icon_twisted.gif


    I have hairy legs too =] haha the rest of me is smooth though. I'm glad I don't have to shave a hairy back or chest. What's weird is I'll just get one odd hair on my upper pecs/close to my shoulder and I just tweeze that one away.


    This is crazy weird, because I get that too! Are you like my body twin?! :O

    Also, the pic of that guy grabbing his pec, yeah, he's smoking hot! I'd date him!
    I'll take a guess and say he's Korean? I do love my Korean guys <3
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    Nov 19, 2012 12:06 AM GMT
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    Iakona saidLet's not get on the OP about starting another thread about being Asian and dating....it's valid for him, and a lot of young asian gays.... What this comes down to is self confidence...Nobody like being rejected, especially over something that can not be changed (nor should anybody want to change this)...
    You know what is sexy out there in the dating world.....confidence, somebody that is comfortable in their own skin....If you are into a white guy and he is not into you....all you have to think is "Next"..... there are plenty of hot guys that will want you.... if you want to limit your choices to one race, well than you have to face the consequence that you are limiting your dating life as well.
    The pics of the asian guys that the people here are swooning over, is because they exude confidence....

    Just something to think about.


    This +1

    Generalising here but a lot of Asians that complain about never getting much attention are those that are insecure, lack of confidence, timid and then somewhat attribute it all to being Asian. Look I know society doesn't make oit easier but surely there are ways to not define yourself solely on your ethnicity.


    Some part of the Asian culture is not helping the cause by teaching kids to be humble and part of a crowd rather than stand out to be an individual.
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    Oh yeah. icon_biggrin.gif


    Holy moly! This guy is damn beautiful, and he looks quite muscular! I do not know where this "Asian issue" comes from but STOP IT. icon_evil.gif
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    Iakona saidLet's not get on the OP about starting another thread about being Asian and dating....it's valid for him, and a lot of young asian gays.... What this comes down to is self confidence...Nobody like being rejected, especially over something that can not be changed (nor should anybody want to change this)...
    You know what is sexy out there in the dating world.....confidence, somebody that is comfortable in their own skin....If you are into a white guy and he is not into you....all you have to think is "Next"..... there are plenty of hot guys that will want you.... if you want to limit your choices to one race, well than you have to face the consequence that you are limiting your dating life as well.
    The pics of the asian guys that the people here are swooning over, is because they exude confidence....

    Just something to think about.


    This +1

    Generalising here but a lot of Asians that complain about never getting much attention are those that are insecure, lack of confidence, timid and then somewhat attribute it all to being Asian. Look I know society doesn't make oit easier but surely there are ways to not define yourself solely on your ethnicity.


    Some part of the Asian culture is not helping the cause by teaching kids to be humble and part of a crowd rather than stand out to be an individual.


    You can still be humble and confident. But yes you do have a valid point it's a lot to do with how they were brought up as well. Good point.
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    Kel_ saidYeah, I get that sometimes, people assume I'm mixed or hispanic, but I'm not.
    Just don't have the typical Asian features or stereotype.

    I have a buttchin, hairy legs (not typical for some Asians or at least, the generalization that all Asians are smooth and hairless) and what else.. the eyes I suppose.

    And if some white guys don't like the Asians, that's fine, send them my ways. Less competition I say! icon_twisted.gif


    I have hairy legs too =] haha the rest of me is smooth though. I'm glad I don't have to shave a hairy back or chest. What's weird is I'll just get one odd hair on my upper pecs/close to my shoulder and I just tweeze that one away.


    This is crazy weird, because I get that too! Are you like my body twin?! :O

    Also, the pic of that guy grabbing his pec, yeah, he's smoking hot! I'd date him!
    I'll take a guess and say he's Korean? I do love my Korean guys <3


    That guy is smoking hot. How can you tell? I am Korean, and people assume I'm Japanese, Chinese, and Korean and this comes from people who supposedly study Asian culture.
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    who are these guys?!! Wish the Asians here would look more like that
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    Kel_ said
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    Kel_ saidYeah, I get that sometimes, people assume I'm mixed or hispanic, but I'm not.
    Just don't have the typical Asian features or stereotype.

    I have a buttchin, hairy legs (not typical for some Asians or at least, the generalization that all Asians are smooth and hairless) and what else.. the eyes I suppose.

    And if some white guys don't like the Asians, that's fine, send them my ways. Less competition I say! icon_twisted.gif


    I have hairy legs too =] haha the rest of me is smooth though. I'm glad I don't have to shave a hairy back or chest. What's weird is I'll just get one odd hair on my upper pecs/close to my shoulder and I just tweeze that one away.


    This is crazy weird, because I get that too! Are you like my body twin?! :O

    Also, the pic of that guy grabbing his pec, yeah, he's smoking hot! I'd date him!
    I'll take a guess and say he's Korean? I do love my Korean guys <3


    That guy is smoking hot. How can you tell? I'm Korea, and people assume I'm Japanese, Chinese, and Korean and this comes from people who supposedly study Asian culture.


    I have this innate ability to tell an Asian apart (from Korean, Japanese, Chinese, Vietnamese, etc) it's weird I know.. but yeah, he's Korean.
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    Iakona saidLet's not get on the OP about starting another thread about being Asian and dating....it's valid for him, and a lot of young asian gays.... What this comes down to is self confidence...Nobody like being rejected, especially over something that can not be changed (nor should anybody want to change this)...
    You know what is sexy out there in the dating world.....confidence, somebody that is comfortable in their own skin....If you are into a white guy and he is not into you....all you have to think is "Next"..... there are plenty of hot guys that will want you.... if you want to limit your choices to one race, well than you have to face the consequence that you are limiting your dating life as well.
    The pics of the asian guys that the people here are swooning over, is because they exude confidence....

    Just something to think about.


    This +1

    Generalising here but a lot of Asians that complain about never getting much attention are those that are insecure, lack of confidence, timid and then somewhat attribute it all to being Asian. Look I know society doesn't make oit easier but surely there are ways to not define yourself solely on your ethnicity.


    Some part of the Asian culture is not helping the cause by teaching kids to be humble and part of a crowd rather than stand out to be an individual.


    You can still be humble and confident. But yes you do have a valid point it's a lot to do with how they were brought up as well. Good point.


    I'd much rather someone who's humble over cocky any day.
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    Nov 19, 2012 6:42 AM GMT
    Kel_ said
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    Kel_ said
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    Kel_ saidYeah, I get that sometimes, people assume I'm mixed or hispanic, but I'm not.
    Just don't have the typical Asian features or stereotype.

    I have a buttchin, hairy legs (not typical for some Asians or at least, the generalization that all Asians are smooth and hairless) and what else.. the eyes I suppose.

    And if some white guys don't like the Asians, that's fine, send them my ways. Less competition I say! icon_twisted.gif


    I have hairy legs too =] haha the rest of me is smooth though. I'm glad I don't have to shave a hairy back or chest. What's weird is I'll just get one odd hair on my upper pecs/close to my shoulder and I just tweeze that one away.


    This is crazy weird, because I get that too! Are you like my body twin?! :O

    Also, the pic of that guy grabbing his pec, yeah, he's smoking hot! I'd date him!
    I'll take a guess and say he's Korean? I do love my Korean guys <3


    That guy is smoking hot. How can you tell? I'm Korea, and people assume I'm Japanese, Chinese, and Korean and this comes from people who supposedly study Asian culture.


    I have this innate ability to tell an Asian apart (from Korean, Japanese, Chinese, Vietnamese, etc) it's weird I know.. but yeah, he's Korean.


    It is not that hard...........Most asians at least have some clues to tell their differences or ethnicity
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    Nov 19, 2012 6:44 AM GMT
    Speak for yourself OP, I don't have problems getting white guys ! In fact, I dated some of them in the past, now they're my exes and we're still good friends. I don't have any problem on grindr either, I get messages from men of all races but I don't take Grindr seriously so I ended up not answering anyone lol. It is all about self-confidence. If you don't like an average, young, weird, fat or whatever else (insert race here), just simply smile and said no thanks and move on. He has the right to reject you and you have the same power. It's called dating/being picky. I think a guy will get the point after you give him the hint. Unless he gets on your nerves and then you should just get narky.

    As far as other ethnic men like Blacks and Latinos are wondering why Asians dudes only want to F*** or date other Asians or White dudes, well you guys can blame partly the media for this. Most Asians or some are extremely cliquey and very racist, some Asians don't even like each other, they stereo-typed most Latin/Black as thugs, gangster and dangerous and one of my Gay Asian/Chinese friend said he'd never sleep with a Black or Latin dude because of their *Big Black and/or Brown cock, he can't handle it. He basically go for white and Asian dudes because they are almost/about the same size and sort of same color !!! icon_lol.gif I was lmafo when I heard this. I hooked up with Latino and some mixed men before, I think they're spicy and caliente. icon_wink.gif

    I do think that most people tend to stick to their own kind but some or maybe a lot of gays are brave now and will step out of their comfort zone. I don't have any hang up on race really but I am kind of very picky when it comes to a serious bf because I've been burnt before.

    Oh well, good luck to all of you who's looking for love. We all deserve it. icon_wink.gif
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    Nov 19, 2012 7:05 AM GMT
    It's really quite disheartening to watch so many Asian guys make this topic over the years.

    Yes racism exists. Yes gay men can be racists. But that doesn't mean all men of that certain group, in this case white/Caucasian men will find you unattractive.

    You have to put your best self forward, and that means having confidence in yourself because that's probably the sexiest attribute anyone can have.

    Likewise, all you asian guys need to expand your freaking horizon. I see all this complaining about how white guys don't like you, how about trying out latinos, and african americans or dare I say even other asians. You can't expect white guys to suddenly embrace asians, when you can't do the same.
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    Nov 19, 2012 7:10 AM GMT
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    flmao said^^Calling Latino guys "spicy" makes you nearly as racist as my white friend who wanted his black law-school FWB to wear a thug bandana while fucking.

    xsocalguy8x saidSpeak for yourself OP, I don't have problems getting white guys!


    OP meant young attractive ones. Your post is a bad cover for exhibit B:

    flmao said...That said, these threads are inherently unproductive. Only minorities would have an interest in recognizing this reality, and evidently some of them rather pretend to be so attractive that they are "oblivous" to discrimination, since it's cooler and sexier than complaining. Hot white guys are too busy getting laid, and ugly or older white guys will fiercely deny it, to maintain the status quo.


    Well, The *Spicy comment, I meant it as a compliment, it means Hot, How am I calling some Latinos hot Racist again? Some of the guys I said it to didn't complain.

    2nd part, Young old, ugly attractive not hot, my reply is if you're not into the guy or vice versa, then say no, smile and say thank you, move on. I don't think it's unproductive to point out to someone who should gain some more self-confidence because he thinks white dudes don't like him just bc of race. That's sorta Blah.
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    Nov 19, 2012 7:40 AM GMT
    yep Caucasions look hotter than us, but what are you gonna do if some girl complains that you don't give a fuck about/to her????
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    Bicuriouscool saidyep Caucasions look hotter than us, but what are you gonna do if some girl complains that you don't give a fuck about/to her????


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