ASIAN and the issue about interracial relationship...

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    Nov 18, 2012 8:21 AM GMT
    Smegmatron saidOy vay! Get a clue. In general, good-looking White guys only want to have sex with or date other good-looking White guys. Good-looking, built Asian guys generally only want to have sex with White guys. So within the Asian-White dichotomy, you're basically stuck with masturbating a lot or having sex with a fat, old Rice Queen.

    The sooner you accept this sad fact, the easier your life will be. Fill your life with other hobbies, interests, etc. I know from other Asian gay guys I've talked to that drinking a lot helps fill the void.

    We didn't choose to be Asian, we were just born this way and we got screwed. Life's hard for a lot of people including people who are White. Find a way to deal with it.


    wow what a rediculous response. Are you having this much self pity for being asian? Not trying to be mean but so not true and kind of pathetic to think that way about yourself.
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    Nov 18, 2012 8:32 AM GMT
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    AP14 said If you want the guy, you have to know what he's looking for... At least for white guys in LA, it seems like you have to be a little less [feminine gaysian]

    And more of this:
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    95% of white guys get by just fine without having that kind of body


    This guy is probably half-White which is the reason he's good-looking.


    He looks 100% Asian to me... Why are you posting self-hatred remarks? Life can suck sometimes and obviously racism has affected you, but dust yourself off. Life is so much about perspective if all you do is search for people who dislike Asians you'll find them and it will make you bitter. Also that photo of your feces in the other thread was disgusting. You're obviously stressed and in a mood.
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    Nov 18, 2012 8:38 AM GMT
    Why is it when interracial relationships come to mind people immediately correlate that to minority-majority examples. Where's the love for interracial minority couples dammit!? icon_mad.gif I really wish more Asian men and other minorities devlop a taste for the whole rainbow instead of one flavor! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 18, 2012 8:40 AM GMT
    It is such a pity to see so many close minded individuals with either self-hate or inappropriate behaviors and inappropriate thoughts for their age. Aren't you suppose to be a responsible grown up with rational thoughts? I expect higher from people who are older than 30s........talk, act, and think like an educated person. At least have some type of respect for yourself and others......what a shame!
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    Nov 18, 2012 8:56 AM GMT
    AP14 said If you want the guy, you have to know what he's looking for... At least for white guys in LA, it seems like you have to be a little less [feminine gaysian]

    He looks 100% Asian to me... Why are you posting self-hatred remarks? Life can suck sometimes and obviously racism has affected you, but dust yourself off. Life is so much about perspective if all you do is search for people who dislike Asians you'll find them and it will make you bitter. Also that photo of your feces in the other thread was disgusting. You're obviously stressed and in a mood.


    Looking at his posting history my guess is that he's a troll who gets off on the attention he gets with his self hating bullshit. While his stuff is amusing its hard to take seriously
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    Nov 18, 2012 9:03 AM GMT
    Why do all these Asian threads have to be about attraction to white guys. There's so many kinds of men out there.. Why limit yourself to one kind then complain about it?
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    Nov 18, 2012 9:20 AM GMT
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    Smegmatron saidThis guy is probably half-White which is the reason he's good-looking.


    He looks 100% Asian to me... Why are you posting self-hatred remarks? Life can suck sometimes and obviously racism has affected you, but dust yourself off. Life is so much about perspective if all you do is search for people who dislike Asians you'll find them and it will make you bitter. Also that photo of your feces in the other thread was disgusting. You're obviously stressed and in a mood.

    Yeah, agreed...my guess full Korean. He's hot because he's hot...he's got an amazing body, cute face, great face bumpers, and that's an adorable expression.

    This idea that some people cling to as truth, that "white" is the gold standard, need to get over their hangups, imo. My perception is that Asian guys are more likely to take care of their bodies than white guys (generally speaking). My gym is usually 50% or more Asian guys yet my neighbourhood is Vancouver's Little Italy.


    I dont care what he is, he's definitely delicious.
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    Nov 18, 2012 9:27 AM GMT
    ac416 saidWhy do all these Asian threads have to be about attraction to white guys. There's so many kinds of men out there.. Why limit yourself to one kind then complain about it?


    yes!
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    Nov 18, 2012 12:30 PM GMT
    ac416 saidWhy do all these Asian threads have to be about attraction to white guys. There's so many kinds of men out there.. Why limit yourself to one kind then complain about it?


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    Nov 18, 2012 12:49 PM GMT
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    zakariahzol saidWhat is this Asian obsession with dating white guys only? I have never heard , why black guys dont find Asian attractive . It so degrading to us Asian to keep hearing this plea of help and request of explanation.


    I love Asian men and honestly I've always chased after Asian men but never once would they give me the time of the day. I never took it personal.


    Several black friends have the same complaint....
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    Nov 18, 2012 12:52 PM GMT
    ac416 saidWhy do all these Asian threads have to be about attraction to white guys. There's so many kinds of men out there.. Why limit yourself to one kind then complain about it?


    My advice to asians - date a black or hispanic guy. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised. I don't date white guys too often, mostly b/c they aren't attracted to me, or b/c I feel no chemistry. I date mostly immigrants - there's just more we have in common - our struggle and journey and sense of humor. My last ex was French-Algerian (so part African). My gay best friend didn't think he was cute, but once I got to know him, I was crazy about him. Sometimes you just got to open your mind and heart a little.
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    Nov 18, 2012 12:52 PM GMT
    tmac said
    Amira said
    zakariahzol saidWhat is this Asian obsession with dating white guys only? I have never heard , why black guys dont find Asian attractive . It so degrading to us Asian to keep hearing this plea of help and request of explanation.


    I love Asian men and honestly I've always chased after Asian men but never once would they give me the time of the day. I never took it personal.


    you never know bro. There are many asian men out there who loves chocolate icon_biggrin.gif




    True. However, how many of them want a lifetime, not just sex?
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    Nov 18, 2012 12:59 PM GMT
    Afrochild said
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    Amira said
    zakariahzol saidWhat is this Asian obsession with dating white guys only? I have never heard , why black guys dont find Asian attractive . It so degrading to us Asian to keep hearing this plea of help and request of explanation.


    I love Asian men and honestly I've always chased after Asian men but never once would they give me the time of the day. I never took it personal.


    you never know bro. There are many asian men out there who loves chocolate icon_biggrin.gif




    True. However, how many of them want a lifetime, not just sex?


    I can't speak for anyone but I always been committed when I dated. Some people especially around my age are just starting to explore their sexuality and more often than not are not ready for commitment or don't want it.

    As for me, I had my share of hookups and casual encounters and it got old really fast. I'm content with what I have icon_biggrin.gif
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    Nov 18, 2012 3:39 PM GMT
    Let's not get on the OP about starting another thread about being Asian and dating....it's valid for him, and a lot of young asian gays.... What this comes down to is self confidence...Nobody like being rejected, especially over something that can not be changed (nor should anybody want to change this)...
    You know what is sexy out there in the dating world.....confidence, somebody that is comfortable in their own skin....If you are into a white guy and he is not into you....all you have to think is "Next"..... there are plenty of hot guys that will want you.... if you want to limit your choices to one race, well than you have to face the consequence that you are limiting your dating life as well.
    The pics of the asian guys that the people here are swooning over, is because they exude confidence....

    Just something to think about.
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    Nov 18, 2012 4:35 PM GMT
    ac416 saidWhy do all these Asian threads have to be about attraction to white guys. There's so many kinds of men out there.. Why limit yourself to one kind then complain about it?


    Gay white guys seek acceptance on one level: orientation
    Gay minorities seek acceptance on two levels: orientation and culture

    For a minority, if a white guy accepts you, you're socialized to feel closer to the epicenter of mainstream culture that you see on tv and in theaters. (Having been there and back, I can tell you that true validation is created from within. It's far better to create your own epicenter by surrounding yourself with really good people, regardless of race or orientation, or the boundaries of your comfort zone.
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    Nov 18, 2012 4:37 PM GMT
    DEKIRUMAN said
    Karl saidThis thread again ........... icon_eek.gif
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    Because of porn maybe ? icon_confused.gif
    Most of the asian porn I've seen (well, I admit it ! ) are full of skinny asian guys with long-girly hair and very feminine.
    Oops sorry, I didnt mean to, it's ok to be a feminine guy but I think almost gay men prefer a masculine , fit guy.
    Therefore,they arent into Asian guys ? (because of their views from porn ?/)

    Hot is hot , interesting is interesting ...... race isnt a problem !icon_biggrin.gif
    Appearance is just about sex.
    Even if a person is skinny and ugly , if he's interesting , everybody loves him.

    ughhh grammar grammar icon_mad.gif



    go to gaymaletube, click on the Japanese section.



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    Also, America is VERY racist towards Asian men in general, and they are purposely desexualized in our media. Even the opportunities that we do have to project images of sexy Asian guys are actively sabotaged by hollywood.

    The last Airbender was full of white people

    Even Goku was white in that horrible shitty movie they made.

    So no, I think it's a lot more than porn.


    You can be the Asian spokesperson icon_smile.gif

    Some Asians only date their own nationality, as in Korean and Korean. I'm terrible because I can't tell the difference. There is a stigma in Asia that lighter skin is better. It's not always the case, but where we have self tanners they have lightening creams. I went on a date with a guy around my age and he looked down on other Asians that tend to have darker skin tones - I was shocked.

    In Asia the US is an ideal and I guess that correlates to stereotypical white successful businessmen. There are parents that would have the skin on the bottom of their child's tongue cut, because they believed it would make them learn/speak English better.

    I think it's really sad. It took me a long time to accept myself as an Asian American. I really had to get over the idea that changing my eyes or nose would make me happy - plus I was afraid I'd look like Michael Jackson, may he rest in peace. This is way off topic but my favorite thing about Rihanna is her nose, because it's ethnic looking and you don't see that on the cover of magazines too often. I agree hot is hot and there are beautiful guys in every race.
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    Nov 18, 2012 9:29 PM GMT
    Here's a public announcement to black and Latin brothers who complain Asians don't pay them attention:

    Come visit me anytime.

    Above message is endowed by someone who finds all races hot.

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    Nov 18, 2012 9:33 PM GMT
    Mario Lopez is extremely hot.
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    Nov 18, 2012 9:34 PM GMT
    BAEGolden saidMario Lopez is extremely hot.


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    Nov 18, 2012 9:35 PM GMT
    Hispanic guys? Hell yeah.
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    Nov 18, 2012 9:38 PM GMT
    Kel_ said
    BAEGolden saidMario Lopez is extremely hot.


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    He is! XD
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    Nov 18, 2012 10:15 PM GMT
    BAEGolden said
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    BAEGolden saidMario Lopez is extremely hot.


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    He is! XD


    Didn't say he's not... just confused because this thread is about Asians, and last I check, Mario Lopez isn't one.
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    Nov 18, 2012 10:30 PM GMT
    Kel_ said
    BAEGolden said
    Kel_ said
    BAEGolden saidMario Lopez is extremely hot.


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    He is! XD


    Didn't say he's not... just confused because this thread is about Asians, and last I check, Mario Lopez isn't one.


    I find it hard to tell some Asians and Latinos apart
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    Nov 18, 2012 10:44 PM GMT
    offshore said
    Kel_ said
    BAEGolden said
    Kel_ said
    BAEGolden saidMario Lopez is extremely hot.


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    He is! XD


    Didn't say he's not... just confused because this thread is about Asians, and last I check, Mario Lopez isn't one.


    I find it hard to tell some Asians and Latinos apart


    Really? icon_eek.gif
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    Nov 18, 2012 10:53 PM GMT
    my friend is a white hispanic and he LOVES asian girls like nobody's business.