Feminine Gay Men: Yay or Nay?

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    Nov 23, 2012 5:04 AM GMT
    IslamicBottom4SatanistTop said
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    lilTanker saidit's always the "masc guys" who are whining about the fem guys..


    I think they need to toughen up!

    Stop being little girls!

    Stop whining!

    Ahh....pretty sure (based on his other threads) that the OP is fem. icon_confused.gif


    Well yeah I am to a point. I like moving my body like a woman and dressing more out there because it feels like me. I like playing that role in my life and I prefer for men I'm with to be the same way. But I'm open if I really like the person and I like having fem friends. I may even date a really fem guy if she's cute enough and is more willing to play the man because that's honestly the only way I can function. Someone has to be in charge. Someone has to be dominant.


    Have you thought about being a full on CD.
    There are guys that are really into submissive CDs and fems.
    Straight and Bi guys that is.


    I thought about being a cross dresser. Well actually for a time I was considering transitioning to be a woman. I still think about doing it and I want to try some things out as a man before I go through with this.

    At the moment I'm okay dressing like a man albeit one who dresses like a color blind lesbian prison soccer league coach, lol.
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    Nov 23, 2012 5:04 AM GMT
    You bitches be too butch icon_wink.gif

    Honestly I'm not into guys that cross dress, that's a bit over the line, but I wouldn't rule them out either. Otherwise? You're probably fine in my books.
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    Nov 23, 2012 5:04 AM GMT
    GAYBIGMACHODUDE1972 saidI'm totally masculine,always was and always will be too.I'm hyper masculine guy.I hate feminine guys and I want nothing to with them.


    Okay girl.......
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    Nov 23, 2012 5:12 AM GMT
    All gay bitches and queens always think they are 'masculine'.
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    Nov 23, 2012 5:21 AM GMT
    MashogaNubianPrince saidI may even date a really fem guy if she's cute enough
    "Fem" guys are still male.
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    Nov 23, 2012 5:25 AM GMT
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    MashogaNubianPrince saidI may even date a really fem guy if she's cute enough
    "Fem" guys are still male.


    Some go by feminine prefixes though. I do sometimes when it feels more natural at that particular time,

    But I understand everyone isn't like that. Different strokes....
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    Nov 23, 2012 5:25 AM GMT
    Nay
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    Nov 23, 2012 5:25 AM GMT
    i think a muscle guy with a sissy voice can be really hot.
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    Nov 23, 2012 5:30 AM GMT
    speciesbeing saidi think a muscle guy with a sissy voice can be really hot.


    Listen, if it comes in a package shaped like you, I don't care where you hang your purse, I'm in.
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    Nov 23, 2012 5:30 AM GMT
    McQueen saidawjeeznotthisshitagain.jpg


    I know Right. icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Nov 23, 2012 5:45 AM GMT
    not_superman saidI like guys who are comfortable with who they are. The biggest turnoff is "str8 acting".


    THANK YOU!

    SERIOUSLY, If you have to "Act" it, then it's not fooling anybody.
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    Nov 23, 2012 6:20 AM GMT
    I would be friend but probably no more than that......Just feel like the one I have met are very dramatic and rude to people in a bitchy way.......I can't really stand the condescending bitchy attitude...it's more for female drama queen
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    Nov 23, 2012 6:28 AM GMT
    Its not a quality I look for or am repulsed by but doesn't bother me regardless. Gay is gay.
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    Nov 23, 2012 7:07 AM GMT
    instant boner killer for me, but i'll be friends with femme, most of the time we won't be that close though, tend not to have that much in common really.
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    Nov 23, 2012 7:12 AM GMT
    Dusk_Moonlight saidDating wise, I don't think I could date a feminine guy. I mean, with the few feminine guys I have talked to in my life, I had nothing in common with them except the fact that I like to take time in creating my outfits. Yeah I'll admit that I have fun coming up with new wardrobe ideas but as far as that goes, I really don't have anything in common with them to base a relationship on.

    However, I also don't think I could date the most masculine guy in the world neither. Guys who try so hard to "act straight" to fit in with normal society are just as much a turn off to me as the overly stereotypical flamboyant acting guys. I think a balance of both masc and fem is the perfect balance to me. Like they like to get down and dirty but aren't afraid to show that they have feelings as well. That's the perfect kind of guy to me.

    But yeah, I think that you should be yourself. If you do have fem qualities and aren't afraid to show them, then continuing being the guy you are. Because even if you meet a guy who doesn't like who you are, there will be another guy who will.


    It partly depends on what you define as "fem." Are you fem because you are sensitive or submissive (another word with various meanings or connotations) or bottom? It seems to me there can be many variations. BTW, after looking at how you dress in your photos I would probably conclude that you have a strong fem side. I think it looks great too and I would have no problem with that. Maybe if somebody else dressed the same it wouldn't connect with me. It's complicated and that's fine.
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    Nov 23, 2012 7:37 AM GMT
    If someone sets off my gaydar, that's fine. Most of us will cause that to happen. I actually like a little hint of "fem". To me what it means is you can tell that the individual is gay. If I can't "see" it, it actually makes me a bit anxious, because I almost don't believe it. If someone sets off my gaydar so strongly that the needle pings and breaks, then it isn't going to work either.

    I think video aids are a bit better:

    This is someone who you can tell is gay. I would not consider this person "straight acting". This I am attracted to.



    This... I am not attracted to. There's too much effeminate qualities coming from him, and I am turned off.

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    Nov 23, 2012 7:48 AM GMT
    GigoloAssassin said
    not_superman saidI like guys who are comfortable with who they are. The biggest turnoff is "str8 acting".

    THANK YOU!

    SERIOUSLY, If you have to "Act" it, then it's not fooling anybody.
    When I get an iphone I'm going to download grindr and my profile is gonna say "GAY-ACTIN FEM LOOKIN 4 SAME NO CRACKERS NO MUSCLE"
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    Nov 23, 2012 7:51 AM GMT
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    GigoloAssassin said
    not_superman saidI like guys who are comfortable with who they are. The biggest turnoff is "str8 acting".

    THANK YOU!

    SERIOUSLY, If you have to "Act" it, then it's not fooling anybody.
    When I get an iphone I'm going to download grindr and my profile is gonna say "GAY-ACTIN FEM LOOKIN 4 SAME NO CRACKERS NO MUSCLE"
    ok now you're tempting me to do that
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    Nov 23, 2012 8:38 AM GMT
    IslamicBottom said
    lilTanker saidit's always the "masc guys" who are whining about the fem guys..


    I think they need to toughen up!

    Stop being little girls!

    Stop whining!


    No its not.
    Its fem guys making it bad for the rest of us.
    We didnt chose to be turned off and repulsed by them.
    They did.

    Excuse me?? Your a bottom!! Your opinion is irrelevant!

    Bite the pillow and shut up like your suppose too!
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    Nov 23, 2012 9:43 AM GMT
    GAYBIGMACHODUDE1972 saidI will never be friends with feminine gay men.They turn me off.I want nothing
    to with them at all.They are drama freaks and losers to me.They have much
    too baggage for me.I was friends with gay feminine men in the past and I
    regret it.


    Hear that piercing silence? It's all the feminine guys all around the world lamenting that they'll never be friends with an amazing guy like you. icon_lol.gif
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    Nov 23, 2012 9:48 AM GMT
    speciesbeing saidi think a muscle guy with a sissy voice can be really hot.


    is it because every time they open their mouth a new louis handbag falls out just for you?
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    Nov 23, 2012 9:50 AM GMT
    I feel bad for not liking someone for this single quality, but i just can't help it. Being around a feminine guy feels SO wrong to me. I do try to be nice and just avoid them though.
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    Nov 23, 2012 9:54 AM GMT
    jakegi saidI feel bad for not liking someone for this single quality, but i just can't help it. Being around a feminine guy feels SO wrong to me. I do try to be nice and just avoid them though.

    hahahahahaha

    your pathetic

    But please don't be offended by that. Most guys posting on this thread are pathetically sad
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    Nov 23, 2012 11:30 AM GMT
    I was a feminie men before.But I tough up . I guess if he want to change he probably can. BTW., I have no problem with feminine guy for example Richard Simmon (is he gay?). But a drag queen ...probably there some issue ....
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    Nov 23, 2012 11:33 AM GMT
    plenty of my gay friends are slightly to more-than-a-little feminine which i generally just ends up being entertaining and fun. as to a relationship though, i don't think i could date a guy who's too feminine