Post-Anal Fissure

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    Dec 01, 2012 3:37 AM GMT
    As the title implies, I had an injury of moderate severeness towards the end of August as result of a traumatic sexual experience. It was extremely painful, and it took two months for the wound to heal. And just recently found out I may be at a higher risk of suffering from this again (as it states on some internet articles.)

    I don't necessarily bottom all the time, but I enjoy doing it occasionally for the right guy. I know that part of the reason this injury occurred is because I wasn't relaxed. How do you guys get into that mood? I've tried messing around back there, but I usually get this "burn" feeling kick in.. that normal? Could I possibly get back in the game without being torn apart, or would guys suggest otherwise?
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    Dec 01, 2012 5:46 AM GMT
    For the first problem (the tear), I would suggest using (on a daily basis) something like Prep H or products that are similar (just to make sure you are completely healed).


    As for the sex part...take things slow! And I mean really slow, as in major foreplay...like the top hotdogging you (no penetration) until it feels really good...then see how things go.


    I hope these pointers help you, as they seem to do it for me.
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    Dec 01, 2012 6:22 AM GMT
    To the OP, have you seen a colorectal physician about your problem? The burning sensation you are feeling could indicate that the fissures are chronic. That means it could come back should you bottom again regardless on how slow you take it.

    The worse case scenario if your condition is chronic is that you may need surgery to have them removed permanently. Once you've healed post operatively, intercourse might be more enjoyable for you. But your first step if you haven't done so is to see your doctor.

    By the way, I'm a nurse and I can empathize with what you're going through. I have taken care of patients before with fissure problems.
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    Dec 01, 2012 8:58 PM GMT
    Erik101 saidTo the OP, have you seen a colorectal physician about your problem? The burning sensation you are feeling could indicate that the fissures are chronic. That means it could come back should you bottom again regardless on how slow you take it.

    The worse case scenario if your condition is chronic is that you may need surgery to have them removed permanently. Once you've healed post operatively, intercourse might be more enjoyable for you. But your first step if you haven't done so is to see your doctor.

    By the way, I'm a nurse and I can empathize with what you're going through. I have taken care of patients before with fissure problems.


    I went to my primary doctor who prescribed me some ointments, including nitroglycerin and all that stuff. My wound seemed to have perfectly healed, as I never encounter that sensation when passing stool, only concern is when something (at least the size of a finger) goes up there.

    I heard that surgery was only recommended as a last resort if at-home treatment was useless. I have followed up with him, he told me I was getting better and that was months ago. Only issue is I never asked if it was appropriate to engage in the activity once I had healed. Thanks for your input.
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    Dec 02, 2012 12:13 AM GMT
    I like it to burn.icon_twisted.gif
  • Timbales

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    Dec 02, 2012 12:26 AM GMT
    A complimentary partner can help compensate for whatever physical issues you may encounter. If full out penetration is problematic, he can stimulate you finger a finger or two, and you can always use something like a Fleshjack sleeve held between your legs for him to fuck.
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    Feb 12, 2019 3:13 PM GMT
    Well guys, I can share my experience with You all too.

    Some years ago with my partner I had a horrible burning pain after anal sex. I went to toilet after that because I felt a need to do bowel movement, that wasn't the case, only blood showed up.
    Afterwards I went to visit my doctor, that said, that I have inner hemorrhoids, that are causing this. I had to use some medicament's to recover up. Back then I had an unhealthy lifestyle- lots of working hours sitting in a car and late meals, that led me to hardened bowel movements.

    For a time it was good with only two or three times a year burning pain after sex and bleeding when going to toilet.
    So I went to my doctor during the following years to check up on my status, and all the time i denied a possibility for surgical option. I was using prescribed medicament's to heal up. I changed my lifestyle to more healthy eating, more active sports etc., to avoid this thing. But it was all the time with me kept under control. With hemorrhoids I had also anal fissure, that was covered by time with a skin tissue. Looked like a small bump around my sphincter.

    Since I had internal hemorrhoids on phase 2, all the pain I was turning to them, not this anal fissure. Turns out that anal fissure was giving me the most part of this burning feeling during intercourse with a partner and this I discovered only last year sadly.

    When I went to see my doctor last time, he advised me to use medication or to go for a better solution - surgery. At that point I decided to take a surgery. I am still in recovery, because I took it some days ago, but this will be for the best.

    But the thing I am asking - how you guys try to relax your sphincter muscle before going bottom (without poppers)? Are there any good ointment or something that help you relax it before intercourse?

    Or simple lubing can help? The thing is - when I had this anal fissure, then using a finger to lube my ass was not so comfortable as rather going in with a lubed dick in my ass. And not always I can relax so fast to enter intercourse with a partner as he would like.
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    Feb 12, 2019 5:35 PM GMT
    Been there before, I was double penetrated 2 years ago and ended up with anal problems shortly after. Took time to clear up, and bothersome to admit, I still have a stubborn hemorrhoid that won't go away becasue of it. It's a price I pay for "reckless" and "in the moment" fun I guess : /
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    Jun 19, 2019 8:05 PM GMT
    Because of this thing, I think i will need to change my preferences for being TOP. Like seriously. Now have passed like 4 months, but when I try to play with myself and it - i feel pain and discomfort. If movement is too hard, then even some blood drops appear and that burning feel for a day or two..