A Keeper: Waiting for Mr. Right.......

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    Dec 11, 2012 4:44 PM GMT
    SomeSicilianoGuy said
    I forgot where I heard it, but the Zen outlook says it's not a matter of finding Mr. Right, it's being Mr. Right. May be pithy but seems reasonable if you think about it.


    ^ Wise man ;-)
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    Dec 11, 2012 5:27 PM GMT
    U have to be Mr. Right to find or meet Mr. Right......
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    Dec 11, 2012 5:32 PM GMT
    Would two consecutive mr. Wrongs net you mr. Right?
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    Dec 11, 2012 5:33 PM GMT
    Fisheye85 saidWould two consecutive mr. Wrongs net you mr. Right?


    I've tried that theory and it didn't work out so well lol.
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    Dec 11, 2012 5:36 PM GMT
    Fisheye85 saidWould two consecutive mr. Wrongs net you mr. Right?


    Karma.......
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    Dec 14, 2012 11:09 PM GMT
    ForgeetMee saidI am Mr Wrong icon_biggrin.gif I just believe that there's a guy on a donkey that will arrive one day icon_biggrin.gif


    yep, yep, that sums it up for me, too.
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    Dec 16, 2012 1:12 PM GMT
    vitaliyvloan said
    ForgeetMee saidI am Mr Wrong icon_biggrin.gif I just believe that there's a guy on a donkey that will arrive one day icon_biggrin.gif


    yep, yep, that sums it up for me, too.


    Don't dismay guys icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 16, 2012 1:50 PM GMT
    Then there's the guy who is, Right For Me...the other needle in the haystack.
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    Dec 16, 2012 1:54 PM GMT
    Maybe you are not the right one for the Mr Right that you have in mind!
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    Dec 16, 2012 2:28 PM GMT
    Judging from the experience of many of our friends I think many men are looking for Mr Perfect or Prince Charming and that's why the are so lonely.
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    Dec 16, 2012 2:30 PM GMT
    I dated Mr. Wong. He owned a Chinese restaurant.
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    Dec 16, 2012 2:35 PM GMT
    camfer saidI dated Mr. Wong. He owned a Chinese restaurant.


    Prince DisAlarming........
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    Dec 16, 2012 3:30 PM GMT
    "Mr. Rights" do exist but they're snapped up as soon as they become available.
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    Dec 16, 2012 3:46 PM GMT
    spgem saidU have to be Mr. Right to find or meet Mr. Right......


    I think the 'being Mr. Right' involves honesty. Being honest about what we bring to the table and where we fall short. Being honest about what we want vs. what we need.......which are often different things.
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    Dec 16, 2012 4:59 PM GMT
    wild_sky360 said...
    There are lots of keepers out there, though you may not recognize them as such at the time. It's a magical moment when you are suddenly in awe of the beautiful soul you've been blessed to cross paths with...someone who doesn't add up on your check list. It's not settling. It's realizing the gem that was hidden.

    Love the one your with.


    This.
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    Dec 20, 2012 8:31 PM GMT
    There are diamonds in the rough Mr. Rights.......
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    Dec 20, 2012 8:34 PM GMT
    I used to believe that I should be just like the kind of person I wanted to attract, in order find the "right guy". Than, I realized that I should love myself for all my good and bad points. So, that fact, flipped, I should learn to love someone else for all the good or bad points they have, as long as they're the right kind of flaws and perfections I like; cause knowing someone for who they are personally is something I think we all love. icon_razz.gificon_surprised.gificon_wink.gif
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    Dec 20, 2012 8:50 PM GMT
    JRaRJ saidI used to believe that I should be just like the kind of person I wanted to attract, in order find the "right guy". Than, I realized that I should love myself for all my good and bad points. So, that fact, flipped, I should learn to love someone else for all the good or bad points they have, as long as they're the right kind of flaws and perfections I like; cause knowing someone for who they are personally is something I think we all love. icon_razz.gificon_surprised.gificon_wink.gif


    So true icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 20, 2012 8:52 PM GMT
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    JRaRJ saidI used to believe that I should be just like the kind of person I wanted to attract, in order find the "right guy". Than, I realized that I should love myself for all my good and bad points. So, that fact, flipped, I should learn to love someone else for all the good or bad points they have, as long as they're the right kind of flaws and perfections I like; cause knowing someone for who they are personally is something I think we all love. icon_razz.gificon_surprised.gificon_wink.gif


    So true icon_smile.gif
    Makes me wonder if we're all just conditioned to want to have the absolute BEST, and not accept the other optional thinking^^^?
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    Dec 20, 2012 8:55 PM GMT
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    spgem said
    JRaRJ saidI used to believe that I should be just like the kind of person I wanted to attract, in order find the "right guy". Than, I realized that I should love myself for all my good and bad points. So, that fact, flipped, I should learn to love someone else for all the good or bad points they have, as long as they're the right kind of flaws and perfections I like; cause knowing someone for who they are personally is something I think we all love. icon_razz.gificon_surprised.gificon_wink.gif


    So true icon_smile.gif
    Makes me wonder if we're all just conditioned to want to have the absolute BEST, and not accept the other optional thinking^^^?


    Isn't it ironic how the majority of us want the best for us when were not the best ourselves?!
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    Dec 20, 2012 8:57 PM GMT
    I *have* met him.

    We both have to work at it, there is never a 100% perfect fit. But the rewards make the effort worth it. icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 20, 2012 8:58 PM GMT
    intensity69 saidI *have* met him.

    We both have to work at it, there is never a 100% perfect fit. But the rewards make the effort worth it. icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif


    U guys are lucky icon_smile.gif
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    Dec 20, 2012 9:03 PM GMT
    spgem said
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    spgem said
    JRaRJ saidI used to believe that I should be just like the kind of person I wanted to attract, in order find the "right guy". Than, I realized that I should love myself for all my good and bad points. So, that fact, flipped, I should learn to love someone else for all the good or bad points they have, as long as they're the right kind of flaws and perfections I like; cause knowing someone for who they are personally is something I think we all love. icon_razz.gificon_surprised.gificon_wink.gif


    So true icon_smile.gif
    Makes me wonder if we're all just conditioned to want to have the absolute BEST, and not accept the other optional thinking^^^?


    Isn't it ironic how the majority of us want the best for us when were not the best ourselves?!

    Even we all could have what we wanted, would 2 distinct bests really work out?
    I think yourname and intensity both have it worked out... it takes lots of work, no matter who you're in love with.
    In terms of Want, yes I everyone wants more than they deserve, for the sake of they are who they are; but when it comes to Needs, like Love, we all struggle to get passed what we're hoarding for ourselves, and limit others and in turn ourselves. There is something to be said for "Free Love", but its pointless to give it away, if you're giving it to the wrong people/circumstances. Like pearls to swine, sometimes.
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    Dec 20, 2012 9:04 PM GMT
    intensity69 saidI *have* met him.

    We both have to work at it, there is never a 100% perfect fit. But the rewards make the effort worth it. icon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gificon_biggrin.gif

    *Envy/Admiration icon_sad.gificon_confused.gif
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    Dec 26, 2012 3:14 AM GMT
    I sure hope there's a Mr. Right. I'm in a relationship yet I'm almost certain this isn't the one yet.

    And dating fucking sucks. It's exhausting.