Are guys over 40 still hot?

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    Dec 31, 2012 1:26 AM GMT
    Hmmm, I think so.. I am way over 40 and feel and look better than before!
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    Dec 31, 2012 1:26 AM GMT
    yes.. we get hotter
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    Dec 31, 2012 1:29 AM GMT
    Tastes change. Big time.
  • Suetonius

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    Dec 31, 2012 1:30 AM GMT
    MedGen saidI..im kinda scared i will go bald and ugly and like wrinkly and stuff...
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    Bald or wrinkly ? Look at how your father and grandfathers looked when they were 40. If they were already bald then, then you will likely be also (unless someone discovers a remedy before then). As to "wrinkly" - I think you are thinking of 80 year olds, when you probably won't care about sex anymore, anyway.
  • amidon7

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    Dec 31, 2012 1:32 AM GMT
    We're all bald, wrinkly and shrivelled.
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    Dec 31, 2012 1:39 AM GMT
    Suetonius said
    MedGen saidI..im kinda scared i will go bald and ugly and like wrinkly and stuff...
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    Bald or wrinkly ? Look at how your father and grandfathers looked when they were 40. If they were already bald then, then you will likely be also (unless someone discovers a remedy before then). As to "wrinkly" - I think you are thinking of 80 year olds, when you probably won't care about sex anymore, anyway.

    Booyah.

    My father is 51 years old - not bald and without a head of grey hair. icon_cool.gif
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    Dec 31, 2012 1:41 AM GMT
    40 is the new 20
  • Suetonius

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    Dec 31, 2012 1:42 AM GMT
    MedGen saidcuz my youth is crap ...im getting used to the idea that i cant have what i want or rather who i want, im dedicating my "youth" to study and living healthy ...hope mother nature gives me some nice genes that i can keep longer lol

    Jeez, you're fairly goodlooking now. So it's not too late for you. Just search out a good older portrait painter who likes your looks, get him to paint your portrait, hang it your closet, and you will remain youthful looking all your life, and every gay men who meets you will fall for you.
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    Dec 31, 2012 1:43 AM GMT
    Guys over 40s have their own charm, totally different to the 'young' men. Personally I am attracted to guys with gentleman attitude, regardless the age. By having said that, I met this guy from my gym. He's in his early 40s and he's insanely charming; Anderson Cooper-look-alike, he drives mini cooper, he take care of his health, he's doing fine in his career and a very gentleman lad. Every other 'young hot fit' guys in the gym are fading to insignificance when he's around. We sort of seing each other and really hit it off.

    I know this sounds cliche, but your personality and attitude that matters. AND EQUALLY IMPORTANT is how do you portray your attitude in term of your physical look ( gentleman but looks like a scruffy hobo doesn't really make sense isn't it?) And the question of is elder men loosing their hotness when they reached their 40s doesn't really apply anymore (:
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    Dec 31, 2012 1:47 AM GMT
    stupid question is stupid. Search that age group here on RJ and you'll find plenty of scorching-hot guys who are 40+
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    Dec 31, 2012 1:56 AM GMT
    Ahh... You're 21. That explains this post. Oh the places you'll go....
  • FRE0

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    Dec 31, 2012 2:02 AM GMT
    amidon7 saidWe're all bald, wrinkly and shrivelled.
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    ALL? You certainly are not!
  • HPgeek934

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    Dec 31, 2012 2:08 AM GMT
    40 year old men are sexy as hell! Look at the majority of the men on this site.
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    Dec 31, 2012 2:10 AM GMT
    I sure hope so.
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    Dec 31, 2012 2:13 AM GMT
    It depends on the guy, if he eats right, exercise, being healthy ...etc. I usually like older guys and would consider a guy in his early 40s! Sure ! If he looks like Brad Pitt at 48 but a gay version, I'd sure want to fuck/date him. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Dec 31, 2012 2:15 AM GMT
    I did, LOL
  • Beeftastic

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    Dec 31, 2012 2:21 AM GMT
    I think I get almost more guys chasing after me than when I was in my twenties. Of course the Internet makes it easier to be chased lol. As do good pics icon_smile.gif

    Most of the guys that chase me are in their twenties to early thirties.
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    Dec 31, 2012 2:36 AM GMT
    I see so many hot 40 and 50 year old guys it is ridiculous!!! I wouldn't mind being the "son" to those "daddies"!!!!
  • Trauts

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    Dec 31, 2012 2:36 AM GMT
    Only if they're on this site ;)
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    Dec 31, 2012 2:40 AM GMT
    OMG yes! One specific guy on here IMMEDIATELY comes to my mind...
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    Dec 31, 2012 2:53 AM GMT
    M.G., you are so innocent; you are doing exactly the right thing being patient. Now is the time to be extra vigilant toward one's education

    "Live like no-other; so that, you can retire early & live like no-other!"

    Here is a pregnant thought for you:
    All the ravages of time you mentioned in your op; will happen to you too, only if you are extremely fortunate (meaning you achieve the privilege of a long life) . . .
    From the looks of things, you've got nothing to worry about !!

    As for your temporary loneliness, you can always chat/email one of us "Old Guys" (or any of the others for that matter) for some consolation or advice.
    Frankly, unless you find "the one" you truly-Love, you are not missing so much . . .

    So, just remain Tough-&-Strong for a while longer; you'll be just fine. Oh, and yes, the "fountain of youth" is real; it is to be found in the endocrine-secretions of the glands; particularly, the gonads. Simple optimism is equally powerful !


    Best Wishes,
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    Dec 31, 2012 3:28 AM GMT
    jmusmc85 saidMen don't get interesting till after they hit 30. In fact, I would take a good looking 30-40 something over a guy in his 20's ANYDAY!!!

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    over 35
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    Dec 31, 2012 3:28 AM GMT
    5O is the new 38

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    Dec 31, 2012 3:33 AM GMT
    Roguewave said5O is the new 38



    Agreed, I can pass for 38––
    EASY !
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    Dec 31, 2012 3:34 AM GMT
    paulflexes saidNope. It's proven science that once you turn 40 - no matter how hot you were at 39 - you instantly turn ugly as shit with no hope left for getting laid.


    You tell me this now Paul?

    Where's my jumbo size tub of cake frosting?icon_cry.gif