Feel like I'm becoming robotic, and it concerns me.

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    Feb 18, 2013 4:17 PM GMT
    SkinnyBitch said
    I used to enjoy flirting, talking to hot guys. Even getting harmlessly sweet on the odd one. Now I have to make an effort to care.

    I see all of you posters having crushes on each other, and I have been like that in past forums. But here, where there are beautiful men everywhere, I am just not feeling anything. I don't even know if it's possible for me to get giddy and excited to get to know someone in a flirtatious or friendly way anymore.

    I can have a pleasant exchange with someone but afterward I feel like it would be fine if it didn't happen again. I can't remember what it feels like to walk away from a social situation where I think "I'm really glad I came here today and met these people".

    Do you lose the giddiness of flirtation & meeting people, naturally as you get older?

    Watch a soap opera. It'll get your spirits up to flirt with a boy.
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    Feb 19, 2013 8:15 AM GMT
    Oh look what was bumped.

    Soap operas are too dramatic for me. I go for comfy, sweet and reliable.

    I guess the update to this thread is that I'm okay with it. If there are people out there I would enjoy meeting, I won't find them, and there's not real reason why that's bad. It could even be good.
    I'm drifting away from humanity in general. Soon, they will be specks on the beach as I sail into the west.