Jan 01, 2013 9:58 AM GMT
So I'm dating a really lovely guy who has been in a very tough partnership and finally moved out and been single for a bit. The relationship was very controlling and he's finally found his " voice". The problem is that he comes across as sarcastic and brittle and also refuses to have any anal sex so far. We have jerked off, cuddled rimmed and all but he seems to be setting the terms irrespective of what I want. Ive given it time to see how I feel but I'm now at a point that I'm not entirely happy about this- and feel that I'm not really so much someone he likes as opposed to a stepping stone to his new life.