Am I the only one who can;t get a man my own age

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    Jan 03, 2013 8:43 PM GMT
    eagermuscle saidI've been called a lot of things, but never "daddy!"

    Hello Daddy..here you go
    Or better
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    Jan 03, 2013 8:43 PM GMT
    Shagglot said
    eagermuscle saidI've been called a lot of things, but never "daddy!"

    Hello Daddy..here you go
    Or better
    Hola Papi icon_cool.gif


    Oy vey

  • Jan 03, 2013 8:44 PM GMT
    I've been called Papi too. .lol
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    Jan 03, 2013 8:44 PM GMT
    Give it time dude
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    Jan 03, 2013 8:45 PM GMT
    I've noticed that men in their 20's are too immature and just wanna mess around. They are also not very well established career wise, financially, etc. So dating older men is good in that respect but I just wish I could find someone young looking cause for some reason I'm attracted to young looking guys lol.
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    Jan 03, 2013 8:45 PM GMT
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    onemusclefreak saidSorry. That's what they call me.. I was horrified at first but I've embrassed the name now... Wait a few years, you'll understand. lol
    A few? I'm hoping to keep this hair color for at least another decade.
    My dad's 50+ and still has a full head of dark hair.
    Guess who's keeping his locks for another century?
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    Jan 03, 2013 8:51 PM GMT
    onemusclefreak saidI've been called Papi too. .lol



    I HATE that word. "Papi" ugh, it gives me the hibbie jibbies.
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    Jan 03, 2013 9:03 PM GMT
    imasrxd saidwell, it gets even weirder when you get older. i'm practically invisible to guys in the 35-45 year range. it seems that the only guys that'll talk to me are older or younger.


    Really!?icon_confused.gif

    2nd most surprising thing I discovered today.
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    Jan 03, 2013 10:06 PM GMT
    I like guys my age and older guys up to a certain point. My problem is that there are guys around here I am just not interested in unless they are straight.
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    Jan 03, 2013 10:40 PM GMT
    Hungarian saidAge is a label, like most if not all labels, if you ignore them the world opens up to possibilities.


    Of course you'd want guys to do that rolleyes.gif
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    Jan 04, 2013 2:36 AM GMT
    TheBizMan saidI can't speak for older men since I am not one. But it seems that many of them have matured beyond the age of caring about body type, ethnicity, and perfection in general. Younger guys want it all. Most of us don't have it all. So we find ourselves uncomfortable around each other. Afraid to screw up. Afraid to be ourselves. Afraid to look the way we do.

    It's pathetic. Fuck younger guys.....that's all they are good for anyway :/


    Good generalization...agreed


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    Jan 04, 2013 2:47 AM GMT
    cookingitsweet saidAm I the only one who can;t get a man my own age
    Yes.
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:04 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    cookingitsweet saidAm I the only one who can;t get a man my own age
    Yes.


    I'll second that. *flaming continues*
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    Jan 04, 2013 4:45 AM GMT
    I completely forgot - I guess I have been called "daddy." In Miami I'd get referred to as "papi chulo." A lot. Latins were so...uninhibited.
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    Jan 04, 2013 4:56 AM GMT
    I'm all about the age difference thing. When I was in my late teens, I only found men in their 30s and 40s attractive and now that I'm there, the same thing is happening in reverse. And I have to say, the chemistry is just hotter - on both sides of the equation. I've tried making it work with someone in the same age range throughout my life and it has NEVER worked compared with how hot the big bro/lil bro thing is. Just check it out for yourself. I think you'll be surprised how intense the bond really is.
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:03 PM GMT
    MICHAEL_AMIR said

    This is what you want people to believe and you actually think it's cool to be called daddy by someone you're screwing... The people of craigslist never cease to amaze me...

    #fetishes #age #paleskin #bsdm

    What's with all this judgement and attack ? You do understand all these things Daddy etc are just something you do inside the bedroom. I don't think people go around with younger guys pretending they are really their Daddy. Nothing good will come out with this kind of personal attack.
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:14 PM GMT
    MICHAEL_AMIR said

    I'm sorry for stating my opinion.


    No need to be sorry for stating your opinion. Its just you need to respect others opinion/preferences also.
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:29 PM GMT
    cookingitsweet saidI seriously don't know what my deal is. I like older men as well as men my own age, but it's so easier to come onto an older man and when I date younger i find myself insecure and intimidated. I kno the one will be closer to my own age, so what do I do?


    You're not the only one. I have yet to be in a relationship with anyone close to my age. The closest was 21.... when I was 16/17.... LOL
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:46 PM GMT
    I can't find a guy any age, so always remember...it could be worse!
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    Jan 06, 2013 6:53 AM GMT
    MICHAEL_AMIR saidI'm sorry for stating my opinion.

    You're not sorry. And you're not stating an opinion. You often make remarks as absolutes. Believing one's opinion corresponds to the way the world really operates is a naturally occurring fallacy in our society.
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    Jan 06, 2013 7:03 AM GMT
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    cookingitsweet saidI've gone on a few dates with guys in there 20s lately and can't keep but thinking negative thoughts during like HE'S NOT GONNA WANNA SEE YOU AGAIN. YOU'RE TOO UGLY. I am not usually this insecure.


    "Change the channel" on negative programming and be realistic regarding your self. Being realistic (neither overestimating nor underestimating) about yourself is fundamental to a real sense of self-confidence and self-esteem.

    Acknowledging and accepting who you are, what you are (and aren't) can allow you to find your "comfort zone". The process also helps to build awareness that others aren't any more "perfect" than anybody else.

    Be happy with "you" first...then go for the hottest one's in the pond!


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    Jan 06, 2013 7:26 AM GMT
    I can't. I used to attract only older men. Now, I attract older or younger men. I rarely attract anyone my own age. I don't know why.
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    Jan 06, 2013 7:39 AM GMT
    MICHAEL_AMIR said
    Shagglot said
    MICHAEL_AMIR said

    This is what you want people to believe and you actually think it's cool to be called daddy by someone you're screwing... The people of craigslist never cease to amaze me...

    #fetishes #age #paleskin #bsdm

    What's with all this judgement and attack ? You do understand all these things Daddy etc are just something you do inside the bedroom. I don't think people go around with younger guys pretending they are really their Daddy. Nothing good will come out with this kind of personal attack.


    I'm not attacking anyone. I wouldn't do that. I'm just saying that the sex I have is more reformed and most likely much healthier than the fetishes 95% of the real jockers participate in. Daddy fetishes? Pig bottom sluts? Bsdm? Bareback? It's all just too much for me to handle...

    I'm sorry for stating my opinion.


    If everyone here is so terribly perverse by your standards...then perhaps you should leave...It's a safe bet you won't be missed.

    There are more that 300,000 RJ Members. Have you interacted with "95%" of them?

    My regards to you and your "reformed sex."

    It is not the statement of your opinion you should be sorry for.

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  • Sep 25, 2013 8:16 PM GMT
    motivated saidI can't find a guy any age, so always remember...it could be worse!



    This is VERY hard to believe. You are so cute!!
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    Sep 25, 2013 8:24 PM GMT
    So maybe he married someone in the interim? Maybe even his own age?