Am I the only one who can;t get a man my own age

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    Sep 25, 2013 8:27 PM GMT
    youmotherfixers said*looks @ OP's profile*

    *notices that he's married*

    *wonders what this thread is all about*



    It's from January. Sad thing, I was single then and am still single now. icon_mad.gif
  • tuffguyndc

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    Sep 25, 2013 8:41 PM GMT
    my question is why are you so insecure to date guys your own age or younger? considering you are 24, i would think that would be easier. as for dating guys older that's not hard to do. most gay men are always trying to get a younger guy.
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    Sep 25, 2013 8:42 PM GMT
    dudewithabeard said
    youmotherfixers said*looks @ OP's profile*

    *notices that he's married*

    *wonders what this thread is all about*



    It's from January. Sad thing, I was single then and am still single now. icon_mad.gif
    wow, if you are stil single i am never going to find someone jeeze you are very good looking buddy.
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    Sep 25, 2013 8:44 PM GMT
    youmotherfixers said*looks @ OP's profile*

    *notices that he's married*

    *wonders what this thread is all about*



    icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif

    Older guy slapped a ring on it fast--imagine that?
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    Sep 25, 2013 8:59 PM GMT
    youmotherfixers said
    dudewithabeard said
    youmotherfixers said*looks @ OP's profile*

    *notices that he's married*

    *wonders what this thread is all about*



    It's from January. Sad thing, I was single then and am still single now. icon_mad.gif


    man.... try being single for 26 and in a couple of days 27 years. 9 months is NOT that bad.

    while still nowhere close to 27 years, I have been single for 2 and 1/2 years.
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    Sep 25, 2013 9:00 PM GMT
    tuffguyndc said
    dudewithabeard said
    youmotherfixers said*looks @ OP's profile*

    *notices that he's married*

    *wonders what this thread is all about*



    It's from January. Sad thing, I was single then and am still single now. icon_mad.gif
    wow, if you are stil single i am never going to find someone jeeze you are very good looking buddy.


    thank you.. I am obviously chasing after the wrong guys.
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    Sep 25, 2013 9:07 PM GMT
    DudeInNOVA saidI can't. I used to attract only older men. Now, I attract older or younger men. I rarely attract anyone my own age. I don't know why.
    I am surprised you attract anyone, for that matter.
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    Sep 25, 2013 9:44 PM GMT
    I think is definitely harder as we get older, based on life experiences, expectations and what we are flexible or not. I had a date this past Friday, I had a great time we had chatted a couple of times over the weeks prior to our first date and definitely there was some chemistry - however there were a couple of red flags-

    (1) He chose the restaurant and I had no qualms about it, however when the check came he noted we need to split. I was a bit shocked since he asked me out. I am currently looking for jobs so not in the best situation and he knew about this. If he would have been upfront about it prior to the date it would have been different.

    (2) He noted that his parents were aging and would be moving in with him in a year or so with him to take care of them. I think this is admirable and I have nothing against this; but for me moving forward as a couple I would have to say no- reason being is I am already going through something similar with a parent long distance, the last thing I want to do is to take care of my partner, and additionally two more individuals in the same household, not to mention privacy.

    (3) Once I met him I did not have that great attraction for him. So why move forward.

    I think it was great having a date and that is why they are there for - but will not pursue him. He has not shown any interest since he has not called after our first date which was on Friday, so it gives me that signal as well. I do not mind dating my own age, but also like younger as well.
  • Breeman

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    Sep 25, 2013 10:51 PM GMT
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    I can't get them at any age lately.
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    Sep 25, 2013 11:17 PM GMT
    I usually date guys older than me, mostly between 26-30, they are more mature.
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    Sep 25, 2013 11:22 PM GMT
    Koaa2 saidLiving in Palm Springs area, I see a lot of older guys, who thought they were hot stuff when they were younger, and felt they didn't have to improve anything other than their bodies. Well, now in their 60s they are usually single and working as clerks at Starbucks, waiters or greaters and have roommates. Be careful out there it gets nasty when you age and haven't had a plan earlier in life.


    I live in PS too.
    I've been in the service industry all my life, I've done OK by it. Maybe you and your partner are "set" and are in the lap of luxury.....no need to sneer down at others who are working still. Nothing wrong with roommates either! (I don't but geez!!)

    Did you mean Greeters? Like at Walmart? I hope they don't offend you too much. Pardon them for living!
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    Oct 24, 2013 12:48 AM GMT
    It happens to me too .... i donno maybe they dont like me lol ?