Why is this site so conservative?

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    Jan 04, 2013 3:32 AM GMT
    Buoy44025 said.am thinking of simply deleting my profile here. What gives with this group of guys?


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    Jan 04, 2013 3:33 AM GMT
    I'm not sure what piss play has to do with heteronormativity. Since straight people are also into that, isn't your piss play just your fetish? What does it have to do with being gay or out?
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:35 AM GMT
    Buoy44025 saidAnd so again, I ask (since no one ha answered) - are you guys 100% out? Or trying to pass as str8 in life?
    2 people answered are u ignoring us u little bitch

    also piss smells gross and tastes gross so shut the fuck up about it it's like how i don't like eating tomatoes because they taste fucking gross and i hate pickles because they taste and smell gross
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:36 AM GMT
    Thank you to the last two posters for at least answering my question.

    However, please re-read the thread: I never said you HAD to engage in watersports.

    I was surprised by the degree of revulsion to watersports and some other standard gay sexual practices.

    Reread the intial response to my post, and someone threw in meth and coke and shit into the same category. It was indicative of my initial question:

    What makes this site so conservative?
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:36 AM GMT
    Who died and made you the Thought Police? Heaven forbid someone have a opinion that is different from yours. For someone who preaches about open-mindedness, you seem very closed-minded to the idea that maybe...just maybe...some gay men are "vanilla".

    And for the record:
    1) Yes I'm out.
    2) No I don't live my life trying to pass as heterosexual.
    3) I'm into water sports


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    Jan 04, 2013 3:36 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    Buoy44025 said...says the good looking guy who cant take his shirt off without hiding his face....
    Hey "Buoy"....
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:36 AM GMT
    This is soooo gonna get good icon_cool.gif

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    Jan 04, 2013 3:36 AM GMT
    I have to like pee to be gay?!

    Time to go find a good woman...
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:37 AM GMT
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:37 AM GMT
    Buoy44025 saidThank you to the last two posters for at least answering my question.

    However, please re-read the thread: I never said you HAD to engage in watersports.

    I was surprised by the degree of revulsion to watersports and some other standard gay sexual practices.

    Reread the intial response to my post, and someone threw in meth and coke and shit into the same category. It was indicative of my initial question:

    What makes this site so conservative?


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    Jan 04, 2013 3:38 AM GMT
    Buoy44025 saidWhat makes this site so conservative?
    what makes real life so conservative?
    what makes america so conservative?
    what makes the middle east so conservative?
    what makes china so conservative?
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:39 AM GMT
    I don't think this site is conservative - just real. It's the only gay website I've ever found where I can relate to most of the guys that have profiles. We talk to each other like real human beings instead of objects. It makes me feel safer and more comfortable being gay. Thank god there's a place like this out there for weirdo's like me.
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:39 AM GMT
    Us kinksters are a quiet bunch.
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:39 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    Buoy44025 said...says the good looking guy who cant take his shirt off without hiding his face....

    Hey "Buoy"....

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    Adorable pic!!
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:41 AM GMT
    You guys scared him off icon_cry.gif
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:41 AM GMT
    Wait. If getting pissed on makes you gay...


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    Dude! Toilets are fucking homos. It all makes sense now.
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:41 AM GMT
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    I love this one!!!!
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:42 AM GMT
    I think the guy who started this post just needs others to approve of the kinky shit that he is into. Drinking someone else's piss is gross and disgusting as are a number of other "sexual" acts that some people get off to. You can't just say that anything goes and if you don't agree that you are stuck up and falling into a "heternormative" trap... there are standards of behavior for everyone, including gays.
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:42 AM GMT
    I hope someone pees on him and makes him feel better icon_neutral.gif
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:42 AM GMT
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:43 AM GMT
    Bromoflexual saidYou guys scared him off icon_cry.gif

    Good riddance,

    If all it takes is one tread to scare him away, this site is better of without "out and proud" assholes like him
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:45 AM GMT
    Buoy44025 saidWhat makes this site so conservative?


    I see what you're saying.

    OK, about your claim that a majority of gay men are into piss play (a couple of posts up), I think you'll have to back that up with an actual statistic other than anecdotal experience.

    About revulsion: you're repulsed by shit-taking. Each subset of sexual fetishism finds the next level repulsive. The next level thinks the previous are being a bunch of pussies.

    You'd have a better argument if you actually had evidence that a majority of gays are into piss play (which I doubt, but I could be wrong). I'm certain there are a few on this site who are, or at least find it intriguing. But it may not be a matter of conservative (fuddy duddy) versus open.

    I'd argue that your fascination with piss play comes from fetishizing part of your early childhood development, when you were a bed-wetter and got punished for it; that reveling it the piss was a part of your "emancipation" from the shackles of your probably repressive childhood. Tell me if this is the case; because I find it hard to imagine someone with a bland, relatively trauma-free childhood would suddenly develop piss-drinking urges.
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:45 AM GMT
    Claystation saidI hope someone pees on him and makes him feel better icon_neutral.gif


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    Jan 04, 2013 3:46 AM GMT
    yourname2000 said
    Bromoflexual saidYou guys scared him off icon_cry.gif

    D'awww.....and I thought the big strong man was gonna stick around and school all us closeted 'mos who are so shy about our sexy talk. icon_neutral.gif

    Now I'll be "st8" forever. I has a sad. icon_cry.gif


    Here, lemme baptize you in my golden shower so you can be a PROPER ghey. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 04, 2013 3:47 AM GMT
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    Buoy44025 saidAnd so again, I ask (since no one ha answered) - are you guys 100% out? Or trying to pass as str8 in life?
    2 people answered are u ignoring us u little bitch

    also piss smells gross and tastes gross so shut the fuck up about it it's like how i don't like eating tomatoes because they taste fucking gross and i hate pickles because they taste and smell gross


    TOMATOES?? SO FUCKING GROSS!!!icon_evil.gif
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