Buoy44025 saidI am on just about every gay site on the net...and I have to say, I have never run across a group of guys - on the whole - who are so conservative as this site. There are *so* many comments on these threads slamming open relationships, and shunning anything non-vanilla (piss play, nipple piercing, etc).

It's almost...well...weird to see so many "gay" men hold on to such strong heternormative values. I am wondering...

..Are many of you closted? Do you try to 'pass' as straight in most of the world, thus adopting straight sexual value mores?

I'm really, really intrigued...am thinking of simply deleting my profile here. What gives with this group of guys?

Since you hid or deleted your profile, you're not man enough for this site.