Casual Sex Hook Up Protocol

  • Sparkycat

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    Sep 22, 2008 3:04 AM GMT
    Suppose you connect with a guy through an online web site like men4sexnow, and you decide to meet at your place for sex. You don't know the guy, and you both understand it's just a hook up for casual sex. What do you do when he comes in your house? What do you say? How do you get the sex started? Do you try to have a little casual conversation first. Or do you just say, "The bedroom is this way. Let's get naked"?
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    Sep 22, 2008 3:12 AM GMT
    I did exactly that a few times in the late '90s. I showed up at his place, did a short introduction and made some small talk, then went right to the business at hand. The sex was good, the relationships of little importance and never expanded.

    The analogy for me is bar tricking, and most of the same rules apply. I like the Army acronym: KISS (Keep It Simple Stupid).
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    Sep 22, 2008 3:14 AM GMT
    If the fantasy is that he comes to your door and you are tied up on the bathroom floor, then conversation isn't really necessary.

    I really appreciate a little conversation first. The guy is a total stranger in a strangers house. How does he know if you are making a suit out of human skin? If he wants to forgo the pleasantries and just hop on your cock then he will make it known.

    There are no hard rules, as Emily Post never got laid once in her life.