Wendigo9 saidI think it depends on what kind of chemestry you and your partner have. To speak honestly about mine, well I haven't had good sex in almost 4 years, and my bf as no idea that I'm not happy with him. I feel like we're Joe and Bonnie from Family Guy, I'm just not satisfied with him that way, and need something new.
Somehow can relate to that. I like my husband very much, and we are a very good match on emotional and other levels, sex is not really bad either, but still it lacks something for me. Cannot be sure what it is, but I have the feeling to tend to steer clear from sex with him and rather cuddle and make out.
Maybe this is coming from having the same scenario for sex too long, no variety, no creativity, and so lost that interest? I'm willing to try revive it, yet very hard to overcome the mindset that wants to avoid it...
Does not help that I like topping more than he likes to bottom. He does it for me now and then, but a bit less exciting to top a guy that only does it for me and does not really enjoy it himself.