Jan 21, 2013 12:59 AM GMT
mybud saidYou're vice president and want to be president for a fraternity that promotes hate and negativity on being gay..When they continue with such comments they're actually talking about you...Grow some nuts and confront the situation..If you can't..don't post on here and bitch about it...
This pretty much sums it up. You wanta' be a leader? Then, LEAD. This is a great opportunity for you to grow up, have leadership skills, help others, and help yourself, all while fostering understanding.
When you grow older, hopefully, you'll learn about being selfless, and leading for the less fortunate. That ability to have compassion, and to work actively for change is something that is a good thing, which you don't seem to have just yet, but, that self centered view is typical for your age. Believe it, or not, The World is NOT all about you. This is a chance for you to change folks, in a positive way, rather than being miserable, dishonest, low esteem, etc.
Learn to like yourself. Learn to be selfless. Learn to TRULY lead. The rest will follow.
Life isn't about doing easy things, but, about walking into, through, above, and beyond our challenges.
You wanna' be a leader? Act like it. Is leadership always easy, or popular? Of course not.